"Tong Hua seems to hold the view that while love is valuable, it isn't everything in life. Life consists of several other aspects that are just as valuable as love. If this is one of the messages that she intended to convey, then the very premise of this story serves to undermine it. "
I don't feel like Tong Hua undermined the premise that romantic love isn't everything in life, on the contrary. CX loved XY, but chose the throne over her. XL too, loved XY, but he couldn't give up on his loyalty to his comrades for her. By the same premise, just because XY ended up with Jing doesn't mean she chose romantic love, she just chose a peaceful life with a companion over the heartbreak that true love would have caused her, giving XL's path. After being abandoned by her loved ones in the past, I can understand why she's so scared of having and losing it again, yet I applaud her courage for having that crystal ball sent to XL. I wonder what was her intention when she made it. She tought of sending it to him one day or was it something she made for herself, as an aknowledge of her deepest feelings that she chose to burry because she knew it's impossible for them to work out? If not, is it possible that she made it with the intention of sending it because she had a glimpse of hope left?
Also, what they said in the drama about XY's parents, applies to XL and XY too. They never betrayed their love for eachother (lovers's bugs), nor the people (CX, the remnant army)
Lyf never had love as the end or main goal, that's why I find it funny how some jing's fans believe XY finally had her happy ending with the person she loves. To me there is no doubt that Jing is not the person she loves, but the person she chose precisely to emphasize Tong Hua's premise that romantic love isn' t everything in life.