Kinara

I am only talking about the character . What she did was wrong. Shi Yan is a reserved and shy character - so what? Is that his fault . I don’t get your logic here. I am done trying to get my point across- it’s too tiresome. It’s almost like we are not watching the same drama. let’s leave it at this . The FL obviously likes the ML and the ML does like her too - now you want her to go after Yi Yang? As though everything happening now is not enoug. I am glad that are not the writer. But I am done responding

I don’t think it matters who chased whom - in every drama there is one person teaching the other. Here she had ulterior motives for chasing him. He became interested to n her. He always left the choices in the relationship to her because he did not know what her true intentions were. Also who said he started and ended it ? When she decided not to give him an explanation and apologize when everything was in the open, she ended it.

Well she did mix professional and personal when she wanted her work done- now she cannot be like I want to separate the two LOL. When she started pursuing him and they started dating those lines were already blurred.

Well there are many different variety od women between a bimbo and a gold digger- it does not have to be one or the other. You have a very narrow outlook

Whatever she was not serious at all that was very evident. It’s ok to love your job more than don’t start a relationship if you can’t be serious about it. Everyone has a choice. - there is no need to fuck it up like this

Welll Shuyi confused him too

Well of a woman had said that about their boyfriend you all would have felt sad. THE ML in this drama is more emotional and has a higher EQ than the FL. And it has nothing to do with being a ceo and not childish at all. Because she has not made him feel special from the beginning

Yeah that was something

A gold digger actually much simpler than someone like this lol because all they want is your money. Women like the FL will suck your feelings and leave you for dead

No worries

But she was not by his side. She should have said something when everything came into the open . She has never made a single effort from her side for this relationship. She has only been a taker. What do you mean she did not see other guys. Who goes on a blind date when they have a boyfriend . She was even refusing to declare him as her boyfriend while he had accepted her as his girlfriend. She wants to keep everything under wraps? Some sincerity that is. When something is wrong then admit that it is wrong. Every human has their limit. Shi Yan would have still been with her if she had laid everything in the open and apologized. Why should he put up with everything that she does? Not necessary - in a relationship there needs to be some rules as well. With her behavior they will have a disastrous relationship in the long run

Please no more excuses for her behavior. Also they are both invested in their careers - that is not the issue and yes Shi Yan is a busy man - I don’t think he put any obstacles for her. If anything he has been respectful and even said she could choose if she wanted to be with him. She just used him for her career . She was a complete opportunist. Even her apology when she made it came across as she was doing it for her career. She never once showed that she was serious about him. While he did - multiple times

Completey agree. She needs to writhe in pain first before what the niece said to Shi Yan happens. People need to take responsibility for their mistakes. But I think she is coming around

Exactly he did everything to keep her

Shi Yan did like her from the beginning otherwise why would he go out of his way to be with her. I don t think he was that desperate

Well him showing up at her parents house to see her was very inappropriate

Please watch 27 and 28

Yes I agree- the conflict is a little contrived but the FL’s actions kind of set up the whole break up

No I have watched episodes 27 and 28. I think You You gave her some sound insight. And she understood what she did wrong. Same - I think the niece gave Shi Yan some sound advice. There is a lot of give and take in relationships and both parties need to understand that here.

Bur she is the one who pursued him. He had been cautious yes and that is only because he has always been confused about her intentions . She has been playing a game and he was playing with her. But still he has been way more sincere than she has. She has been so flaky - don’t even get me started. He did not have to give the time or put the kind of effort he did to please her. What gives anyone the right to treat someone like that. No excuse can redeem her honestly except for self reflection and a complete turn around. I know you will not agree with me but I have stated my opinion. I am a woman too and such behavior is simply ridiculous