On You Are My Secret • Aug 4, 2024
Title You Are My Secret
People are criticizing the FL, but you’ve got to remember she hasn’t fallen in love with the ML yet. Honestly, she doesn’t even really know him that well yet. He’s just a high school acquaintance from 10 years ago. So, of course, she’s jumping to conclusions , questioning his motives, and is doubting her decision to marry him so hastily. She’s getting to know him people and learning to trust him. IT’S A PROCESS. Honestly, I like the fact that she has a backbone is is not afraid to express her displeasure when he behaves in a way she finds offensive. Her sulky, silent treatment is not admirable, but she’s growing in this relationship. He too has to grow as a boss. The way he embarrassed those male employees in front of their colleagues was unnecessary. That’s not the way a good manager behaves. That’s not the way to gain respect. He’s learning from the FL when she points this out. Even though he had good reasons for chastising the employees, his method was wrong. He’s a good guy, the greenest green flag possible, but he’s not perfect. Nobody is perfect, she nor he.
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