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Well, if she's really in there, he ought to be more careful than to balance it on a paint can on the floor. :)

I couldn't stop staring at Sei's perfect, dark COINS and the solid/slim chesticles on which they exist. He's gorgeous.

I'm not an expert on asexuality, but it seems like if you lack a sex-drive, as opposed to being revolted by sex (and maybe Fuji is) he could at least watch Sei jack off in front of him to help him get off. Rather, he acts terrified of sex which is why I've been wondering if there's past trauma involved.

Also, and I mentioned this in another comment here, Fuji should have gone a lot further than "I can't give you everything you want in a relationship..." when they moved in together and explained exactly what that would mean and how things would work. And Sei should have asked for clarification when Fuji did not explain.

However, I don't know how long they've been in that arrangement, or how old each was at the time.

I laughed out loud when the "straight" guy was watching Sei at the office, thinking "he looks like he doesn't get laid much" and "he looks like he never thinks about sex..." lol Oh boy, wait til he finds out. :D

Hey, there is a brand-new/airing Taiwanese BL on kisskh called "Impression of Youth." Looks like it's releasing two 25 minutes eps per week and there are two up. So far, it seems light/silly/cute/potentially sexy. Give it a shot.

I heard from Maggi. She's OK. Well, relatively speaking...

https://blparadise.com/

Why?
Please explain in depth and with details.

She painted the picture on it. I believe he referred to it as a coffee can.

Episodes 1&2:

I am especially looking forward to the shocking, disgusting, inappropriate, age gap/power imbalance student-teacher relationship becoming a totally hot, nasty, vile, sexual entanglement to burn up the sheets. Also, I'm hopeful we'll see an incestuous, brother-on-brother thing going on at the same time.

Light, a little stupid, but breezy and cheerful potential here. It shows signs of having heart, which can save even the weakest BLs.

The goofy-smiled high school kid is my fave.
Oh, and each character is cuter than the last.
I do believe that was the longest-held slip/fall/catch pose in BL history. :D

I was enthralled up until I was presented with a female actor playing a male actor/female impersonator, which is an insult to my intelligence and status as an audience member. What a cop out. Should have known, since this is a Chinese production.

OUT at one hour.

Dropped.

1/10

I love your comment. Insightful.
The only thing I'd quibble on is Fuji possibly not being "intentionally" abusive. He can SEE and hear Sei's anguish and pain, so he is certainly aware of the effects of his rejections; how can he not be aware of his rejections/actions in the first place. Weirdest of all is that he low-key acts jealous of things like Sei texting with someone he doesn't know, as if they are in a romantic relationship in which he has a right to monitor such things.

There is, however, blame to go around regarding the initiation of their relationship. When Fuji said "I want to take care of you but I can't give you everything you want..." (paraphrase) he should have gone on to specify exactly what he means by that. When he did not do so, Sei should have asked what he meant and exactly how that would work.

The mess they are in is a result of fear of communication, a common Japanese problem as no one wants to talk about anything personal or intimate in that society, even in private between two people supposedly in a relationship. There is no reason their arrangement couldn't work for all concerned if it was openly agreed they were living together as close friends/roommates, that Fuji was not interested in sex, and that Sei was free to meet those needs outside the arrangement with someone else.

I don't think that would last long, as Sei clearly wants emotional/romantic fulfillment as well as sex from someone who WANTS to give it to him; whom he doesn't have to beg for it from. Sei is a sweet, giving person. Any man would be lucky to have him. I'd love some background on how he became such a masochistic person, lacking self-respect and agency.

Sorry Viola, you don't have that power. You're a loon, nothing more. Go eat grass.

First of all, "offensive" is a subjective concept.
Secondly, what word are you dancing around instead of identifying?

Why do you keep asking this? I have already indicated that I know the meaning of the word "idiot" and used it with intention. My question is why are you obsessing about that? Either explain how you are not an idiot and wrote nothing idiotic or call me a name or let it go.

Yes, I was talking about Sek. But I see both Sek and Jigna as being undeveloped characters, especially Jigna. He seemed like a genuinely decent guy as it turned out but that's all I knew about him.

You're incredibly stupid. I am far from 33 and I am gainfully employed. There is nothing on my profile page indicating otherwise. I guess that even though you are a woman, somehow you are not flawless.

Don't be a stupid misandrist woman and bother men. In your way of thinking, your being a stupid misandrist woman means ALL women are stupid misandrists. Please write a reflection paper regarding your stupidity.

So you're carrying around butt-hurt feelings because some rando on the Internet hurt your fee-fees weeks ago. Got it.

Your words impacted me: I had to think about how idiotic they were.

Of course, you don't. People like you don't like to evaluate their thinking/perspective. It's too hard.

It's OK to hate men, but women are all flawless victims. You're a bigot.

YES. Thank you for saying so clearly and succinctly what it takes me five paragraphs and ten insults to convey. lol You are correct. Virtue-signaling and continuing to watch shows you claim to be appalled by is an MDL standard of behavior. :)

Oh, they also get to feel self-righteous. What a bargain!

Or to seek other sources of sexual release. If this Sei starts getting laid on the side, then this "relationship" has a chance to keep working. I'm interested to know why Sei's weirdo roomie keeps it vague about why he won't put out. Is he asexual? Does he have a micro-penis? Are his nuts gone? Seriously, WHY? That's all he needs to do, is tell Sei why instead of cruelly continuing to deny Sei the sexual release he so naturally desires. Good god, he's a young man, of course he's horny all the time and he wants to fulfill that urge with the man he cares about. It's not as if he is actively LOOKING to sleep around. He's being driven to it.

I feel like if the weirdo really cares about Sei, he would give him his blessing to seek out a side partner with whom to have sex. Instead, he creepily tries to control who Sei sees and texts with. In my view, he has no right to do that.

It's MDL.

Bravo! Well said. Except that if we "look past the infidelity" we will miss the whole story. lol But perhaps you mean "can we stop Cheating Screaming and accept that we're watching a drama, not a sermon from a minister in church." If that's what you're saying I totally agree. :)

Well, his presence and actions were a central plot point, but that's pretty much all he was; a mechanism, not a character. And the more I think of it, and as much as I loathe Mo, he did do her dirty by just dumping her after their ten-year plan to take the orchard. He could have given her a small percentage going forward to compensate her since he's the one who put her up to it. Given what it seemed they were going to be making off the orchard it wouldn't have been a hardship for him. Instead, he threw her in the dirt and left.