Judyy wrote: . I've always wanted someone to just give him a big comforting hug, like an unconditional hug. The actor plays the scarred and hurting act oh-so-well.
I love this drama. <3
I can't believe Im so overwhelm as Im typing this, but yeah... I first saw Nam Goong Min in One Fine Day back in 2007 when I started watching dramas, and since then I have wanted to watch a drama with him again.
When I started watching, I read comments from others that were ahead in the story about how despicable a person (if you can call it that) the father is. Im on episode 22 right now, and I agree that the father is horrible, but I don't feel anything for this character. I don't feel anger at all, because from the start, when the incident happened (I wont say so that I dont spoil the drama too much) I saw that this character was going to be
that type of character; the one to be horrible. Plus, his actions were clear as to what he really wanted from the beginning, so there was no surprise there. I knew he was horrible!
The character Im really angry at is the mother of CDJ. Why? Why? And why would you do something so horrendous to someone who has given your son nothing but love. Im sorry but her excuse is miserable. I will write in white the spoiler:
She took M-Oppa because she saw an opportunity to exact revenge against the monster she has for a husband, since M-Oppa was a confused and lost kid who wanted nothing but a mother. She gave him love, fake love, but affection it was still. Instead of helping him overcome his fears of abandonment and sent him back to his family, she took him and manipulated his feelings for them, until she got what she wanted... up until this point (im still on episode 22) Then she goes around distorting the truth to her convenience. Telling CDJ how hyung is worse than his father... I HATE THIS WOMAN! IM SO ANGRY AT THIS PERSON. I feel so sad for oppa. Yes, its true he abandoned his family, but he was a kid who wanted a mother, he wanted the love of a mother, and he didn't have that. He was selfish, wrong, but he had to live with that pain for 16 years, and this lady took advantage of that.
I was looking for the differences between her and her husband. The reason why I can easily deal with having to look at her husband and not feel anything, but be completely disgusted when she appears. I found it in this episode, JH tells his father: "What you did unknowingly is not a sin, its a mistake. But I can't forgive a sin committed knowingly, ever." I know the father is a sinner, so he really does not deserve to hear these words, but JH is just padding the head for now, I can tell. These words where meant more toward his fake mother, especially the end of the quote; and I hope that she loses CDJ to a certain extent. I mean, I hope he somehow tells her to FO. That would be poetic justice, not to the horrible father and mother of oppa, but to oppa himself. He lost a mother, now she should lose a son.
That woman is a manipulating witch. I hope the remaining episodes prove me wrong about her... there is still hope in my heart. I hope for oppa, for his sake (although like Mary said, going back to his real family is what is best for him) Im completely sickened with this lady.
Okay, so now I have to go back to watching the episode. I got all of that off my system (SIGH)