she picks another guy at first because she likes him and that destroys her relationship with the male lead? The male lead likes her and eventually she comes to terms with her feelings for him, but before that their close relationship is destroyed because of her being with someone else first.

49 days (but with a twist so I won't spoiler it)
They were friends but then a misunderstanding caused them to separate and she later gets engaged. The male lead keeps her at arms length after that but she thinks he's doing that because he hates her now.
Seen Reply 1997 and loved it.

Wasn't too big a fan of 49 Days.
Any more dramas people could suggest?
In Time With You
Weigtlifting Fairy Kim Bok Joo
Hyde, Jekyll, Me
Moon Lovers, Scarlet Heart Ryeo
Personal Taste
On The Way To The Airport
Reply 1988

Thanks for that Naksken.
If you can think of any more, let me know.
Any more dramas that would fit the scenario I posted?