PaulUK

In your 1st comment, you literally said in 2013 Su Min hasn't done anything wrong, then in this last comment you list what we are aware she has done.
1) just because she never did the actual bullying doesn't make her innocent, in fact, she's the worst one instead of using her fists or bats she manipulated others to do it as her weapons, if that led to suicide and was in a country were the doesn't bury it or the police don't write it off as a basic suicide she would be charged along with the other 3. Just because there aren't laws in some countries or the laws aren't applied doesn't mean it's not criminal .
2) Her trying to stop them wasn't what she was doing it was her gaslighting, manipulating everyone. to come off as a saint for protecting Ji Won whom she painted as a Villain, she wanted Ji Won alone.
3) your way of thinking would also paint someone who talked their lover into murdering the spouse as innocent, or Hitler as someone who just talked at rallies, and all the atrocities were other people doing.
4) South Korean laws come on, especially for women, or people without money they wouldn't care.

And if you don't think min hwan is being abusive and controlling your missing scenes.

Su Min defo done things that are criminal, she literally orchestrated the bullying in school.

Definitely two of my favourites so far in my short time watching Asians dramas.

Precisely none of my male friends watch Kdramas lol Just me and I most definitely don't wach for the ML's.
Even when we talk U.S or UK shows we rarely agree on liking the same programs.

Am not sure about that I probably use KissAsian 90% of the time if I can't find a show on Netflix.

That might make a difference a 18 year old will like different shows than a 35 y/o, a woman/man, different nationalities etc
Although I think following what @aeducan suggested and I started to do by ignoring ratings and comments before trying a show is best practice.
It would be nice to have breakdowns I guess but there not entirely helpful, all my male friends are within a year of my age grew up in the same city, same background etc and we rarely agree on TV lol

My Love O2O is probably Itaewon Class it's rated 8.5 on here yet I can't finish it stopped 5 episodes in, literally all the main leads annoy me, if I was to rate it without finishing i'd give it a 5, but I will go back and finish it before making a final decision lol

Just remembered Oh My Ladylord I got 8 episodes in was getting bored so read comments heard about the ending that was 6 months ago still on episode 8 lol

Love O20 was ok ish, I gave it a 7.5, I enjoyed parts of it I have to admit Yang Yang was good, I've finished 5 of his shows so far thought he was great (chemistry with Dilabra in You Are My Glory was fantastic ) but Zheng Shuang I don't know couldn't like her and it's put me off trying her other dramas.

Exactly, I'm trying my best to not read the comments beforehand as I might be put off watching a a show I like, already avoided it a few times shows rated as as low as 6.7 on here and I really enjoyed it.
And your correct different sites do have varied ratings for the same show like the one I mentioned above I think I gave it 8 so I basically averaged the two scores.

Could rename the show Revenge against the gaslighter, Su Min is nuts lol

Looks like Ji Won was at least subconsciously aware Su min cheated with her Ex in 2005, judging by her drunk talk.

International fan here started watching Kdramas last May, and i've learnt to ignore the ratings on here, and especially the comments until I've tried watching it myself.
I started watching a Kdrama before checking the ratings and loved the 1st 5 episodes, so I came on here it had a 7.2 and alot of negative comments had about 5000 ratings but on Viki it'd been rated 25K times at 8.8 I think the Viki rating was much closer to a fair rating.
Your best taking the ratings and comments with caution and just try it if it sounds like something you might like, people tend to leave negative comments more than positive, I know when I purchase something I've only ever commented when i've had issue never to praise a good product .

:) Haven't slept yet, so that'll kill 5 or 6 hours.
Rewatching German series Barbarians fantastic show.

14.5 hours Don't want to wait lol

Lol, everyone has different views.

Caring at very least, you know something called empathy. To the best of my knowledge i've never been cheated on (statistically speaking I probably have) but I have a good idea how I would feel.

Least someone could do is say at the beginning I want a open relationship and everyone knows the rules unfortunately people are scum human nature, what a wonderful thing.

Couldn't care less about other peoples sex lives, with the exception of when it ends up hurting people.

Like I said i haven't watched it yet.

Also plenty of people also complain about movies/drama's with Violence/drugs/sex/nudity etc.

And plus this is a comment section which allows people to discuss the drama/movie etc in question which includes discussing things they don't like or like.

What is depicted in movies happens in real life lol Which is why people comment on said movies the situation depicted here happens in reality all the time unfortunately.
Why people moan about these films (well I know myself anyway) is that it feels like they are trying to make these situations the norm and to make people think it is ok an no-one is hurt by the act of cheating, when people kill and kill themselves over this simple act.
It ain't JUST a movie yes it is a piece of fiction yet it depicts real life situations which at times has deadly results.
If people want to sleep with other men/women while in relationship maybe advise said partner when the begin a committed relationship, I wonder how many men/women would be ok with that lol.
If your fine with that good for you.