" Yanzi saying XY has no choice is true because she had no idea that apart from Jing there are two other men who also love her deeply, they just dont present to her to choose "
I so do not agree with this take ?. I mean 1 does not need to know that a person love them to be able to fall in love with them. And XY had the choice to fall for 1 of the other 2 guys even if they pushed her towards another or did not declared their love to her. She has spent plenty of TLC time ( 50+ or 100+) with both to fall in love with 1 of them. Even the 15 years promise would not have been a strong barrier. Because the heart wants what the heart wants as we have seen in the case of the 3 mls.
And why does she need to have the choice? All 3 mls fell in love with her without knowing if she was in love with them.
I do not get why because she chose to be with the one who is not dashing ( though he is) people find reasons to justify her simple for her choice with "oooh she did not have a choice, if the others had declared she would not have made that choice, ooh she is settling, ooh she wants to love Jing, she is forcing herself to fall for Jing, Jing is the only option available for her".... We all know none of these are true.
Sorry I just wanted to share my opinions on the actress comment for a while . I am moving on from this ?