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I am probably going to start it sooner than later. If only I could stay off that page. All the talk about some hug today makes it hard not to start.

I have some questions that the book might help me understand. The chapters are short and easy to read.

I am close to starting...🫢

I started the book around the sleep walking scene. It follows the drama closely. I am going to go to chapter 1 and read from there. I think this will help me understand more of what she was thinking.

I do the same. I am generous when I know some gave it a ridiculous 1 or 2 one the first day.

I will start it soon. I am already having a hard time wanting see ZLH's smiles. And his hugs and everything!

Yes. I wish the drama had not made it 8 years that they were apart because it makes me feel so bad for Sang Yan. He didn't know what happened. He only knew what she told him and it was hurtful. But this reminds me of when LiXun broke up with Zhu Yun in L&P. He hurt her by making her think he didn't want her because he knew he was going to prison and didn't want his actions to affect her life.

I am still not clear as to the reason YiFan left Sang Yan. I know some say she wanted to get far away from her family, but why didn't she tell him the truth rather than hurt him? Is it that she felt he would be better off without her?

I have to wonder if he suspects something happened for her to leave him back then. He is smart. He knows she is sleepwalking because of something traumatic.

You read the book several times. Tell me if I am getting this the wrong way. I feel as if he teases her about her sleepwalking because it is his way of helping her. It is similar to how he would cook more food for her but instead of making her feel she owes him anything, he tells her to help him eat the food. Maybe he thinks that if he teases her it would alleviate some of the stress by distracting her. I. know I am entertained by his comments about her sleepwalking.

I know her suffering was extreme. I cannot imagine going through so much all at the same time. The death of her father was enough as it is. But I still feel so bad for that younger Sang Yan. My heart goes out to him the way he was still concerned if anyone wished her happy birthday, But when he went to call her, he found that her number was not available. By that time, he had quite a collection of tickets in the box. Were those airline tickets?

I feel so bad for Sang Yan because he was so hurt back then. And he looked so hurt and defeated when she wanted to move out but this time I could see she was not even sure. What I love about him is that he doesn't pressure her and waits for her to make her decisions . I know she is afraid to form an attachment to anyone. I know she has issues with her mother abandoning her and her father's death. She went through so much at a young age. She should have had a time to grieve her father but instead she was hit with her mother abandoning her to a family that abused her and didn't protect her. She was in shock from it all and she went into defense mode and locked everyone out including Sang Yan. But she knows she hurt him, and she should know that leaving him again will hurt him. I am glad she admitted she didn't want to leave. We see progress.



I am happy for Sang Yan that now she has decided to chase him. I am not sure that he is hesitant to express how he feels because she hurt him. I think he doesn't want to pressure her and he knows something is going on with her psychologically. He is giving her space to find her way back to him on her time. This is what makes him selfless. His love for her is incredibly selfless. He loves her that much. I think true love is wanting the person you love to be happy more than anything.

If I watch one episode and feel it is not for me I either delete it or drop it. I do not rate it. Just because something is not to your taste doesn't mean you should rate it low. I don't understand why you did that.

There is no comparison with Love Scout. I watched it and finished but nothing like my fav cdrama. No offense to Kdrama lovers.

🤔 Wondering if I should try both obsessions at the same time...I have missed ZLH so much!

There are about 11 members giving the episodes ratings of 1. I did some calculations on the episodes not yet released. I am just guessing if someone wants to lower the rating they will give a 1. And if someone wants to counteract because they love the drama they will give a 10 to the episodes not yet watched.

Great!

I think some are trying to counteract the low ratings and put in their 10. In The First Frost it is the same. But it is not as bad as some I have seen.

Don't get me wrong. I loved him in SOKP. But there was something about PWX.
By the way, how are you doing with both BJT and ZLH at the same time? 🤣🔥😆 Is it too much?

I will rate once I begin this. Let's see how long I will hold out. My goal is to wait till TFF is done.

I see that ep 28 has a low rating of 5.5 🤣 Obviously, some want to lower the rating so they don't care that they have not watched. Who doesn't love ZLH?
When you have the time go to Episode Guide and rate the episodes. https://mydramalist.com/30941-falling-in-love-with-you-is-the-best-thing-i-have-ever-done/episodes You will find that you need to rate twice as it will ask you to "Write a Review." You do not need to actually write one, just click on it and rate again then "SUBMIT."

The drama that made me love him more was TPR. I loved him as Pei Wen Xuan. And yes, I saw him in SOKP and loved him there but I loved him more in TPR. It is impossible not to love that smile!

I am so tempted.