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Ep 16- last minute of the episode, when FL was trying to convince ML to play the mobile game, She looked and sounded exactly like Liu Yifei. Her looks have similarities to LYF, but I found the voice and acting style also have similarities with LYF in that scene.

When FL was telling ML to change the surgeon's name to Dr. Ding, I was like wth are you doing, girl? You can't say that to your trainer when your trainer offered you the surgery In front of a lot of people and the whole department know that you are the surgeon. It is downright disrespectful to your trainer and his judgment. ML said those words because he cared for her. If it was another trainer who doesn't say anything, FL would not be getting another surgery chance in the next 6 months. And most importantly, she wouldn't be overcoming her fear and challenges. She needs to face the reality.
I know, ML has some problems. He needs some things to reflect on. But we as the viewers should not be too much emotionally invested and find faults in his every action. Try to be more positive, not be negative all the time. Think everything with an open mind, do not think everything as you want to think.
Also, both ML and FL are 30 or more than 30 years old. We shouldn't expect to see some adrenaline-rushed romance as we see for teenage or twenties couples. Every action you do, and every word you say have consequences. We need to give more time before jumping to any conclusions.

For Cdramas and Jdramas, I would prefer Age group ratings from the statistics. The rating provided by the MDL largely depends on the number of votes. The dramas go from unranked to ranked phase when the drama is completed or about 3000 votes are cast. For the ranked dramas, the ratings increase with the number of votes. Suppose, Average rating for a drama is 8.5. The number of votes is 200. In this case, the ratings will be given 8.1 or 8.2. But if the number of votes is 20k, the ratings will show 8.5 or 8.6 if the votes go beyond 50k. Kdramas always get more than 20k-30k votes. They always have higher ratings. But some Cdramas get less than 1k votes. These dramas will always be underrated. It is better to check age group ratings from the statistics, which show average ratings for the different age groups. You can get a realistic estimate.

Haha, I can see many "Meet Yourself" viewers in the comment section of this drama. I miss those times. Truly, Meet Yourself set such a high standard that hardly any other drama can achieve that. I know, Love Heals will never reach that standard, but still, it is a good drama. Comparing this drama with Meet Yourself is never fair.
We need to give other dramas more chances and try to be positive, not negative all the time. Don't jump to conclusions all the time very quickly.
I love both FL (she looks stunning) and ML (he needs some reflections to make). They both have their faults, but still, somehow the drama feels good to watch. There is something in this drama that keeps me eagerly waiting for the next episodes to come.

Oh, really! Then, I take my words back. I hoped to see a good 2nd FL character, but probably not happening in this drama.

I just finished ep 6. Yup, she tried to hurt the FL. Probably you are right. But, I still believe there are some good sides to her. Probably it's too early to jump to conclusions.

Yup, I saw her too. She seems annoying at first, but I think she is a good girl. I just saw the trailer. The trailer seems like a typical melodrama type trailer, but in reality, the drama is completely different. I hope, the drama will keep its funny light ambiance till the end.

A Nice Valentine's Treat- Watched the first 4 episodes, and so far so good. The drama is damn funny. No annoying character so far, and I don't think there will be any. The drama is just simple fun.

I also try the same, but don't know why I can't help and always get myself spoiled if there is any spoiler available, lol. So, its better if the drama has no spoilers.
In this drama, I like the Intro song a lot. So, I watch it every time.

lol, typical Chinese drama. Their Intro and Ending Credits are full of spoilers. Also, now the airing schedule is full of spoilers.

Yeah, that is probably the logical thing he could do. If you see this properly, the whole thing is actually flawed. It is impossible for him to take care of a child without a nanny when he is busy in the hospital most of the time. If that is actually the case, the child is already used to this kind of abandonment, and this is nothing new for the child. The screenwriting in this drama is not consistent. This is a huge mistake from the writers.
About the law, I think most countries in the world don't have this law. It falls under more of an ethical or moral code. Even if there might be some laws in some countries, the laws are not direct. There are a lot of ifs/buts in those laws. We feel sad looking at this particular instance, but a lot of bad things happen to children all over the world. This might be a simple thing if you consider other things. Whatever it is, no drama should show this. It is a clear negativity and writers should be careful during writing the script.

