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Isn’t it predatory to be sending a 17 year old letters from the military sighting how much you miss them and little of a year later you begin dating them after they barely became of legal age? I’m sorry I’m wondering if I’m the weird one here. That man set no boundaries when she was underage and did a lot of inappropriate things that everyone with a brain found weird but somehow you’re wondering why I’m accusing him of being a predator? Since he’s not a predator why was he sending letters to a 17 year old telling her he can’t wait to see her and how much he misses her? She’s not family and was just an actor under his agency what exactly did he miss? You’re saying that’s not being predatory to you? Aiite mane!

Gurl ion know you and frankly I’ll desist from going back and forth with you cause ive already taken a stand. However I would like to strongly advise you to refrain from defending this man. He’s literally just a Korean man. There’s way more talented and good looking actors without scandals like this one.

There’s not a single respectable person male or female who is within their right mind who would find a child, fresh out of high school, barely legal and not even old enough to drink attractive enough to date. Mind you this young girl was born on in 2000 meaning she would’ve been 18 turning 19 meaning she freshly just became of legal age and likely had just graduated high school. Given the fact he was her boss and had already been sending her letters from the military being overly friendly with her and stating he miss her and so on while she was 17 I just cannot rule out the very high possibility he waited for her to be of legal age before bedding her. That alone tells me everything about this man. Again no 30+ man should be sending a 17 year old girl no letter telling her he misses her and he most definitely should not be in no relationship with her at 18/19! That’s a baby and you’re a grown man!

He already had a questionable relationship with her before she was of legal age

Regardless of when he started dating her whether at 15 or 18 it makes zero difference. Yes it’s been proven the relationship started when she became 18 which in his statement he started the relationship in the summer of 2019…..that’s less than a month of her turning 18. Even a blind man can see he waited for her tobecome 18!

You don’t gotta believe he’s a groomer or a pedo but there’s no respectable 30+ year old dating a freshly 18 year old. If a male family member of yours started dating a girl within a month of her turning 18 would you not see him as a pdf? If you don’t well that says a lot about you chile🤷🏾‍♀️

I never once said he was responsible for her death I already stated what i believe cause her death!

Relationship the responsibilities falls spilt on him since has the adult. Compare to him herr brain wasn’t even fully developed. He took advantage of her underdevelopment by not creating clear boundaries especially as the boss of her company. No mattter how you look at it he should’ve never started to date that girl as soon as she became of age. That says so much about him as a person. From the letter he sent her from the military it showed he was already too overly familiar and friendly with her especially when she was underage. He’s an attractive man and not setting clear boundaries provided room for mix signals and her young brain probably took it another way. I mean why would you miss a 17 year old while in the military?

You cannot scrutinize the action of a child…KEY WORD HERE IS CHILD. He was the adult and he should’ve set boundaries which he didn’t. This isn’t even assumption though he himself stated he began dating her in the summer of 2019, her birthday was the 31 of July making her no more than 18/19 FRESHLY. Before that he was also sending her letters from when he was doing his service and the content was very overly friendly and familiar. Even if there was nothing inappropriate there was no clear boundaries

The reason she pass was from the constant cyber attack from a specific YouTube page, her debt and the DUI she was involve in that caused her to no longer have a income

Unless he dated her at 21 or later he’s still a predator. He himself said he dated her at 18…. What would a 30+ have in common with a teen?

There’s somethings I was skeptical about and with the recent report I was given some answers however there’s even more questions now. Weren’t the family member of the late actress the one who went to the YouTuber and also hired the legal representative? Why is it only the legal representative being the one booked for false accusations?

Also him not dating her while she was a minor still doesn’t make it okay given the time when he started dating her. Even at that time she was barely an adult and freshly out of high school. That was still very predatory. She was just 18 years old while he was already in his 30’s.

