For those trying to excuse YX and his tantrum throwing impulsive self by saying he's just a young 18/19 year old…
It’s not an excuse but it is a reason, the young emperor is mature, yes, because he was raised that way. XY, was a kid who wasn’t expected to live past 10, who’s family constantly belittled him for not being strong enough to inherit his fathers title. He environment matters. That being said, his immaturity & insecurity are explanations for his behavior but not excuses. Most people are saying why they understand and give grace, not that it’s an excuse.
And I feel the female lead always going to yexian rescue all the time would give any man the wrong idea, she should…
I mean, I would hope he knew he who he was marrying. Like, she’s proven herself to be the type of person who care and save the people she’s cared about. Ye Xian was her friend and CYY knew this, so he should know that she would want to save him.
it was very one-sided from ye xian’s side, so gu jinzhao’s cry didn’t make any sense to me. sure, she might’ve…
That’s fair, I’m not trying to convince you, just giving my piece as to why crying makes sense.
Like for me, it doesn’t make sense not to cry for a male friend because I treat and care for my female and male friends the same.
And she hasn’t cried for the male lead because there hasn’t been a reason. When he went to jail, informed her. Their relationship isn’t on the verge of ending. It wouldn’t have made sense for her to cry for him at this point.
But I guess, overall, the crying wasn’t out of place to me because she felt they had a bond and he was important to her now they’re relationship is at the point where she thinks it can’t go back.
Idk understand you guys she is an individual person you cant control everything she feel let her cry for whoever…
I don’t think she took blame, she just feels bad. Really bad. Even more bad because she never considered him as a romantic partner so it’s heart breaking because it is what it is. You can feel bad & not take blame.
I don't understand why people are mad that gjc see ye xian as friend and cry for him, not everything is about…
Right? Like it’s heart breaking for her because she knows it’s heart breaking for him and she knows it won’t change anything because she loved who she loves.
it was very one-sided from ye xian’s side, so gu jinzhao’s cry didn’t make any sense to me. sure, she might’ve…
I don’t see how her crying doesn’t make sense & she’s mourning the loss of a possible friendship. She a crying because her friend is hurt. She called him her confidant & he’s important to her. People can cry and mourn for their friends. She’s crying because she can see his heart breaking and sadly it doesn’t matter, because she doesn’t love him. She’s crying because she also knows he’s will probably go and do something stupid. But this wasn’t a random person , it was a good friend.
im currently reading the novel, im at the point of the second marriage. if anyone has read it, can they tell me if her parents go to great ling with her?
Like for me, it doesn’t make sense not to cry for a male friend because I treat and care for my female and male friends the same.
And she hasn’t cried for the male lead because there hasn’t been a reason. When he went to jail, informed her. Their relationship isn’t on the verge of ending. It wouldn’t have made sense for her to cry for him at this point.
But I guess, overall, the crying wasn’t out of place to me because she felt they had a bond and he was important to her now they’re relationship is at the point where she thinks it can’t go back.