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Exactly! If a woman did that in real life , most men wouldn’t put up with that,and next second she would be kissing the floor , yet in these dramas it’s somehow considered “romantic.”

And yes, there are a lot of women who think they always-right , while simps apologizing even when they didn't do anything wrong.
simps are increasing incredibly fast, they make platforms like OnlyFans thrive, with some creators making millions in one month, not only simps also stupid ,😮‍💨😮‍💨 Unfortunately, reality isn’t that good either especially in the west world

I think so , and I don’t disagree with you .
But when it’s only from one side, it becomes simping.
If she’s doing that too, then yes, that’s what relationships should be: both people making effort, helping each other, and being themselves with one another. That’s what trust really means .
But when only one person is doing all of that , being the one who always apologizes and always gives in just to be with the other and tolerate many things he don't like , while the other doesn’t reciprocate , that’s disrespecting the love and the relationship ,
And I’m talking about both sides. If a woman is the one doing that while the man only takes advantage of her unconditional love, it’s humiliating for her to keep making effort for someone like him and she don't respect herself .but it's rare in recent Cdramas to see fls doing that for mls , yes they do that with their toxic exs if you know what I mean 😂

If the ML goes back to what he was, I’ll apologize for a week, every single day, lol.
What I’ve learned from watching C-dramas for years is this: in this kind of drama, once the ML falls for the FL, it’s basically over. All his focus, priorities, and life goals become centered around her, helping her, pleasing her, and existing for her sake.
Expecting him to stay smarter than her or remain truly ruthless after that is like waiting for a blue moon.
how many episodes now!? , can you count how many times he did something she didn't think of or he played with her smartly not she letting him do that !? 😅

Because they don’t think he’s a servant , they think this is how all men should behave: cooking, cleaning the house, doing the dishes, and never saying anything about her, ever. Even if she’s still involved with her ex, he just has to tolerate it. If he says anything, he has to apologize. Lol.
(This is literally from this FL a modern cdrama “I Got a Crush on You”.)
And on top of that, he has to worship her.
That’s why I say they’re selling the “dream man” to the majority of viewers. Because if they made the ML act like a normal man would act, the drama would get cancelled, get bad ratings and be a flop.
Any normal man , especially CEOs, lords, or generals , would have dignity, backbone, and boundaries , not just because he fall in love he change to a simp . And they would had at least one or two relationships before. Not some virgin CEO in his late twenties or thirties worshipping an FL who just broke up with her toxic husband or boyfriend. Like… seriously?
And how can any normal man accept doing everything in the relationship while she only focuses on her “important things,” him clearly not being at the top of her priorities? 😅
I also agree with you: it’s basically BDSM. The ML likes to beg, worship the FL, never asks her to apologize , and never sets boundaries,
Everything is forgiven as long as she agrees to be with him.
you didn’t notice this? Slapping MLs is the easiest thing an FL can do. She doesn’t even apologize afterward , and he just cries that he do something wrong and she's leaving him 🤦‍♂️

They make me frustrated. How can men act like that, especially men of that era? 🤣😂😂
They’re always simps, soft, virgin types, constantly chasing after FLs.

Don’t get me started, because I could literally write a whole book about how MLs are degraded in C-dramas and K-dramas and they're second degree citizens , and how male characters in general are written this way just to satisfy the majority of viewers with their “dream men.”
Men who are nothing but simps, with no ego, dignity, or backbone, whose only role is to make the FL happy and make her their top priority and look more great because she makes them lose to her in everything .

It’s hard to find an ML with a real personality and a big role without him existing only because of the FL, so he help her and fall for her and change because of her and chase her and make her his priority more important than himself.

Personally, I’ve never watched an ancient C-drama where the ML is truly equal to the FL when the FL is strong and smart and independent . It’s always the same pattern: the ML gives up after couple of episodes because he starts to like her , becomes soft, falls in love first and harder, and then ends up begging for forgiveness every time she gets mad 😅 make a joke of himself getting jealous and she teasing him many times and he just act like a shy teenager 🤦🤦

And I bet, because he’s hiding that secret, she’ll make him regret it badly, even though she knew from the start that he came for that reason lol.

FLs are always smarter than MLs, even when the MLs are supposed to be the most ruthless generals and strategists, capable of fighting dozens of men alone, yet the FL can still beat him 😅 first episodes they show mls are the smartest and ruthless and strong , but after he starts liking fl or fight her he just get beating and always losing to her , and became nice and cute and shy like a teenager virgin .
Lol, what can I say? It’s modern times, and it’s all about women’s empowerment. Most viewers are women, so they sell them the dream 🤷‍♂️

that would be the reason for her to slap him later and make him suffer because of it and he will beg for forgiveness lol

it's a a Cdrama never think mls will be ruthless after fall in love with fl and always expect him to be a simp lol , this is basic information about Cdrama world, like mls fall first and harder and single and virgin most of the time 🤣😂😅🤦

it's like her other drama they never show anything till she said I think I'm pregnant lol

I just watched the beginning of episode 12 , and you watched it too, right?! And you’re still saying she didn’t sleep with other men!? She nearly forced him to sleep with her, and she even threatened him to go to someone else 😅🤣😅🤣.
ml have some pride he didn't want to be a servant toy for her, but at least he has to be a husband toy, so he can keeps his pride 😅🤣😅.
Wow, she’s clearly used to getting into beds… did you see how she took her shoes off ?😂😂,

This is a good drama if someone doesn’t get frustrated like me with the love triangle. The ML loves unconditionally after he starts to love her, and they make the FL always look like she’s above him or like she’s the prize he has to work to win her approval , but she doesn’t do anything to win him , because he give himself from start so she don't need to do anything and he will tolerate everything and accept the minimum is to be with him at the end , even if she goes to someone else the important thing she ends with him . 🤦

I read a comment below,saying that her reaction to the SML’s confession made it seem like she regretted
she was dating the ML, and it's look like that if she hadn’t been with the ML, she would have accepted the SML confession.
If you read some comments , you’ll see that many people think she liked him as more than just a friend.

