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but what a romance drama of 30 episode they don't get together till last five or four episode and I bet it will not be only about their relationship but two will be for other character and work 😅😂 so I watch 27 episode of their misunderstanding and stupid love triangle and both afraid to confess and working!? to get couple of episode they're together!? and he cooking for her while she focus on her writing 🙃 and delete kissing scenes 🙃

and plus they don't even start dating and it's 23 ep of 30 ep 😅😂😂😂

they don't want them to get together earlier so they don't have time to break up cliché lol this is not slow burn there not even a fire to start with to burn anything lol from 30 episode they date for 4 episode or less it's crazy to call it slow 😅😂

most mls love fls just because fin to have choice 😅😂 when you want to know why they fall for fls you don't find anything and you just say it's unconditionally love 🙃🙂

it will still need another three to four episode before they dating so they don't have time to break up cliché😅😂😂😂🙂

I didn’t watch it, and I won’t. I appreciate your explanation, even if I didn’t understand many things since I haven’t seen it.
When you say it’s not the era where women listen to men without discussion, you’re right. But in C-dramas,we’re in an era where men don’t have any dignity or say if the FL disagrees. We’re in an era where slapping men is considered romantic and acceptable and mls cry and beg for forgiveness and fls don't even try and if they do it's just say sorry and that's it . We’re in an era where the FL has many men chasing after her, and the ML can’t say anything about it, or she gets mad at him just because he’s uncomfortable with her friendship with the SML who clearly loves her.
We’re in an era where being independent and having a job is treated as more important than the ML as a boyfriend or husband. We’re in an era where MLs and SMLs exist only to love the FL and make her look more badass. We’re in an era where the FL always has the last word in every discussion. We’re in an era where FLs don’t even know how to boil an egg, while MLs are always top chefs.
I could name many more examples. When women do something, it’s seen as okay, but when MLs do the same, it’s called toxic or a red flag. In the past, men who slapped FLs were considered scumbags and still till now never watch a romantic drama ml slap fl because she did something wrong and still she loves him and chase after him and fans find it normal . Now, when FLs slap or even stab MLs, it’s seen as badass, and people say he deserved it.
Before, men who didn’t help with cooking or chores were called lazy and red flags. Now, when FLs don’t do those things, it’s seen as cute and clumsy and their reason because they’re busy working likeMLsc are stay-at-home boyfriends not working also even more 😅.
Before, MLs with multiple relationships were labeled as playboys. Now, FLs having the same past is considered normal and open-minded . What’s even crazier is that sometimes she puts more effort into her relationship with the SML her ex than with the ML after because she change to chase her dream so she stops give her man the priority , and no one says anything about it. Being friends with an ex used to be toxic, but now when the FL does it, it’s seen as fine ,while the ML is expected to just accept it and stay quiet andinuat get jealous and makehimselfi look insecure another point to make mls look lower than fls and how they react to same thing different ml act like boys while fls don't care even if she's jealous she don't make herself a joke because of it.

I agree with you about discussion and equality in relationships and everything , but I challenge whomever say that current C-dramas truly show equality to me, they often show FLs as superior to MLs, SMLs, and men in general. We constantly see MLs chasing, unable to express their opinions freely, and always agreeing or staying silent to avoid making the FL angry or losing her to a more “perfect” simp SML, and always apologizing and never mad at herohe has always to be green forest even if she rejected him even if she run without saying anything even if she defend her ex or sml and trust them more than ml he always forgive her without her doing anything but when ml reject fl it's his fault and he will regret the dayhhe do that before she forgive him 😅 .

Sorry for the rant and for bothering you, and thank you again for your explanation about the drama. Have a good day.

is this drama also have love triangle and reverse harem from start!? is love triangle water cdramas can't live without it!?

I agree with you it's really like you said, men has to do everything to get a little

It’s never really a rival, because even if the ML didn’t stop it (like they usually do), MLs always seem to have some kind of “allergy” to other women except the FL. The FL wouldn’t compete with another woman anyway , she has dignity and wouldn’t fight someone else over a man and she will start distance herself from him towards sml an ml will start panicking or she'd be mad at the ML if he didn’t handle it. 🥲😅🙃
Don’t you notice how rare it is to find an ML who has a female friend (SFL) that act like smls and still stay in friendzone after get rejected , or shows his ex and fl get jealous because of her like mls , or even dates another woman before breaking up and getting with the FL like most of Cdrama in recent years about fls break up with their ex and ml help them get Heald 🙂? They always write MLs as “pure,” with no experience. The usual reasons are: he fell for the FL from the start and stayed faithful for years, or he simply never wanted to date anyone until she came along and “changed” him and he starts dreaming about her and can’t live without her. 😅😂 and this actor have a couple of dramas like this when he fall for fl and she even get married to sml and after years she get divorce and he fight for her second time and do everything in the relationship while she focus on her career, you're my secret Cdrama is a good example about what I'm talking about, he was a big simp in that drama and she was not a good girlfriend "wife"
Like you said, the double standard is crazy in the C-drama world. Watch dramas where an SFL likes the ML, and you’ll see how much the ML suffers because of the FL’s jealousy. But when the ML is jealous, she doesn’t care and might still go out or work with her ex. Got a Crush on You is one of good examples .

