Gracious Ly:
Lin Wan'er's weakness is just her illness that affect her physical health. Her gentleness and kind nature is her strength. I have no problem with her character. In fact, am glad she's not those spoilt princess with childish behaviour/thinking. She was firm in her decision when it comes to love (for Fan Xian), even though her brother and mother tried to talk her out of it. Fan Xian finds that she's the only one whom he felt most at ease with (other that Teng Zijeng) and he went to her for emotional support when Teng Zijeng died. I don't expect to see similarity in every character be it male or female as it will be boring. JOY had got many interesting characters, each stands out of its own and that's what make this drama so interesting. All the casts did an excellent job in portraying their roles. I like Duo Duo too, but somehow I still prefer Lin Wan'er with Fan Xian.
Fan Xian is a playboy, he loves beautiful women, and Wan'Er let him go wild. We all know he's attracted to Si LiLi and HaiTang Duo Duo. I think Si LiLi is a very beautiful woman, sexy, and she loves him too. Besides these two women, sickly Wan'Er don't hold the candle. Her sickness and royal family backup, to me, doesn't define who she is. Actually, Fan Xian has alot of confidantes; Wang Qi Nian, Fan Ruo Ruo, Uncle Wu Zu, Fei Jie those are people he loves and trust (of course Teng ZiJeng). When they first met, HaiTang won the fight, only with the fake love poison Fan Xian tricked her, they became good frenamy. Also as Fan Xian opened up to HaiTang that he thought her as a friend because he's lonely and friendlessness, he said "Father, wife, sister are just family..." ep 44 and I think we can see that they have this bond that Fan Xian felt so ease with her, he told about his worries and expectation more than to anyone else. In the book, Wan'Er jealous of HaiTang because she could hold his fascination and respect, the scene where HaiTang and FanXian danced (or fought display) at the palace would bring speculation that Fan Xian will marry Hai Tang. But without marrying Wan'Er, Fan Xian would not get the ultimate position as Chief of Treasure. To many of us, Hai Tang has the caliber as Fan Xian...beauty, talent, expertise, intelligent, loyalty (opposite kingdom), and mind. Wan'Er is just a chicken leg girl..and he's going to treat her like porcelain doll that need protection, tender and care.....while HaiTang will go about taking care of Northern Qi's kingdom's business. I love HaiTang and Fan Xian relationship..it grew...it developed...it matured their character and personality....HaiTang has more fire and wisdom.