I think the family member I.e the aunt went this route because of the debt they were left in from all the cancel sponsorships and endorsement from Kim Saeron after she passed. I said this because they could’ve simply filed a lawsuit against gold medalist and Kim Soo hyun the company for debt they allegedly promised to cover and Kim Soo hyun for dating an underage girl. Yet they went the worst possible route which is through a YouTuber…. The same route used to cyberbully and harass many idols, actors and actresses including Kim Sae Ron about her DUI. To me that part just didn’t make sense.

I think what they expected was because they were in a relationship with eachother then he would’ve helped her with her debt instead of having her pay back the company penalties herself. When that didn’t happen everything went sour. But of course I’m just assuming. But base on the routes taken and how everything is being played out, that’s what I think.

To conclude this man is most definitely not innocent and even if he “officially” started dating her at 18(adult) he was entertaining her and possibly attracted to her underage. You’re in your late 20s-early 30s there’s nothing you have in common with a freshly 18 year old. MOVE!!!

As for her family the lawyer and the YouTuber they didn’t handle this situation well. They could’ve successfully gotten him cancelled just by stating he immediately started dating her as soon as she was legal which is a confirm fact from his end and anybody with a brain would’ve cease support. They should’ve never allegedly fabricate lies or use exaggeration, he was already guilty.

The report today doesn’t proof he’s innocent it just amplify that he was a predator waiting for her to be an adult LEGALLY before she became his prey

They’ve started the romance and confession so early I fear for the future episodes. There’s so much they can do with a plot about conniving and jealous relatives. Anyways I hope they don’t shift too much on the back and forth between ML and Mun-do and mainly focus on giving us sweet moments between ML and Seori. They can reserve that back and forth for the last two to three episodes.

They always choose the worst things to renew. what possibly could there be for a season two to zang Hai? even though season 1 of jadewind wasn't that good i can understand hoe season two could work. but Zang Hai? I won't speak much on the others but they're all basic ass dramas that had there stories ended in season 1. they should renew shows with good writing instead of popularity alone

I feel like Dong Yeon is way more relatable cause he didn't grow up with extreme wealth and possibly had a regular/normal upbringing than the others. Alot of city kids don't get to experience the normal way of living so they tend to be very out of touch. I think as I continued to watch I realized how sheltered the others are in a very "rich spoiled" way; you can see that they're not use to fedning for themselves and always has someone helping them

Je Hoon and Dong Hwi got up early and decided to cook an entire pot of hot bullsh!t for no reason at all 💀💀. Je hoon's was a disaster because everything was just salt BUT DONG HWI??????? Why that nigga just kept adding shii. cabbage?? barbecue chips??? his ass just doing whatever omg😭😭

Well no.

I don't think it's a body double, I think it's like a warning or something, like someone purposely threw the mannequin from the roof as a warning or as to make a statement like?

it's really off to a great start. I just sincerely hope they keep up the pacing. That seems to always be an issue with these shows. Let's avoid the love triangle and keep them bickering. let's not soften her personality or make her lose her accent and quirk. If they can do all that with a great story i'm sure this will be a hit.

I am not reading alladat cause it’s not that serious. Ain’t nobody brainwashing me chile. Ya’ll just keep straying away from the point I’m making.

What a clown😂😂. Gurl bye!

And this is exactly why I said you’re a dunce…. 1. i never once criticized the drama 2. I’m watching the genre i want to watch, romance. 3. I’ve been a avid Asian drama watcher since like 2010, I know romance can be portrayed seamlessly without kiss scenes/steamy scenes I’ve seen this happen so many times HOWEVER that’s not the case with this actor, he just doesn’t deliver that therefore he should be doing other genres since he’s not a bad actor

You’re such a dunce omg….

The point of the matter is not wanting to kiss your FL is fine. Not wanting to have much skinship is also fine. But when you read the synopsis of a lot of his show, the romance aspect just does not add up. Like give us something beyond kissing and skinship. Let me see your love from your eyes and the way your body react when she’s in a room with you. He simply just doesn’t give anything. And it’s frustrating