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Everybody has family trauma, not everybody becomes a narcissistic asshole from it. There comes a point when we can't continue making excuses for hurting other people because our own parents let us down when we need them the most. It's a never-ending cycle of abuse.

I'd like to see you be in love with a guy that acts around you like you're really important to him sometimes and ever other people think he's in love with you back but then he pulls back saying "Nah, we're just friends I don't want anything else. Then you say ok, then this relationship ends because it's too painful for me. And he's like "nah, girl, I don't accept, this relationship is under my terms." Cool romance.

What do you suppose she should do, wait another 12 years to see if learns to process his traumas and confess he likes her back or what?

I think he deserves someone better than the FL actually...

Wow, it's been a while since I disliked so much the main leads. The ML is a broken asshole who needs therapy asap. You're almost 30 man, learn to cope with it instead of playing with people's hearts. The FL is a doormat. you'd think she'd take a hint after 12 years. That fact that she was in turn a victim of Soo's manipulation doesn't mean it's ok what she did to all those boyfriends and now Joon Soo. This is just a toxic relashionship going in circles.

Thanks for posting the link Choco_chip!

Waa, the first episode was so good!

What a great series, I've been waiting for something like this.

I think I'm experiencing burnout on c-dramas. Besides the fact that the premise requires a lot of suspension of disbelief: PTSD doesn't work this way, that scar is not big and it could have been easily repaired by surgery, I've known people with worse scars and I haven't been remotely phased by it (but facial perfection is not really a thing we obsess about where I live), this series just feel too long like most c-dramas.

I mean it is overall ok, I enjoyed the characters but lenght and the angst is killing me. Also, this was supposed to be a comedy. What comedy since episode 10? These dramas always start out so promising then by episode 15 I'm just ready for things to wrap up. I very much prefer shorter series like k and j-dramas. Arsenal Military Academy was super long but good, I was hooked until the final episode. But this story line does't have enough to stand on. It was ok but 6 episode less it would have been great. Anybody feel the same?

Of course they had to ruin the show with stupid drama. Do Hee's reactions are nonsensical.

That's really awesome, didn't know this :).

Yup, this is pretty much how I feel about it too.

I have not seen 'The Eternal Love that draws us' but it's on my to watch list.

I don't know about this one. I totally get that he has Anna but, still, their interactions feel off to me. I have seen 5 versions of this story and I just saw the Japanese version a couple of months ago and I enjoyed all of them better than this version. But many people are loving it so I'm pretty much alone in this boat, with a few exceptions.

Man, I feel 0 chemistry between these too. I must be really tired of this storyline.

I feel the same. So 'meh'. It wasn't as funny. The story is not progressing much. Too much screen time for irrelevant characters.

I love this already! But seriously, who leaves their purse and phone like that?

Indeed, they never have any meaningful interactions. Let's hope it get better. Though I'm not holding my breath....

The guy was too good for her, she didn't deserve him.

Damn, I ship Love with Tangmo, with Menn, with Sean, basically everybody but the guy she goes for.

I second this. It's the epitome of SLS for me.

Preach!

Ah, the PTSD trope... I'm watching a new drama I bet will have all of the above tropes. It certainly has connection from childhood and the PTSD one and I'm like really, that's his 'redeeming' quality he has PTSD from some mysterious incident he had as a kid. And the Second Lead is so handsome and funny and cute and everything that the ML in not.