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An old article, from the very beginning of the scandal, that no one wants to take into account, because it clearly speaks about the fact that Kim Soo Hyun has no involvement, of any kind, in Kim Sae Ron's problems, much less in the reason for her suicide.

It's an article in Korean and the translation isn't very accurate, but it's enough to get the gist: Kim Sae Ron wasn't supported by her family, and she even wanted to leave that family at all costs. And the man she married made her life even more difficult, through verbal, mental, and physical abuse.

Ask yourself some real questions and try to answer them by following the logical thread of events, not stories, and you will discover that things were complicated by some throwaway words, for which no one now wants to be held responsible.

"[Exclusive] Testimony from the late Kim Sae-ron's ex-boyfriend: "Kim Soo-hyun had nothing to do with Sae-ron's death."

What was the real reason behind Kim Sae-ron's death? examined the tips and testimony of Kim Sae-ron's ex-boyfriend, Mr. K, who she relied on and communicated with until her death, to uncover what truly weighed on the deceased.

[The Fact | Reporter Kang Il-hong] "I know that Saeron's death wasn't because of actor Kim Soo-hyun. I'm angry because there are so many parts of the truth that have been covered up. I want to share at least some of it with the world, if only to appease Saeron's soul."

The dead speak not. decided to delve into the true struggles of Kim Sae-ron through the tips and testimony of her ex-boyfriend, Mr. K, with whom she relied and communicated until her death. He stated, "Even Sae-ron, who has already passed away, would not want the cause of her death to be distorted from what it really was."

"I've lost hope in life."

Kim Sae-ron endured a painful period of conflict with two men until her death. Her ex-boyfriend, Mr. K, and a New York man (her husband) whom she reportedly married earlier that year. During the difficult times immediately following her marriage, Kim Sae-ron attempted to rely on her ex-boyfriend by communicating with him. Upon learning of this, the New York man took away her phone, monitored her, and verbally abused her. Kim Sae-ron broke up with her ex-boyfriend after meeting the New York man, but it appears she reconnected with him as she went through difficult times.

"Now that you're married, don't contact (the other guy) anymore and clean up your own mess after living together like X. You piece of shit, you piece of shit." (January 13, abusive text message sent to Kim Sae-ron by a New York man).

On January 15, Kim Sae-ron sent a text message to her ex-boyfriend, Mr. K, saying, "I'm sorry. Just swear at me, that XX, you crazy XX, that's because you're mentally ill. I keep getting sworn at and hit, but I don't change." She confessed her feelings, saying, "As long as you can be happy, I have no dreams or wishes. I loved you more than anyone else in the world."

Kim Sae-ron said, "I started seeing this person in November. At first, I didn't express myself and I was so lonely because I realized that you always had a hard time and I couldn't depend on you, so I looked away. I needed someone who would always listen to me and solve my problems. But that was only for a moment. After that, he started spreading photos of my KakaoTalk messages, hacked my Instagram and uploaded photos, and hit me and cursed at me. I was so scared. That's why I couldn't break up with him. I was afraid that this would harm you."

According to Mr. K, Kim Sae-ron suffered the most from her family's indifference and became pessimistic about her situation. On November 1, 2024, Kim Sae-ron self-harmed and tore her wrist ligament, requiring emergency surgery.

Regarding this, Mr. K said, "Immediately after Saeron was discharged from the hospital, I took her home and her biological mother was eating with an acquaintance calmly, and she didn't seem surprised or sympathetic to her pain at all." He added, "Because of this attitude from her family, Saeron always wanted to run away somewhere."

Kim Sae-ron confessed to Mr. K, whom she had relied on for emotional support even after marriage, about the reason she attempted suicide, saying, "I couldn't forgive myself for just cutting my wrists and I couldn't run away. I cut my throat countless times and hung myself with a hose, but all that left was a scar. I'm sorry I couldn't keep my promise. And that's all I'm hurting."

"I have never met the actor Kim Soo-hyun, but I think it must be very unfair that he is being beaten up because of his fame."


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Kim Soo Hyun is being wrongly accused, and most people like to believe the dark side of the story, instead of making this puzzle of information that has come to light so far. Here I am referring to all the inconsistencies of those who accused him, but also to the fact that an accused man has put part of his life on the table of judges and police, to prove his innocence.
What else could he have done?? What would you do if you were accused of something??

Those who still shout "pedo" and other derogatory terms are simply unhappy people who feed on such stories that they want to believe, but also because they like to humiliate others to make themselves feel good.
I have met such people and there are many of them, unfortunately.

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Your attempt to distance yourself from the shame you have brought upon yourself is downright desperate.

Leave the irony aside and present your CV as you usually do.😏 You've embarrassed yourself enough. Try to learn to do something useful in this life.

Frustration is all they have. And hate, of course.

