changemysoul

I think they should’ve had her apologize. I don’t agree that she’s didn’t try and talk to him before things blew up. Before she got sick, she was asking when he’d be home and she went to find him.

I think this would’ve been fair if it was for a day or so, but it seemed like it had been a few days, so the question is, how long should she have waited? When he told her nothing at all, it was like four days that he didn’t come up. And she did the leg work to go and see him. Then she was turned away, so she found out he was at the temple and waited all day, ending up sick. After the whole thing when the other picked her up, he left again for at least 3+ plus days, even with his servant letting him know she had been asking about him. So, how long is she supposed to wait? One week? Two weeks? Three weeks? I don’t think she should’ve forced his hand with the ultimatum but I also think she has waited plenty enough to have a conversation with him.

Didn’t he know Yi Xian was her friend or that they were close? He got Yi Xian out of the palace to help her, he commented that they were close , they’ve talked about them? I thought he knew Yi Xian was her friend.

Brother grew up with the Gu family and not the Ji family.

Fair enough, maybe they won’t get to much trouble their way in that case.

True, I doubt they’ll make touch on it tho. It seems like they’re pushing yi Xian out of the story for a while, so I wonder if her character will also be cut.

I don’t think so, poor baby

He’ll appear during the last episode?

Question for novel readers, I know it’s not a 1 for 1 but would this be like ye Xian last appearance in the story?

I disagree, she has plenty

I mean yeah, they’re all teenagers compare to him. He’s like in is 30’s and they’re 18-19

Not dramatic change, a more gradual one

The main lead is CYY, the guy she gets the lantern from at the start, when she burns the gifts

1. I think there is a difference between considering someone a friend and them interacting with them. So, is your issue…her still seeing him as a friend or interacting with him? After she found out, they didn’t have any interactions (until ep 30) but it didn’t stop thinking of him as a friend
2. I could still be friends with someone who liked me if they understood that I’m not responsible for their feelings. Maybe we don’t see each other for a while they process and if I’m dating someone but that wouldn’t run them out as being considered a friend
3. I think that’s a really narrow world view and it has nothing to do with self-respect. If all are adults, then, then you should be able to be okay with it. But it varies relationship to relationship.
4. I agree they have that issue in dramaland but this is a reverse harem story where the plot is that they all like her.

Ah! That. I have nothing to say about the violence. But I don’t see why she wouldn’t consider him a friend after knowing he liked her

I mean…it was a comment he made to himself…why would she know about?

I watched the ep, he wasn’t speaking to cyy, just himself. I don’t see the issue with it. It really wasn’t a big deal? Or people not allowed be bitter by themselves?

I will give it a try. I’m currently reading blossoms of power and tiger sniffs the rose

It’s completely fair that you grew up in a toxic environment. It’s completely that you don’t empathize. It still doesn’t change the fact that there are individuals who grow up in that environment that either take a long time to break or don’t at all and repeat the cycle. And it’s fair to lose interest in him. I lost interest in him being a romantic partner but I didn’t in his character because it’s still a good character.

Agree to disagree on the second part-ish. I’m seeing both.

I don’t think it’s confusing. When she talked about women not being below men, she clearly meant in sports and politics. She’s a girls girl in that sense. But having that, doesn’t mean she can’t fall into the trap of being mean spirited. She’s a teenage girl, she’ll be snarky because the guy she likes is in pain. Hopefully, her behavior will come around but being a girls girl and fighting for women’s rights, doesn’t always mean always doing everything right.

At least she’s not fake and keeps the energy constantly. She probs thought it was a bit much for them to show up at the mourning as well. Like it was a bit much for YX to do to JZ house before her wedding.