As for this particular scenario, it was nighttime. He got a sudden call. His son was sleeping. He couldn't get anybody else to take care of his child. Maybe we can forgive him for this particular case. But one thing you said is completely right. This might not be the first time it happened. Also, as a doctor, he has to do long hours (maybe 24 hours) sometimes. So, who takes care of the child during that time? He needs at least a nanny (24/7) for that. But it was shown that he lives alone. How did he take care of the child for the last 6 years? Screenwriters did a huge mistake here. It should not happen. It doesn't make any sense.
About the wedding night, I completely agree with you. It was downright disrespectful to FL. He should have taken a leave from the hospital and distributed his duty to others.

Leaving 6 years son alone at night is very sad. But, for the doctors, sometimes the situation might call for that. It was not a scheduled surgery, but an unscheduled surgery. As the attending physician, when something happens to your patient you get a call from the hospital. If it is an easy surgery, you might ask other doctors to take care of the surgery for you, still, you have the responsibility. It was portrayed in the drama that he is the best doctor in neurosurgery. He is always responsible for his doctor's duties. If the surgery is difficult, you should go because you know the patient's condition better than others and the patient's life depends on you (also his son is 6 years old, at least he has some understanding about his dad). You can't just let the patient die. It is hard to accept for us, and also hard for his son, but it is what any ML in any drama would do.
About the wedding night, it was the worst thing he did. As it was his wedding, he should have given his responsibility to the other doctors before his wedding.

From what I understand, FL was deeply in love with ML. ML had a gf who rejected him. after that ML and FL got married. FL knew ML did not love him (before the marriage), but still, she wanted to get married as she was in love with him, and she didn't want to lose him.
We can see, after marriage, ML did not give enough care for her and did not reciprocate the love FL had for ML. She tried so many times. Wanted ML to love her, but it didn't happen. Later she decided it was best for both of them to get divorced.

My verdict:
Most of the flashbacks were told from FL's POV. So, what we see in those flashbacks is what FL thinks about ML and their relationship. If flashbacks were told from ML's POV, then our thinking could be a bit different. I believe ML started to love her during their marriage. But he couldn't show it properly. He always did what was best for FL but failed to show what really mattered to her. He didn't want the divorce, but maybe divorce was the best outcome to understand both of their mistakes (I think not only ML but both ML and FL had their faults). Now after 6 years, it is time for both of them to solve their past mistakes and start from the beginning and do what they really want.

Thanks. I think, I'm content with this subtitle for now. Don't want to bother you. There are a lot of mistakes, but still ok. Just hope they improve the subtitle quality. I'm enjoying this drama a lot, waiting eagerly for the next episodes to come out.

How are the subtitles in Viki? Kisskh sub is not good, a lot of mistakes. Whenever I see bad subtitles, I always remember you. Miss your translations for Meet Yourself.

Those who are concerned about ratings:
I think MDL didn't update the ratings for this drama for the last 2 days. We only have 5 votes in the ratings. Maybe those 5 rated the drama low due to its bad English subtitle or some other reasons.
MDL normally updates the drama ratings 3-4 times each day. Don't know what happened to them. I think this is happening for other dramas too (I'm not entirely sure). I think they did not refresh the ratings for most of the dramas. I hope they solve the problem quickly.
If you check age group ratings (most probably updated in real-time) from the statistics, You can see the ratings of this drama should be very high. I think with the next update/refresh, the drama will achieve an 8+ rating.

Someone posted the link in the comment section. Check the comments from before. Chinese novel. I just translated the last chapter to check. Won't check any further.

2019 could mean a lot of things. Some Chinese dramas are produced 1-2 years (or even more) before it airs. I don't think, that's the case here. Probably they will have a time skip for a few years.
I was just checking the novel's last chapter. I would honestly drop the drama if it were not a happy ending. Found that it has a happy ending and they have twins (son-daughter). The time skip will probably show their children, I think.

To rate a drama, you need an account first. I see you have an account, also assuming you are using your computer to browse this page. On the top of every drama page, you can see "Your rating" with 5 empty stars. Click on the star. Then a new box will open. Change the "Status" to "Currently watching" or "Completed". Select your rating from the "Overall Rating" and then click "submit".