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this what I dislike about kdrama also, they show her sadness and all more important and how he work to help her and understand her pain, but when it's about ml he deal with it alone no one understand him or think about his feelings and his reasons, and at last minute she forgive him and he should worship her for that, and say to him he did well so she did more than he did for her 🙃🙃🙃🙃 unbalance in everything unfortunately.

I just read they didn't get Back till ep 38 so what chemistry there will be with all this waste of time, ml chasing after her to convince her to be with him , while she running from him because of her insecurities 😅!?

so after the break up she didn't get back to him till episode 37 !?!!!!

why even use this stupid love triangle and give the leads more time to develop true feelings and build chemistry not she play on both option till the last third of drama and still be friends with one of them 🙃

so is ml or sml dating another woman also or it's only specific for fl!? crazy that dating more than one person a time and be plan b and plan a for someone while still trying others when you give 100 percent for him 🙃

Because he’s “too good,” so being disappointment with writers and I write harsh comment on him but it's about the plot not the characters 🙃 . I really dislike writers who create a male lead like this , while the drama is centered on the female lead and her development, they don’t let the male lead think like a man who knows what’s best for himself. Instead, he’s stuck on a selfish first love.
He lets a selfish FL control him, even though his life is much harder than hers, and she doesn’t care at all. All that matters to her is her own happiness and what she wants , not just with him, but with others too.
He keeps clinging to a few bright memories from the past because his life is so dark that he mistakes rusty iron for gold. It’s like someone addicted to drugs, chasing fake happiness. 🙃🙂
And of course, I didn’t even watch it to drop it 🤣😂 You think I’d waste my time on this cliché K-drama!? I just enjoy discussion about this cliché kdrama and because I know the plot watching it from just read some comments and I know the plot 😅

I won’t change my opinion because it’s a fact. He’s a loser for never moving on and going back to her the first chance he got.
She’s still the same she left him to be “independent,” yet after years she hasn’t changed, just added another failed relationship after dating the second lead and dumping him too, and get a job she didn't even want if not the sml that also act as creepy loser .

If he had moved on, it would’ve been fine. But going back to someone who left you for such reasons shows no self-respect and didn't learn anything in those peaceful years you said he focus on 🙂.
And honestly, she’ll probably break up with him again and he’ll still be waiting, because she's that person who didn't do anything in her life or heald any of her wounds and get with her ex that she break up with and break his heart on phone without any reconciliation so the only outcome is another break up and heart break with sad ending_ it will be good _ or a last minute happy ending and fl get successfully and get back to ml who was waiting for her _ it will be a sad ending 🙃_.

thank you, I appreciate it, but I skip it I don't like angst more than happy times and they dating others also is one of my dislikes in dramas, and the worst if fl or ml don't have boundaries with their exs and Thai dramas have this cliché of forced kissing from exs without any response they even still be friends like jdrama also 😅😂 thank you and sorry for bothering you.

hi, is there a love triangle!? and if you remember when mls get together, and if there a love triangle area they have boundaries with other love interest or like Mostly they didn't!? and is there too much angst more than happy times!? thank you

that's what mls for this waste of time plot, fl break up with ml. to be independent just to depend on sml and to get back as she left to ml so he has to take care of her failed life and her trauma and help her get her dream job she left him for years to get 😅😂😂 like surly tomorrow she run from ml to get back wanted to kill herself so he blame himself that he didn't left his sick father to run after her everytime lol when she was trying to have kids with her husband 😅😂😂😂

sml : I'm a 🏺to you!?

so he didn't even get to know her before stop dating her 😂😅 they mention something like that just to say he did, but not actually dating like fl did.

long story short if it was the fl who was doing all this for the ml they will find hundred of reasons to say she's green flag but wheyits the ml he's bad and red flag and he plays with her and he's a coward 😅😂😂 and that's it,

maybe I let you understand the 🐻 and have them as pets even, and you know men more so good for you,😅😂😂 and à question please to understand from you : a man meeting a women in the woods he should chose the female bear or he should trust that woman and don't think she maybe is Aileen Wuornos!?

Yes, it’s exactly like “surely tomorrow” 😂. And in K-dramas and C-dramas, since they’re mostly aimed at a female audience, they often give the FL this kind of plot: she has an ex-boyfriend or dates other people, while the ML is still dreaming of meeting her again after 10 years… or even more. I even saw a K-drama where the ML stayed single for 20 years until he met the FL again lol.

It’s funny that the “never look back” line actually has some truth to it. Like you said, he never moved on, so the past is still his present, technically, he’s not looking back at anything 😅😂😂
And the FL is just a lost case.
The ML, after meeting her, turned into a complete simp don't respect himself , he was never really a win case to begin with.
The SML is another simp, still waiting for another chance with someone break up with him and still loving her first love ( I think sml is her second victim because I don't watch this waste of time plot) .

And the big question is: what does she even have that makes these two simps erase every other woman in existence and only see her and fall for her!???? who said love is blind didn't lie but they say it to justify having no self respect or backbone.

He’s not just liking her, he fell for her from the start, but he can’t be with her for his own reasons, not because he doesn’t like her. And he’s been suffering more than her for years, while she only just started to like him 🙂. It’s not a bad thing for her to feel a little of what he’s been feeling all those years, so she can understand his suffering later when they get together.

😅😂، I recent years I never start an ongoing drama because of this stupid clichés and same plot I always wait if I know they don't change anything I just talk about it and that's it, I enjoy discussion like this about it more than the drama lol

Yes, I agree with you. I stopped watching this cliché plot, and I can talk about it as if I’ve watched it because they are all the same. They always give the FL other options, while the ML shuts down his feelings until he meets her again. And I know that FLs also don’t develop or change like they’re supposed to when they break up with the ML the first time, so they always need a second breakup ,or even a third until they finally understand what they want. The “solution” to their problems is always breakups.Also, MLs dating others, or the SFL that love them , is basically forbidden in these romcom K-dramas. Like that recent drama about virtual boyfriends: she had an ex, then later dated her “perfect” dream boyfriends, while the ML fell for her from the start, and that’s basically his whole role, It would have been so easy to make the plot about both of them trying virtual dating and learning together, especially since the ML also has no experience and know it's just fake solution and reality is different . But no they only give that option to the FL and SFL , while the ML and SML aren’t allowed to have the same experience.And in most romantic dramas, it’s always about the FL healing from her scumbag ex or great ex that she can't forget and when he comes back she still be friend with him while ml get jealous and helps her become better and moved on , even though he never dated anyone, or his past just isn’t important , this is more crazy in cdramas unfortunately . sorry for long paragraphe😅

Unfortunately, we are the minority, and the majority like this stupid setting about devoted MLs being “green flags” and FLs trying other options like any normal human would do over many years, But MLs are not human , they’re simps 😂😂. I can’t remember, in the past two years or more , an ML with self-respect and boundaries who respects himself enough to let go of an FL who breaks his heart multiple times, and say he needs someone who fights for him the same way he fights for her. They always just accept everything, fight the SML, and apologize to the FL because she’s “suffering” while dating others 🙂😂. And I think we’ll be waiting for nothing for a long time before we see an ML who has more important things than falling in love with the FL in romance K-dramas and C-dramas. the last kdrama I watch with a normal ml act as a man and don't tolerate fl in everything she do, in kdrama' it's okay that's love ml