@kdramachic Not everyone is able to get informed, because it is much easier to go with the flow.
This person has been around since the beginning of the scandal against KSH, and she hasn't managed to update herself. It's much easier to swallow something quickly offered by someone, than to put in the effort to seek information and find the gaps on her own....because there are so many things that have proven the lies of the greedy family and Garo. She just likes the story where she can bury someone.

@dead lilies You're repeating the same pattern with your alternate account; writing to people and then block them to avoid any feedback.
You already shown who you are, so there's no need to pretend otherwise. There's no need to invent new qualifications beyond passing the bar. Whether it's law or engineering, I'm not interested. Your language says enough about your education.

You are embarrassing...

For you, would it be more overwhelming to have debts and lose your job or a love that faded away 4-5 years ago?
A simple Google search will reveal the difficulties she has been facing since 2022.
I see that her life has been in decline since 2022 because she was no longer given a chance by the public and she was no longer able to work.
And let's not ignore the fact that she had 20 suicide attempts in her short life.

After her 2022 DUI incident, actress Kim Sae-ron faced intense public backlash, leading to a career downturn and financial difficulties, according to BBC and The New York Times. The public fury caused advertisers to drop her, resulted in canceled roles, and led to her being edited out of shows like Bloodhounds. She was fined 20 million won and publicly withdrew from the public eye, with the incident exposing the harsh "zero-tolerance" culture for celebrities in South Korea.

Kim Sae-ron faced significant public outrage and a barrage of negative online coverage. Some media outlets continued to exploit the story for clicks even after her death.
The incident led to the cancellation of her roles and her being edited out of the Netflix drama Bloodhounds.
The public's harsh reaction to her mistake, alongside the deaths of other celebrities like Sulli and Goo Hara, sparked discussion in South Korea about the intense pressure and "zero-tolerance" culture celebrities face, with critics highlighting the "unrelenting criticism" they endure for perceived missteps, notes BBC.

Of course, if you really want to believe that her life has come to a standstill because of Kim Soo Hyun, that's fine....

@kdramachic I had to reread your comment. I thought you joined the "educated" camp.😂

Judging by the way you express yourself, you seem to be a very educated person....

Even worse is how some have displayed their "studies" in the bar (now it is debatable which bar she was referring to) and still fail to see the difference between the evidence that exists and was presented to the authorities (not the public) and the "evidence" that never reached the authorities authorized to verify its authenticity, but only to the gullible and thirsty public... for scandal and other indecent desires.

@kdramachic People never cease to amaze me in the choices they make when it comes to believing something or not.😄

It seems I'm not the only one bothered by the appearance of these individuals who make a place look ugly.😊

I’ve been wondering why some users on MDL end up using offensive names toward other users or actors. It’s also surprising that the administrators don’t seem to react to insults, personal attacks, and inappropriate language that are often used by those who appear frustrated or disrespectful. By not deleting such comments, it almost feels like this behavior is being tolerated, which, unfortunately, encourages others to do the same. I’m not sure whether it’s better to remove those comments or leave them as proof of who those users really are.

As someone who supports Kim Soo Hyun, I believe it’s perfectly fine for fans to post frequently and discuss topics related to him on his page. After all, that’s what fan spaces are for.
But I do wonder, to those who come to these pages just to leave hurtful or insulting messages, what’s the reason behind that?

Since creating my MDL account, I’ve never gone to any actor’s page just to spread negativity or attack others.
During this recent scandal, after forming my own opinion, I visited Kim Soo Hyun’s page and was shocked by the amount of hateful and defamatory comments directed not only at the actor but also at users who support him.

When some people run out of valid arguments, they seem to resort to personal attacks or even block other users just to avoid being confronted. You don’t have to block or insult others, you can simply spend time on pages about actors or dramas you enjoy. No one will follow you there just to argue.
Sometimes it seems like the hate comments are more about venting personal frustration than genuine criticism. From behind a screen, it’s easy to cancel or insult others , but that doesn’t make anyone better.

It would be truly sad to fail to punish those who played with words, with "evidence" and with a man's life, career and mental health.
It's already very tiring that, after so long, we still don't see those who should be behind bars, they still haven't been brought to court and explained all the things they shouted on the internet.

But at least she seemed intelligent in her eyes, believing that she would show you that she knew what you might not know, even though you gave that direction very clearly.😂 Her effort to explain something so obvious was beyond embarrassing.

The failures have remained in old habits, repeating the lies of others and, of course, the usual insults.
However, the show given by that "intelligent" person who claims to have legal studies, should be preserved as a screenshot.

I cracked laughing at the phrase about the local bar, which you brought up with that "intellectual"😂 You answered her with such intelligent humor that I don't think she, poor thing, understood much of it.
It was a great show.😏