Kinara

Thank you! That says it all. He is just unimportant to her. Holds no value at all. Which is even worse

lol or have not been in relationships

BTW some people here feel that the ML needs to bend over backwards for the FL. It’s like he should just forget every she did to him. That was such a shitty apology. And she wants everything on her own terms . Just because he spoiled her she thinks she can get away with anything. And ML is not allowed to be angry or upset.

He did give her opportunities to explain. She ran away the first time without telling him anything and the driver told him everything. She wants everything at her own pace. How is that possible? Does he not have any say at all.she was using him for her career- he accepted that and helped her. She was evasive and lying to him about everything and he was fine with that. This probably was the final straw- why should it be him always giving in. What exactly did she do to prove that she wants to be with him? Has she ever been sincere or even loyal?

Yes for sure the professor is very calm and analytical. He makes good observations about people I think. But I also like what the niece told Shi Yan in the end. She is definitely more mature than the FL even though younger. But what she said to Shi Yan needs to wait. The FL needs to take the first step

Exactly my point. Who apologizes like that?

I like these 4

Did she ever explain? Has she ever tried come clean. She ghosted him for a long time after the whole thing blew up- was that right. She is the one who lied. Why should he be the one to always come to her. He had been doing that - did it help. Please do not use bad words in you comments. Keep it decent. Thank you

Yeah I know but I think they do genuinely like each other - she did not know how to handle all of this. She is coming around - we will see what happens. But of course anything less than full sincerity he should not accept. I do think that she should take that first big step

I know- I feel the sadness and the hurt too. Man the way she ignored him for so long and did not make an effort . And that stupid apology she gave. Poor guy

Exactly my point. She blurred the lines for her own purpose - now she wants to be professional? It never works both ways

I am going to ask you the same question what would you do if you come to know that the person who you love has lied to you constantly and has had ulterior motive since the beginning? She pursued him- she sent him all the flirty messages. He took his time to come around but from that time he was committed to her - you could see that from everything he did. She made him very insecure. Now she wants to be professional? Those lines were blurred by her a long time ago

He cutting her off is fair. Her interviewing somebody else for her career is fair. But she mixed personal and professional when she dated him. And he is allowed to feel hurt especially now that he came to know her motives. He is not that cold of a person . People don’t think straight when they are hurt and right now he is. While she is just thinking about her career as she always has . There is a big difference here

She even said she cannot advise her now because she is in a different place and can’t think about it . Seriously? After helping the FL to create this mess?

Absolutely- she has messed the whole thing up

There is nothing ‘unique’ about her . She is a self serving flake. Also there is nothing wrong with him trying to analyze her motive for approaching him- because she sent many mixed signals . It took him a while to figure out if she was genuinely interested in him even. So I am not surprised that he was cautious and suspicous

Exactly this is an unusual drama- not your normal rom com- I am enjoying it

Agreed. Some people here are trying so hard to defend her and find so called faults in the ML

Well she did use him for her career- she got a lot of opportunities through him. I am actually not surprised the ML thought those things. When was she ever clear about any of her intentions. But yes if left to her she would have left the relationship open ended with no explanation nothing. Even if he ended it - why not - there was not much left there after that incident.

Those lines got blurred for both of them when she started pursuing him and they started dating. Plus she used all their dates to move her career forward. What professionalism are we talking about here? BTW the ML is allowed to be hurt and choose not work with her. That’s his righr