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Replying to Fluffy Flower Jan 29, 2025
This drama is terribly frustrating; I didn't imagine they could still make something so bad. Only a few female…
Bad is the leads being married for 3 years and he had a one night stand not knowing its his wife.

Bad is the guy choking the wife.

Bad is the wife coming back with 5 children after being overseas.

Bad are those ridiculous stepmothers and step sisters.

Bad is the bad acting. So much bad acting.

Bad is the bad make up, editing, costumes or awful parents.

Bad is the grandfather drowning his psychopath grandson.

So what EXACTLY is bad here? Its a normal family drama. Try watching the 50 episodes KBS2 weekend dramas.

This? This is excellent. The initial romance is not to say 100% my taste but I totally enjoyed it. This is harmless angst. There is no time leap. My god which drama did I watch had the 5 year time leap?

Those examples? Just some of the gems I went through because I've finished my other 40 episode dramas.
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Replying to Luffy Jan 28, 2025
Hasn’t that childhood friend already appeared. I don’t think she has any more plot left.
Yes. Its entertaining alright.
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On Perfect Match Jan 28, 2025
The mothers were inspiring in ep 10. I laughed way too hard during the 2nd rescue plans
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Replying to Megumi-H Jan 28, 2025
I am actually quite surprise that so many viewers have been triggered in this comment section. I thought, if you…
Thank you. Hope you get some rituals done. Its good for the soul. I went off to the shops and caved in and bought the cookies. The quality will be mediocre but at this point... its memories for the children.

One day, we'll make it back one day before the older generation passes away.

After all the commenting here I actually sat down and tried to recall how large my extended family is. 15 sets of aunts and uncles. 1 set of grandparent had 4 wives So all those going off their tree about men and domestic violence.... am sure not all 15 of my aunts/uncles had those romantic love stories a la Cdramas.

Anyway... its time to head off to real life.
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Replying to meidreams Jan 28, 2025
I thought a little about it and I think it's because they are too human in their awfulness. Too realistic and…
I stopped reading because I wasn't getting any insigights into the episodes. Just ranting from viewers about xyz etc etc.

I don't think this drama will take the prize for script writing but its watchable which is what I care most about. It has a huge talented cast.
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On Perfect Match Jan 27, 2025
Good god the comment section gets worse as I read and I've felt like I went on a critical analysis spree.

Let me make simple. I started this yesterday and finished ep 8. It was frustrating at times but it was entertaining. Kept my interest.

And now after this exhausting comments section I am off to prepare for the Chinese New Year and get my kids red envelopes from the bank. I live overseas and we don't have all the options of having easy access to all the stuff for the Lunar New Year.

So happy new year everyone. And enjoy the reunion dinner. I envy those of you who have this option because for us who live in countries where its not a big deal... ordinary life goes on and I have kids to bring for surf lifesaving training. I would so rather have a Chinese hot pot dinner with the seafood and meat balls.

So I am actually nostalgically enjoying it as my dad has passed away and my mother is overseas and my sister is in the US. So this drama and the family; flawed or not- hits the right notes. Lunar New Year is 15 days long. Family might be frustrating and confining.... but have to say watching a big bickering family for the next 2 weeks is perfectly fine by me.
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Replying to meidreams Jan 27, 2025
I thought a little about it and I think it's because they are too human in their awfulness. Too realistic and…
The thing is right is that it was the norm to have men who cheated then marry them in as concubines. Domestic violence existed then and it exists now. Or see someone they wanted then marry them.

Selfish self centred men existed throughout the ages. I am not limiting it to men its the same with women.

Women who marry for status did then and do now.

So this irrational hate for the male leads in this drama isn't quite logical. Its logical to hate these sort of traits yes. Is this the worst male characters in dramas? Heck no.

Do people think women in those olden days are romantics? If there is no male head of the household I would be looking for stability or status or protection too. Love does not trump reality.

