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Thank you

Unlike you, I’m educated enough to know the difference between having a preference and being insulting. If I don’t find an actor attractive, I don’t resort to calling them “ugly” because that’s just plain disrespect. For example, there are plenty of actors who aren’t my type, but I just say they’re not my preference or focus on their acting. Having opinions is fine, but tossing around the word ugly shows a lack of basic respect. And please, don’t lecture me about “pretending to be a saint” when you’re the one throwing cheap insults at people’s looks.

So basically you’re admitting you only watch shows for looks? That’s pretty shallow. A good series is built on story, acting, and chemistry, not just who you personally find handsome. And for the record, Ping is not ugly, he’s objectively attractive. If you’re only here for eye candy, maybe you really should go outside instead of pretending to care about the show.

Sure, fan shipping isn’t always for everyone and that’s fine. But saying Ping is “ugly” is unnecessary. If the ship doesn’t work for you, move on. No need to drag down an actor who’s tall, handsome, and clearly loved by plenty of fans.

Describing Ping (the actor who portrayed Kosol) as ugly is just lazy. He’s tall, muscular, hot and handsome and easily someone people would line up for. He and Nut already proved their chemistry in PitBabe, which is why they’re back together here. And let’s be real, Nut is the one stealing every scene. If you’re only watching for who’s “pretty,” you’re missing the actual spark that makes this show worth it.

He was absolutely stunning in Obsessed — easily one of the most memorable and passionate love scenes I have ever seen on screen. His physique was perfection, every line and detail sculpted beautifully, and his confidence made it even more captivating. And honestly, that perfect body combined with arguably the best butt in cinema? Completely unforgettable.

I’m enjoying the series too. Honestly, it was supposed to be my favourite Japanese BL of the year, a solid 10/10.

But after that disappointing scene, I’m dropping it to a 9/10. Four episodes left, so let’s see if they can deliver and bring it back up to a perfect 10 for me.

We’re heading into episode 9 and this isn’t just about being “spoiled” over NC scenes or kisses. It’s about payoff, consistency, and respecting the emotional journey we’ve invested in. Even before the first episode, these two had known and liked each other since high school. We’ve seen years of feelings, watched them grow into mature adults, working as adults, dating, and loving each other so deeply. Episode 8 made it crystal clear they both wanted to take that next step and they even stayed overnight. If you’re going to give us an NC scene, then give it to us properly. Don’t tease us for weeks only to serve something half-hearted and rushed. I’d honestly rather get nothing at all than be left with this kind of disappointment. This isn’t about wanting fan service for the sake of it. It’s about delivering the moment we’ve been building toward for eight episodes, a moment that should have been charged with everything they’ve been through. They deserved that. We deserved that.

My point is, in episode 8 both leads clearly wanted to do it, they even stayed overnight. If you’re going to give us an NC scene, then give it to us properly. Don’t half-do it. I’d honestly rather get nothing at all than end up feeling this disappointed.

I’ve watched so many Japanese BLs and movies that gave us great great scenes such as

My Personal Weatherman
Life: Love on the Line
Tokyo in April is…
Love is Better the Second Time Around
When It Rains, It Pours
Eternal Yesterday.

Even the currently airing Love Sea is delivering.

After watching MonPak’s NC scene in epiosde 4 of Doctor’s Mine (Thai BL) and episode 2 of Love Sea The Home for Lovers (Japanese BL), both pure 10/10 magic, then coming here, it honestly felt like a letdown. They have known each other for so long, their love is deep and undeniable, and yet when the moment finally came, it just… fell flat.
Where was the passion? The hunger? That raw, unfiltered emotion you expect when two people who have loved each other for years finally come together? Instead of a kiss that stole my breath away, it felt restrained, almost hesitant, like the scene didn’t dare to match the weight of their history.

It hurt more because we know their bond runs deep. This wasn’t just a random hookup; this was love years in the making. And for it to be executed so poorly, it’s like watching a fire you’ve been tending for ages flicker out right when you thought it would blaze the brightest.

Get it. 100% worth it, free international shipping. Make sure it’s English subtitle though, I got my many years ago. Also check Ebay

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My Girlfriend is the Man Is not a BL, but is there slightly and bromance between the two male leads? What would you rate it out of 10 because I’m thinking starting it?

Anyone know if we’ll be getting a photo book, DVD box set, BTS merch, etc.? I got one for Addicted years ago, so fingers crossed there’s an official one this time too, especially considering how successful this series is.

8.7 is currently the second highest just after Reset 8.8 tied with Jack and Joker

I get what you’re saying, but I actually checked a few hundred BLs to compare comment counts.

If your logic were true, older series should have way more comments. Yet SOTUS has been around for nearly 10 years and sits at just 1,371 comments. Addicted, one of the biggest BLs a decade ago, only has 2,345.

Meanwhile, KinnPorsche blew past 100,000 comments in its first month of airring. Clearly, it’s not about how long a show has been out, it’s about popularity and how much the audience is invested.

I see where you’re coming from, but I was curious so I checked a few hundred BLs to see how many comments they had.

By your logic, the longer a series has been aired, the more comments it should have.

But that’s not always the case. SOTUS has been around for almost 10 years and has only 1,371 comments.

Addicted came out a decade ago, was one of the biggest BLs back then, yet it has only 2,345 comments.

KinnPorsche had already surpassed 100,000 comments during its very first month of airing. So no, it’s not about how many years it’s been out, it’s about how popular the show is and how engaged the audience feels.

Omg another powerful comment. 100% agreed. Well said.

Well said :) I didnt even think of this.