Thank you for elaborating, but I said I watched six and a half episodes, so I already know a good part of what happened and what might happen. From watching many C-dramas, I bet the ML will never go back to who he was or stop serving her like a servant, and she will always stay above him and would be close to sml who will be obsessed with her .... . I don’t want to write another long paragraph, so let’s wait and see whether he will ever have a personality of a Lord that have more important things than being with a woman , and not make FL his first priority , and figure out how to make her fall for him and afraid to lose her for someone else.
have a good day and sorry for bothering you and taking from your time bye.

slapping in Cdrama and kdrama is just for mls lol most of the cases specially in Cdrama

and I bet ml's the one apologized for that and she didn't apologize to him also,
and again another fl that love sml more than ml lol

So they didn’t get together until the end and had only half an hour of happiness together? Like another C-drama where they get together at the last second of the drama and he proposes to her directly—while she was crushing on their friend for half of the drama? 😅🤣 And I read this fl liked the SML at the start also for a third of the drama!? .
thank you

Sorry if I offended you before. Have a good day, and enjoy watching. I dropped it, and that’s it , it’s not for me. Sorry for the long paragraph you don't need to read it.

In the first episode, she said to that cheater, “You’re my favorite because of this and that” so you understand he's not the only one, and I never said it was shown that she was sleeping with others. It’s a C-drama, so these are facts you can only understand from the context. They don’t even show the ML sleeping with fls in Cdramas ,it happens only once in the drama, and the other times are left to our imagination.

And when you say it’s not about romance, I disagree with you, because one of the most important plots in the drama is the relationship between her and the ML and how the will get together , I watch it mainly for that and any other drama I like romance other stuff only to make it a good romance drama in my opinion lol , to be honest with you, I skip other things , I don’t care about a bunch of men fighting to get her approval or her stupid sisters’ plans. I skip most of that and watch only her and the ML’s scenes mostly , and the moments when they show their intelligence. That’s it.
But still, they make her a superwoman who can do everything alone. If the ML helps her, or anyone else does, it’s only because she allows them to. The ML can’t win without her, so he needs her help but at the start, they show him as smart and strong and have assistants but now he's beneath her needs her help and act like her servant to get what he wants tolerate humiliation .
Just like you don’t like weak FLs in other C-dramas who always need the ML to save them I suppose , I don’t like MLs like that . He begs, kneels, is always afraid of the FL, and thinks she’s always three steps ahead of him so he tell her his plan , like it's a smart way to get her help is to tell the truth and say I know you get me so I tell the truth anyways .
But this smart and super hero FL can’t understand the SML or see what he’s planning, She trusted him too easily , and from the spoilers I’ve seen, she still stays around him and feels sorry for him. Typical sml armor in Cdrama .

I have watched exactly six episodes and half , and I dropped it when I read that she wants to sleep with him for pleasure only and he act like a little virgin afraid from society or something like that . I have read many comments about it, asked questions, and watched a couple of spoiler scenes, like the ones that will come later with SML Yan and the FL, lol. You still haven’t addressed the problem I mentioned, which is how ridiculously double-standard it is.

I didn’t come to your house to be told what I should or shouldn’t do, and I also dislike palace harems because they’re just about one FL playing with the emperor and make him love her unconditionally, and his other stupid concubines that only wants to make him favor them and fighting stupidly with fl that don't even trying to win over the emperor in most Cdramas lol.
If you don’t read what I said objectively to understand and you don't like to do that it's your choice, and you like watching reverse harems, that’s your taste, no one said don't do that, so don't come to say others opinions are nonsense just because it’s not to your liking. Bye.

sorry for the long paragraph.

The double standard is that when they do role reverse, they make the FL act like men of that time were supposed to be open-minded about sleeping around and seeking pleasure with different women. But they don’t write the ML doing that. And I know what you’re talking about , but still, MLs in those dramas are also virgins most of the time and they still fight with sml and other men for that weak fl 😅.
In popular C-dramas, FLs most of the time have a crush, fiancé, or ex-husband before meeting ml , at least in recent ancient C-dramas like that but MLs don’t, And if they do, it’s just a family arrangement, not because he loves her and she betrayed him or something else , like what happens to FLs that love or like another man . If you want examples, I can give them, but I’m sure you’ve watched a couple recently in the last month like this 😅🤣🤣.
Ps I dislike also when ml are like this while fl innocent and like him and she accept him even when he don't fall for her at first, I like equality in relationships and if fl sleeping around ml also should do that and vice versa and on other things also.