And cheating? Gosh... stop applying real life to the ideal ideas of pure love. Men and women have cheated through the ages. Its just that men had the options of wives and concubines. And before people go " ewww... " my grandad lived in the generation where it was legal to have multiple wives and he did. 4 of them and yes he was rich? Was he a randy old fart? Yes he was since 4th grandmother was supposedly very young. My grandmother was also young and accomplished. The point of the matter is.... it did happen. I don't normally mention on MDL that I am ethinically Chinese so understand all these filial piety concept etc. And my whole extended family of siblings half aunts/ uncles and adopted uncles/aunties all got along thank you very much. Yes the properties were divided the males amongst a la Cdrama style. The females got dowries.

So the dramas are not that far off reality. So all these pure love for only 1 partner forever and forever was not the norm back then. Apply the standards and this drama is perfectly fine.

The comments section here? Definitely over the top criticising it.
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Replying to JojoOnDatBeat Jan 27, 2025
and it's without any reason because everyone knows all these two smart people need is to have a single uninterrupted…
Are 2 single people of the opposite sex allowed to be in a closed room to have that tea?

Not in her restaurant. Not in his tea house. Not in an open aired noodle place. He's too well known.

So yeah. That is me applying logic. The only time would be at night. In the back alley and I don't see that happening.
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Replying to JojoOnDatBeat Jan 27, 2025
idk about character development but we definitely saw his character regress today lmao
Isn't that the point? There is no room for improvement if the man is perfect from the word go?

And 5 sisters without male protection in those days? I actually think its nice to have pragmatic leads and not those thinking love is the be all and end all in those days? They don't think love is important. Love doesn't put food on the table and kept the household safe did it?
By the way I am ok with characters whose only flaws are being filial to the mother rather than tbose petulant spoilt brats being redeemed. Or actual stupid characters who make foolish decisions. Those dramas are hard to watch.
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Replying to Random ramblings Jan 27, 2025
I think it’s bc this was presented as a feel good romcom but instead none of the mls are up to standard
Feel good?

Doesn't it feel good? The sibling relationships are close.

The 2 cousins are close.

The histrionic mothers are common. At least the children don't hate the parents.

I literally can't see it unless its thr violence? The worst thing so far has been the pretence post the kidnap rescue. That was idiotic and callous. As someone who has watched Pride and Prejudice over 20 times- the series and movie- and the book; I am not fully committed to say it gives me the same vibes. I mean if it followed the book then the 5th sister is due to marry an actual wastrel. The 5 sisters are shown to be happy in the last scene.

There are so many good looking male actors in this casting. Surely no one sane expects 5 perfect devoted male leads in one drama did they? Which Cdrama had ever seen such delusional writing? Angst drives ratings upward as we all know.

That drama logic of perfection vs flawed characters doesn't fly. Its not utter perfection as dramas goes but it is entertaining. Its 8 episodes of a 36 episode drama.

I have no idea what everyone is on about. By the way, I am just watching. I've just done ep 1-8 in one hit yesterday. I am kicking myself as I should have waited till after ep 15 because I'm now waiting for the wedding.

Currently the only person irritating me is actually the 3rd sister but then the actual character in Pride and Prejudice did irritate in the book until they all settled and mellowed down at the end. I did like the book.

Ok. On further thoughts I think the mother irritated me more. See? All the negative thoughts. This is actually more entertaining then the dramas I've dropped in Nov- Dec. I've not started and dropped quite a few.
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On Perfect Match Jan 27, 2025
Why is everyone so emotional over this drama?

I mean the emotions are running high and I can't figure out why?

There is no situation or character that hasn't appeared in other dramas but people seem so personally offended. Am I missing something? There have been as much violence in other dramas. The mothers are not the worst mothers. There's hardly any concubines.

The only jarring notes have been the young Emperor and the consort who looks 5- 10 years older.
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Replying to Sifi12345 Jan 27, 2025
Why did you drop Moonlight Mystique if I may ask? I put it on pause for a while (I watched until episodes 20 I…
Acting and writing was not riveting.
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On Flourished Peony Jan 27, 2025
My gosh the wait is torture. I am waiting for ep 32 to drop on viki. I already know the ending but wanted to watch it on my tv and not on the streaming sites on my phone or laptop.

