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On Guess Who I Am Mar 31, 2024
This is very slightly spoilery but just for scenes, not for plot...

Ep 3, I can't explain why a ludicrous dance scene gives me so much joy, but it does. (Unlike a ludicrous musical/singing number - yep I am inconsistent)
The tropes in this are just so silly, funny and kind of joyful. [I'm talking about you ridiculous pool scene, with hair flick and near drowning; amongst others!]
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Replying to Meowchi Mar 26, 2024
WOW! What an informative article it is! I'm going to ptw all of these dramas hehe... TYSM 💕
OMG your profile gif is so CUTE it's ridiculous 😍
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On Her Private Life Mar 22, 2024
Ryan Gold is frequently lauded in drama articles, as a 'green flag' boyfriend because he supports her fangirl status. I feel like this massively underrates him. He is a green flag, because he tries to support her in a lesbian relationship (albeit a misunderstanding) in a culture where this is STILL not protected by anti-discrimination law. Clearly, he has COMPASSION - the ultimate green flag attribute.
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Replying to Toot Mar 17, 2024
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Replying to Toot Mar 17, 2024
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Replying to Snowme-HighOnDrama- Mar 17, 2024
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I m officially joining the "its butler gang" cause step mom ordered it is obvious but she too weak to do it herself…
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Replying to Flex X Cop Mar 17, 2024
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Replying to Vincenzo Cassano Mar 14, 2024
I haven't watched this yet, but i don't understand what you mean. Aren't they a couple? Isn't there meant to be…
I understand where you're coming from, but for me, for my community, moving forward, I see the only way is for 'active enthusiastic consent'. Then there is no grey area of, "I didn't ask for consent, but they didn't say no..."
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Replying to Vincenzo Cassano Mar 13, 2024
I haven't watched this yet, but i don't understand what you mean. Aren't they a couple? Isn't there meant to be…
Yes ask in some way, every time. If this is annoying then you're with the wrong person. Yes skinship is essential but it should be mutual and respectful. Otherwise aren't you forcing your own needs on someone else?! It's simple isn't it? In a healthy and happy relationship, you should respect the other person's boundaries and you should want them to be happy and feel good. If you don't, then you are with the wrong person.
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Replying to Vincenzo Cassano Mar 13, 2024
I haven't watched this yet, but i don't understand what you mean. Aren't they a couple? Isn't there meant to be…
Yes I would. "I find Oh My Ghost", for example, very disturbing!
And yes, you should ALWAYS ask permission. ALWAYS! Clear, enthusiastic consent is a must. This comes down to being clear, that the person you are having skinship with, is wanting that. You should want your intimate partner to be happy and comfortable. Pressuring someone else, to meet your needs is just wrong to me. How can the 'skinship' be good if only one of the participants is enjoying it?!

In this show, the skinship is presented as him being quite domineering and forceful, and her showing discomfort but acquiescing. I understand that some people find this 'a thing', but I find it disturbing and I worry it sends a confusing message of what is acceptable.

There is plenty about this show, to like, so do go ahead if it sounds like your thing,, but for me, the skinship scenes are not it.
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