All three are Novels by same author ... notice a theme?..... .... SotD and BBJX have same producer, director, screen writer and lead actress.
Sound of the Desert --- Intense and very good.... She loves one, later another, both remain dear to her.
Best Time --- Her obsession w/ her first love is stupid and annoying, but Lead guy is perfect!
Scarlet Heart / Bu Bu Jing Xin --- Loves first guy, later leaves him and hooks up w/ lead guy..... Excellent writing!
Also:
Summer's desire --- back and forth b/w the two until the end, when she finally makes a decision.
Love of the Agean Sea --- heavy triangle
Too Late to Say I Love You ---- the triangle or square is strong, but no matter what, the leads only love each other.
Empress Ki --- She loves one, eventually the other
East of Eden --- Laden w/ all sorts of triangle, romantic ones, familial or bromance-type ... All relationships come in 3's... Excellent writing, good characters.
Not really heavy, but good:
9 End 2 Out ---- She dates one and befriends the other... things change.