I noticed that most of the Monster/Vampire/Etc type romances tend to have the male as the monster/vampire/etc., and the female being the normal person, but I was wondering if anyone knows about the opposite way, with the female being the monster/vampire/etc and the male being the normal person
Any genre/setting/etc is fine, as is any 'type' of drama, whether it be Wuxia, or period, etc.   However, I would like if the two leads are *not* terribly horrible a holes, I mean, being mean is one thing, or like, a vampire just being vampire-y is fine, but I would rather they not be a-holes as much as possible.
Thanks for any time spent reading this   Edit: accidentally asked for a-holes, changed it to not
Have you seen Orange Marmalade?? The female is a vampire in that, and the male isn't :)
Thanks Amber, look's good, I'll check it out
Oh My Ghost - sort of. The girl is possessed by a ghost at times.
Arang and the Magistrate - girl is a ghost
My Girlfriend is a Gumiho - girl is a gumiho (guy is a mean a-hole, though)
Secret Angel - the girl is an angel
She Is 200 Years Old
Blue Veins - girl is a vampire
The Little Fairy - the girl is a goddess
http://mydramalist.com/2789-the-little-fairy
Dragon Love - the girl is a dragon
http://mydramalist.com/6470-dragon-love
Pope Rak- the girl is a ghost
http://mydramalist.com/12687-pope-rak

In the Master's Sun, the girl sees ghosts & is occasionally possessed by ghosts & the guy is normal
The Thousandth Man where the female lead is a gumiho and the male lead is just a normal human! 
Mirror of the Witch just started and i think it fits what you are looking for 100% she is a cursed witch, he is a normal guy.