He was running to meet her and he said he was sorry to be late. How he hesitated?
Hey, I already said I have put myself in his shoes. However, after all that has been revealed to so far I still stand by what I said earlier. He obviously didn't run straight to her and that's why she left. Not quite to sure what your problem with the FL is exactly - that she was cold to ML or her lack of communication at times? It seems we will have to agree to disagree on this one. Look at both sides objectively, ML has done more "wrong" things.
He was running to meet her and he said he was sorry to be late. How he hesitated?
Agreed. I have read some of your other comments above. And I pretty much agree with your thoughts regarding the drama. Loving how they are showing how toxic a work environment can be for woman, especially one that is deemed attractive. The after work gatherings really irritate me.
You can clearly tell that FL keeps her guard up as a coping mechanism and she started to let it come down for ML only to be disappointed by his actions. So the wall is now back up and probably higher as well. I am glad we have more FL's backstory early on because I thought they would reveal it much later. Now we know that her trust issues, particularly towards men come from her relationship with her father. I'm now wondering if ML has a traumatic past which is related to actions before the 2nd date. Because he really had himself and myself fooled that he ran straight to the restaurant after work with no stops.
He was running to meet her and he said he was sorry to be late. How he hesitated?
Bahha. I'm glad I am not the only one who doesn't think the FL is at fault. In fact, until we are told the full story nobody is at fault. It is just one big misunderstanding.
Atm, the FL is my favourite. ML often comes off as desperate and stalkerish at times. I feel I have to justify his actions and behaviour at times. Some of things he has done would be clear red flags irl. He was doing way tooo much. I'm glad he took more of a back seat in episode 3 by giving her space. He needed to calm down and reflect.
He was running to meet her and he said he was sorry to be late. How he hesitated?
I respectively disagree. Ngl, I am more neutral but leaning more towards the FL. All of her actions are justified. She didn't cancel him and her behaviour isn't erratic. She was just hurt and angry at him and she probs could tell he wasn't telling the truth and therefore was not interested in his excuses. Plus he approached her at work the following day, imo that is not the ideal place to talk about their relationship. That being said, I put myself in both boots when I watch the show. So I think both sides have equal points. It's all about perspective. For example, at the end of ep2, ML though FL ran over to hug 2ML. However, in reality, she just tripped on the paving.
In regards to what happened before the 2nd date. I think he saw something while running across the street which made him panic and freeze. For how long - we don't know. Obviously some time passes between when the ML crossed the street and when he arrived at the restaurant. So far, we have seen it from his POV. Personally, I would like to see the whole story before judging the FL. Maybe from her POV, he looked rather suspicious outside and seemed to have stood her up hence why she left. He could have texted her at work to tell her he was going to be late.
Yes, I agree. He didn't commit a crime. But she is very well in her rights to question his motives and be upset with him. Her ignoring him is just how she dealt with the situation. It wasn't the best. However, both are at fault for the lack of communication.
He was running to meet her and he said he was sorry to be late. How he hesitated?
Did you not watch the ending of the episode lol? He clearly blanked out the part where he stopped running. Idk why he is lying to her and himself. Hence, he did in fact hesitate for some reason.
Same. My opinion of her drastically changed after that scene. Now every time she does something "nice" I will…
Wow. I didn't notice any of this. However, I will give her the benefit of the doubt in regarding the hugs. I honestly believe she was just that excited. I don't she necessarily thought about FL being there.
Same. My opinion of her drastically changed after that scene. Now every time she does something "nice" I will…
ML looked uncomfortable though with the handholding. It might be a celebratory dinner for winning the competition which she probs set up, hence it looking romantic.
she is keeping her close. She is too good to be nice. I mean she is not evil, but she is typical SFL.
Such a shame. I was hoping she wouldn't be since her first appearance. Sigh, but she is indeed showing signs of a typical SFL. However, I'm hoping she will be redeemable due to FL and SFL's shared passion of painting.
Same. My opinion of her drastically changed after that scene. Now every time she does something "nice" I will…
Umm. Not sure about that. I think she admits her feelings to him. But I don't think anything is official yet. Maybe next week. The ML still seems pretty hung up on the FL. The preview showed him following her to some location. I do think the only way ML moves onto 2FL is if he is certain FL is dating 2ML.
why didn't u come, u son of an oyster!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hahhaa. My guess is he panicked and froze. I think he saw something while running which triggered a bad memory. He may have traumatic past which I think could be related to his father or life after his father's death.
I don’t like people that pretend not to do something like the 2FL at the skate rink just to get his attention
Same. My opinion of her drastically changed after that scene. Now every time she does something "nice" I will be questioning her intentions. Such a shame because I was looking forward to FL and SFL bond over their passion for painting.
She looks like a person with complicated problems. What happened to her brother? What happened that she ostracized…
Valid points. I think her brother died and his death is probably linked to the reason for her ostracising her parents. I do think she has some ambition - she does seem quite keen to change positions at work. But i agree, she often feels like an observer rather than a participant of life. She is intentional with keeping her distance from others. Again, I think it's linked to her brother's death. Overall, i think her indifference to life is a combination of life's struggles wearing her down and her coping mechanism with a past trauma. I think it is the case of nobody can hurt me, if they aren't close to me. No doubt, this approach is making her live a very lonely and miserable life, where she has to deal with problems completely on her own. I can imagine this being very exhausting and draining. Whereas, the ML has a close relationship with his mother who makes sure he eats well by bringing cooked food for him.
You can clearly tell that FL keeps her guard up as a coping mechanism and she started to let it come down for ML only to be disappointed by his actions. So the wall is now back up and probably higher as well. I am glad we have more FL's backstory early on because I thought they would reveal it much later. Now we know that her trust issues, particularly towards men come from her relationship with her father. I'm now wondering if ML has a traumatic past which is related to actions before the 2nd date. Because he really had himself and myself fooled that he ran straight to the restaurant after work with no stops.
Atm, the FL is my favourite. ML often comes off as desperate and stalkerish at times. I feel I have to justify his actions and behaviour at times. Some of things he has done would be clear red flags irl. He was doing way tooo much. I'm glad he took more of a back seat in episode 3 by giving her space. He needed to calm down and reflect.
In regards to what happened before the 2nd date. I think he saw something while running across the street which made him panic and freeze. For how long - we don't know. Obviously some time passes between when the ML crossed the street and when he arrived at the restaurant. So far, we have seen it from his POV. Personally, I would like to see the whole story before judging the FL. Maybe from her POV, he looked rather suspicious outside and seemed to have stood her up hence why she left. He could have texted her at work to tell her he was going to be late.
Yes, I agree. He didn't commit a crime. But she is very well in her rights to question his motives and be upset with him. Her ignoring him is just how she dealt with the situation. It wasn't the best. However, both are at fault for the lack of communication.