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Did she love her husband in the past and have a normal relationship with him, and did they consummate their marriage? thank you

what!?? oky I hope you don't think like this in real life and think someday to slap a man, because you will wake up with your blue face and one tooth missing, 😅😂😂😂 . a crazy opinion to be honest, in cdrama mls are simps so I get that they take it as they deserve it, but use slapping as punishment or to say something is crazy, because I can't think how someone get slapped by his woman still has dignity to act like her man equal to her. an advice never ever slap a man if you don't know he's a weak simp , otherwise you will sleep on the floor 😅😂

yes it's more humiliating than anything else,
and also when a women slap a man it's more humiliating, that's why I find it crazy how they write fls in cdrama slapping mls easy and mls accept it as nothing happened 🙃

first time I like a slap in cdrama 😅😂 because it's always fl slaps mls, but this slap is great and he deserves to get flogged till he hate thinking about her again

Let's see how the SML acts next when the FL is in a relationship too, and let's see how the FL acts toward the ML after she accepts her feelings. Because until now, it's only him doing everything while she was rejecting him, and she still didn't try to win him back like it should've happened. I get that they do that to show that he fights for her, so now it's her turn, because he's the one making the first move every time. And I'm afraid they'll show it with a breakup cliché 🙂🙃. I hope this drama at least has a healthy relationship without a stupid breakup after all this wasted time about her past with the SML (I hate love triangles) 😅😂 so I can enjoy this last part without sml in the picture, I hope she make boundaries with him not let him hugs her everytime he likes again.

if they make ml story as deep with sfl I will agree with you but unfortunately they are just pawns to use to move the story that about fl and her life struggle sfl to show fl brilliance and ml to be the prize after she give everything to sml sk she needs someone that give everything for her while she don't do anything 😅😂

so it's only okay for sml to. be sore loser and have a good back story more deep with fl but sfland ml is just there to be pawn one as evil and the other as green forest to help fl move on 😂😅😅 this cliché of writing is lazy one

can you give me the time stamp of their back story to skip it please !?

If she's soft only with him, I support that too. But here, she's soft with all the men around her, so they all fall for her and misunderstand her smiles and kindness as romantic interest. And she still thinks of the SML as a close friend after everything he did and even after knowing he has feelings for her.
This makes the ML a simp in bad way that he tolerate things he don't like because he's afraid she will leave him or make her mad on his standards and boundaries , a man who gives more than he gets and she can't can't tolerate same thing if he did it

. But when both people simp for each other equally, that's what a healthy and perfect relationship looks like.

I think the difference is that for me, once someone has romantic feelings and is still waiting for a chance, it stops feeling like a normal friendship. Maybe one side calls it “platonic,” but if the other side clearly wants more, then the dynamic already changed. So my issue is not just interaction itself, but keeping that kind of relationship close while being in another relationship is disrespect on my opinion .
And yes, maybe some people are okay with that, but I personally wouldn’t be comfortable with it. Especially if that person starts acting like they have any right to comment on our relationship or stay emotionally involved while waiting for an opportunity and act like he's special . I would rather stay single than be in that situation, tolerating another person who wants my partner and , my partner give him time and laugh and sad with him. ( like some even accept to be with someone still friends with their exs 🙃🙃I still don't know how they can accept it and live normal, good for them I suppose)

About self-respect, accepting everything and tolerate anything is not respect yourself , one should have boundaries and standards , People have different standards and boundaries. For me, boundaries are part of respect in a relationship, and one of boundaries is not to be friends with male friends that have feelings for you .
If someone else is okay with it, that’s their choice, but I know I wouldn’t accept it.

And yes, I know reverse harem stories are built around multiple men liking the FL, so I’m not surprised by it. I just personally don’t enjoy that dynamic because many dramas make every male character fall for the FL too easily just to make her seem special, and their first role in the drama is to love fl not something else, but fl role to have what she wants and being with a man is extra ,and the ML is expected to tolerate everything, apologize first , and never disagree with her, and if he did he should apologize or she be mad at him .
The double standards in a lot of C-dramas are what bother me more than the tropes itself 😅

Because she's married, she can't be friends with someone who thinks of her as more than just a friend. Or is it normal for you to be friends with someone who likes you romantically? Sorry, but this is disrespectful toward the husband or boyfriend. And if the husband or boyfriend accepts this, he needs help understanding what self-respect is 😅. In C-dramas, they always prove that friendship between women and men is impossible because they can't write a male second lead as “just a friend” without making him fall in love with her too.

thank you, I hate also sad endings lol 😂, I like dramas like in my profile the last ancient drama I enjoy is the brocade and the sword , and I also wach love like galaxy but I skip nearly more than 25 episode so I start when she and ml start relationship when he ask to marry her 😅, I can't watch her lovin smls before ml . have a good day

I mean after he hit her and pointed weapon at her!? how she still think he's her friend and even after she knows he love her romantically!?

in this kind of reverse harem the last person fl have good chemistry with is the ml

and fl still friends with him after doing all that!? wtf

Thank you for your reply. It makes my comment valid to a degree that her “independence” is only from her husband. Planning? I bet it’s just her saying something, and he says, “Okay, we’ll do it,” or “Do it, I’ll help you.” I can’t imagine C-drama writers making the ML disagree with the FL and her actually listening to him instead of doing whatever she wants. And if they do write that, then I need to watch it, because that would be something new. at least the episode because I can't watch this reverse harem unfortunately I hate love triangle.
But I don’t see how it’s respectful toward the ML, her husband, for her to ask the SML whom she knows has feelings for her for help while her husband is there and isn’t weak or poor to the point that his wife needs another man’s help. And if she supposedly doesn’t know he has feelings for her it will be less disrespectful (being smart fl but dumb about other men around her feelings is normal in C-dramas), but she knows enough that he has feelings, and she still keep being around him anyway. I don't think this is respect to her husband.

What do you think it's a C-dramas so making the FL have a second male lead and she has great chemistry and emotional scenes with is normal , sometimes she even acts better around him than around the ML at start before being with ml just because his scenes with her is not that many 😅
And maybe she has no boundaries with the SML even when she knows he loves her romantically, not just as a friend.

Meanwhile, the ML can’t even say anything about it and is only jealous in a “cute” way 😂😅
Another piece of evidence C-dramas give to prove that friendship between men and women is impossible 😅😂😂😂

So it's not proper to talk about it, but it's okay to be friends with other men? Since when is this okay? And she has more time and chemistry with him, yet she can't set boundaries with him. She still acts like he doesn't like her romantically.

by doing that is to work and get help from. other men but not ml!? is it like this her too because on other cdrama fl act independent only from ml but she get help from sml and other men 🙂🙃

after I read comments about sml and other men around fl à d her dumb think it about being only friend with them and not see their romantic feelings I can say he's a simp in the worst way possible 🙃😅😂