😅😂😂
And that’s exactly what I’m talking about the cluelessness thinking the other person also sees it as just friendship. In C-dramas, by their “laws,” the SML is always closer to the FL, and she’s more herself with him. She gives him more space to act like more than just a friend, even if he's not her friend from the start, if watch the first frost you get what I'm talking about.
I call it the “SML halo” it gives him more freedom to cross boundaries, do questionable things, and still come off as good. It’s not like the ML, If the ML did even half of what the SML does, the FL would slap him multiple times.

If you notice, in Cdramas it’s usually only the ML who gets slapped by the FL. The SML gets away with things with just a small apology, and the FL forgives him easily. Meanwhile, the ML has to beg, cry, and “close the ozone hole” before he gets forgiven 😅😂.
There’s a long list of differences between the two, and fans also see SML blindly and let them get away with a lot of red flags just because they’re handsome and charismatic 🙃🙃

It’s a common thing in C-dramas to humiliate the MLs and show that FLs don’t care about the ML’s feelings. She can do whatever she wants, and if the ML says anything, he’s suddenly the “red flag.”
If you watch Sweet Love, the ML advises the FL not to work with the SML, but she gets mad and ignores him, then she works with the SML anyway, and he takes advantage of her friendship and almost forces himself on her. In the end, it’s the ML who saves her.
The crazy part is that she slaps the ML like it’s nothing before that , but defends the SML even after what he did and say to ml while putting ice on the place sml punch . She even laughs when the ML gets mad because she said that and she say, “You’re just jealous.”
Honestly, if I were in the ML’s place, that would be a huge reason to end everything becausei would not get 👊 for her everytime she don't want to listen to my advice because she's independent or whatever. a partner should think twice or more about his partner feelings and words not just do what he wants without consider anything just because he can do it and confident.
and I l'm sure she don't care about ml because she thinks if he said something against it she will ignore him because her choices more important than a man in her life.

I also blame female leads who have zero EQ and can’t set boundaries with second male leads or stop them before things go too far. Instead, they wait until he confesses—by then, it’s already too late. Most of the time, he stays in the friend zone even after being rejected, which later feels disrespectful toward the male lead.
But in C-dramas, they don’t seem to care about the male lead’s respect or dignity. It’s mostly used to show that the female lead has men falling for her left and right unconditionally.
Because if this were actually seen as something good, why don’t we see the opposite? Two women fighting over the male lead, he chooses one, and then casually stays friends with the other without anyone questioning it and fl get jealous and can't say anything about it 🤣🤣 poor mls writers mad at men or something because it's not eqyayhow they show fls and mls.

It’s a love triangle by cdrama laws 😅 and it’s an overused cliché. The scenes with both men fighting to impress the FL and standing in front of her to protect her are cringe as f. The ML gets jealous, and the FL acts like she can’t see any of that, which makes her EQ lower than a child. They also make the SML look better than the ML and give him more chemistry with her because he acts freely, and she acts freely too, so their interactions look better than with the ML, who can’t even start a conversation and is cold to a ridiculous degree. She’s always running from him and her past, like loving him was a bad thing

thank you I'm asking in the relationship is she also show her love and make effort or like always it's only ml doing everything while she focus on her career!? because I like equality in the relationships between mls not one person doing everything while the other has more important things. and is they get together early or ots slow romance!? thank you .

you're welcome, at least something make us laugh about this waste of time drama 🙃😅🙂🥲

and is she's also like him the cream of women or another cdrama about ml simp and fl have more important things than a simp chasing after her!? is it mutual effort or while he was loving her and helping her she was chasing independent and career!? and another question please is there a simp sml also here!? thank you

I will never forgive myself if I get tricked by these cucumber-simp-loving writers ever again. I’m proud of myself for the knowledge I have about these cliché, stupid, time-wasting K-dramas. For years now, I haven’t wasted time on any drama because it’s always the same thing: a selfish FL with emotional baggage and a simp ML who was born just to love her and breathe her pain without any dignity or make her deserve his unconditionally love . A dog is better than him 🙃 sorry to the dogs for comparing them to these simps 😅.
And what makes me happy is this ending that says the FL travel to try “Hawaiian meat,” and she lets the ML know she’s happy with that diet, while he’s happy that she’s happy eating it. Meanwhile, he’s still waiting to help her when she comes back if she gets sick from eating that much 😅😂😂😂😂

it's a perfect ending for a cuck simp ml and the selfish fl , and his “perfect love” who can’t be with him without making him suffer but he enjoys that suffering. And knowing she’s happy under another man while still thinking about him gives him a boost to his confidence, that he’s special to her 😅😂😂😂

she send it to ml because he's a cucumber like to see his woman with others and it gives him more power to stay single waiting for her to break up with the other one so he can help her find another 😅😂😂😂

jdrama a loss case, I don't mention it because it's another different planet for cucumbers not only simps lol, and yes fl can't defend themselves against sml advances and even apologize to him because she can't love him , and there some jdrama sml is ml brother or friend and live with him and he still chase after fl or take advantage of her and later say he was just testing her love for ml, like I said they make cucumber mls without any dignity, some even watching fl get kissed or hugged and he just watch like it's normal . some jdrama even cheating with sleeping with others is acceptable and ml get mad at if he wants to break up with her 😅😅 or the other way around. in real life too they are weird in this regard 🙃🙂