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I wonder if grandma has health issues not discussed in the drama. the ml was concern about her health. Also, when an old person starts to give away their jewelry like her bracelet she's worn all her life that was handed down from her mother, it means she knows her life is short. When you get to that age and your body tells you it won't be long, you start to give away your jewelry and other things because at that point, it's all meaningless, you can't' take it with you.

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Chinese people know her type all too well, doesn't mean they like her personality but it's not exaggerated nor fictional, but the drama over emphasize to make a point, to add humor, create conflict, and provide a contrast for fl. This drama is telling it like it is.

She was poor and is smitten by wealth. She doesn't realize how rich she already is. Money cannot buy what she has, her loving family. The mother is hugely flawed. The drama makes her this simple minded, shallow, loud and controlling woman, but it also shows she is a kind and loving, just not smart and wise. It's hard to hate her because she's not a bad or evil person, she's actually very kind. People who know her well indulge her behavior because they know her heart. But people who don't know her will find her so annoying and uncouth. In the drama, she will overstep her boundary that will damage her bond with her daughter.

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here's Weibo livestream on You Tube, so go to settings and select English.
It automatically goes to Chinese, so you have to turn off the auto select first then all the language selections will come up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NA_dDhWm4a4

here's Weibo livestream on You Tube, so go to settings and select English.
It automatically goes to Chinese, so you have to turn off the auto select first then all the language selections will come up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NA_dDhWm4a4

oh my! i haven't watched those episodes yet.

bf's love is not built on solid foundation. he clings to her because she is kind and caring and he lacked a mother's love, that cannot sustain, he needs to do more on his end and be reliable, responsible, and supportive, but he started the relationship off with a lie, 3 yrs. was built on a lie, and he didn't have the fortitude to tell her the truth, because of his family not letting him, and maybe because he knew that she loved him for who he is, and knowing who he really is will change her mind. She never sought to marry someone for how many degrees they have, how smart they are, or how much money they have. She wanted a partner to build a life together on their own, as long as the person truly loved her for who she is.

Yang Zi has really captured the essence of her character so well.

there is a lot of great acting in this drama, so adore the 86 year old grandma's acting

XK's acting is very subtle, nuanced, and full of micro expressions. I am so glad he took this role so fans can also hear his voice.

Confucius emphasized filial piety, which has persisted for centuries in Chinese culture.
Filial piety refers to the respect and obedience children owe to their parents, and it has been a foundational value in Chinese society. Over the last four decades, there has been a gradual shift away from traditional norms. Urbanization, education, and globalization have contributed to this shift. Urban areas in China have witnessed greater emphasis on individuality and self-expression. As cities grow and modernize, people seek to balance tradition with personal identity. While Confucian values continue to influence Chinese culture, contemporary parenting practices have evolved. More parents now recognize the importance of nurturing independence, allowing children to make choices, and fostering a sense of self.

MCH's mom was from poor rural area outside of the cities. She is still stuck in the old traditions. This drama shows this clash of love between mother and daughter. Daughter will eventually realize she has to also love herself, not just her mom. All her life, she gives and give to others, but she learns to respect herself first.

Grandma on the other hand defy cultural norms, is an incredible strong and independent woman who "decisively got a divorce" because "grandpa has someone else after marrying grandma".

so glad there is no break in the schedule

do you recall XJL said to her sister "why aren't you home taking care of your daughter?"
i wonder if the sister has another kid at home she's neglecting

I'm with you. I find XK different than his peers, not better, but just something unique about XK. I also like his acting style which he is still improving as he says, he cannot do it overnight, but step by step, he will improve it. He is very authentic. He doesn't seem to follow the norm.

i expect a very happy ending because other names for this drama is The Story of Joy or The Story of Happiness

it's ok to hate her or love her. The drama made it this way.

I want grandma to see YZH and MCH get together as a couple - will she live to see it?

the ex-bf's sister is the epitome of bitterness. Bitterness is the root of all evil. Love is the only thing that can heal the soul. The Xin family is devoid of love.

the ml's grandmother is epitome of love, provides healing to those around her and make them flourish.

The daughter’s indomitable spirit will become even more evident as the mother’s detrimental personality traits are amplified.

The mother's extreme and overbearing traits serve as a satirical reflection of certain real-life Chinese mothers, making her a memorable and multifaceted character.

Viewers experience conflicting emotions—disliking her controlling behavior while recognizing her genuine love for her daughter.