I am feeling terribly bored as I have nothing to watch while waiting. I am waiting for more episodes in Perfect Match. I've finished Legend of the Dafeng. Still holding off Everlasting Longing or whatever its called. Plus dropped Blossoming Love and Moonlight Mystique.
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Replying to Kannadin Jan 26, 2025
I'm not sure about your comment. I think they made it a point to explain that the key is unique in the world but…
Hshaha. I have been reading spoilers from ep 6. I've stopped watching. I am now not even watching ep 12.

The main and only reason I'm watching it is because both main actors came from my 2 previous dramas. The male actor was the lead in a fairly nice romance. The female actor was a secondary couple in that Jung Hae- in drama. She had a nice romance but she has a quirky lopside smile. Her built, smooth skin and even those feminine looking hands were already implausible from episode 1.

Then looking for a missing key for a lost wooden plot just made my day. I don't think I've stopped laughing. You can't use a heavy rock in case there is something breakable inside. If there,are horses in this era/ which it has; then there must be a blacksmith with a metal implement which you can smash the box with.

So we still have a missing box with a solution. Hang the key. It will require a blacksmith and its too intricately made but heck care authenticity; there is a 5 star hotel in the plot.

We have the girl role playing character. And an obvious Hanyang version of a 5 star hotel which is and always been implausible.

This whole drama has been full of plotholes anyway.

So the writer didn't do any worse than what they started with in the beginning. A fusion sageuk. So they had a license to ruin everything. And they have. Even the plot is not gripping anyway
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Replying to maybetrue Jan 26, 2025
Title Study Group
My good friend in dear old USA taught in a high school like this..students coming back from Rikers, teachers getting…
Ergh. My kids will be going to high school next year and I'm already worried. There is bullying everywhere these days but my issue will be recreational drug use.

Its a good drama so far but have to admit its alarming as a parent.
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Replying to riri Jan 26, 2025
Title Study Group
The webtoon it’s based on Study Group is action packed and focuses on school violence and survival.
Well that's the vibe I'm getting so as at least its consistent.
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Replying to micheal1803 Jan 26, 2025
Title Study Group
Gonna wait unti its finished to see if there is romance cuz i dont really like things without but Love shows like…
That's his teacher. They cast adults but they characters are technically 15- 16 year olds if they are in the 10th grade.

Not to mention they actually go to military service as well. So no.... not all Kdramas rise and set with romance.
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Replying to Dramaticami Jan 26, 2025
Title Study Group
Okay but what in the ghetto? Fortunately the setting ain’t America, some shotguns would have already killed…
Er you want to read up actual news articles about how bullies bully in S Korea?

You cannot discount another's traumas just because people don't have easy access to guns in South Korea.

Ghetto? Who's definition and which cities?

Realistic? Well considering there is CCTV everywhere in SK I presume the fight will be seen or reported to the police. Plus read up about personal liability laws in Korea and how people settle crimes.

I am not saying S Korea is crime- ridden but on the other hand real life can be worse even without guns. Did you read about how some recruits died recently because of bullying? People die and get killed or commit su icide without the use of weapons. I watch Kdramas but I also read or listen to the news.

You're watching a Kdrama which means you use the Korean standard.

I also think you should watch some actual videos about what South Korea is like vs what's on Kdramas.
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On Study Group Jan 26, 2025
Title Study Group
There are a lot of very well built 15- 16 year olds in this school.

They are supposed to be 15- 16 year olds in 10th grade right?

I must scroll through the comments to see what the novel is about. Its only 10 episodes. With all that violence there isn't much time to see how it all pans out.

I am wondering what I'm watching since I normally don't or won't watch school violence dramas especially since its showing assault on women and in this case by teenagers.

So what kind of novel is this based on?
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Replying to Darkell Jan 26, 2025
Title Love Scout
I am ep3..but i cant understand the role of 2ml..in the office and in this dramahis crap overacting already annoying…
He is a nakasan. His uselessness is exactly why the role suits him.
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