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Replying to suminx May 4, 2026
Title Love Punch!
Now I’m wondering if this would’ve been better if it was a drama series instead of a movie. I just wanted…
It certainly has the feel of a BL drama, doesn't it?
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On We Are All Trying Here May 3, 2026
Episode 6:
As viewers...we are all trying here...to get through each episode in one piece.
I failed again, with episode 6.

I just finished watching, and am in no shape to say anything coherent, nor to read through others' comments, but wanted to sort of touch base, I guess.
I weep in unexpected places while watching this drama.
Often, in the moment, I don't know why.
Often, I do.

It is a privilege to be watching this show.
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Replying to coconut7 May 3, 2026
I think repulsive is the word. he's not the usual main character who'd catch your attention with his charms. Instead…
Well said.
I enjoy that Dong Man's way of eating (stuffing his face and occasionally giving us unwelcome glances of the chewed food in his mouth), his way of talking (high-pitched and grating), and even his swaggering, swinging way of walking, are all annoying to some extreme or another, but that we put those obnoxious traits aside and root for him nevertheless.

Koo Kyo Hwan is delivering a performance of a lifetime, and I hope he is rewarded with many trophies when awards season rolls around. Normally, I don't pay much attention to that, but I will next year. He deserves all the good stuff. :) I liked his acting from the first time I saw him in NF's "D.P.," and have followed him since. He has been stellar in every role, but this is his best work.

The show is showing us more and more evidence of his good-heartedness and kindness with each episode. Carefully hiding everything that could possibly be used to commit suicide from his brother, confronting the jerk who is ripping off Eun-A's work as his own, etc.
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Replying to alsini09 May 3, 2026
Yes, there is something similar. He was incredibly annoying, rude, tactless − the kind of person who disregarded…
I loved the climactic Thanksgiving dinner scene during which things came to a head and Renata's parents told her that she and the baby were always loved and welcomed, but that they would not tolerate her husband's presence any longer. To which Renata ferociously responded that if they did not want her husband, then they did not want her or her child, and stormed out with them both.

I love that movie.

Ever seen "The Other Sister?"
Not related to WAATH or OA, but it's another with a complicated family dynamic that blows my mind. Juliette Lewis is phenomenal as the titular "other sister."
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Lily Alice May 3, 2026
"We Are All Trying Here" is one of the best dramas Netflix has ever run, which is exactly why it "...has also fallen out of the top ten and is fairly popular in a few Asian countries..." (Gotta love how MDL tries to word-smith a negative into sounding kinda-sorta like a positive.).

WAATH is phenomenally conceived, written, directed, and acted, meaning it flies right over the head of your average, Moron Movie-loving Netflix subscriber. Sad, but unsurprising.
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Replying to GalacticTheory May 3, 2026
Not to be that person, but your reaction is to episode 5I agree with everything you’ve said, every episode leaves…
Oh, thank you! Yes, of course, it was episode 5. :P lol
I will edit immediately. :D
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Replying to alsini09 May 3, 2026
Yes, there is something similar. He was incredibly annoying, rude, tactless − the kind of person who disregarded…
But, he didn't act the way he did deliberately out of malice; he had no foundation, no prior experience of how to act with tact and tasteful restraint. And everything he did came from a good place, a big heart that wanted the best for those he loved. He was just so horribly, horrendously awful at expressing himself, both verbally and through actions.

I don't recall that we ever learned why he was the way he was...do you remember? Had he lost his own family at a young age? I haven't seen OA in ten years, at least.
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Replying to etoks21 May 3, 2026
Title Contrast
Since you're finding their relationship defended/supported on multiple platforms, did it ever occur to you to…
Yeah, Silly Lily, I've totally been "sidestepping the actual issue," lol

Your lack of brain cells is made clear once again by your dense af sharing that you're "not Christian." The point of mocking your type as Self-Righteous Church Girl Morals Police Cadets is that it doesn't matter if you're an Atheist, Muslim, Hindu, or whatever, your Puritanical, sex-phobic, panty-sniffing, busy-body, black/white morality schtick is EXACTLY THE SAME as that of Church Girl Moral Scolds from a century ago.

This last lame comment of yours repeats over and over what you've spewed before, as if repetition is itself a supporting argument. It's not.

Finally, thanks for the laugh. You counting your "likes," then claiming them as evidence of your righteousness is a hoot. OF COURSE your fellow Church Girls are "liking" your comments. And of course, the lurkers are scrolling by. That's what lurkers do.

I suppose it IS getting late for you to be arguing with me. After all, tomorrow is Sunday, and you have Church and Bible Study classes! Be sure to wear a double set of panties. If the minister reads any naughty bits from the Bible, you don't want to moisten the pew.

Yours in Jesus,
Etoks21
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Replying to etoks21 May 3, 2026
Title Contrast
What about this did you find comforting?
Lame.
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On Fake Fact Lips May 3, 2026
This is already, in episode 2, where I thought it might be by episode 9. :P

Cute and sexy, though.
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Replying to etoks21 May 3, 2026
Title Contrast
What about this did you find comforting?
Lord of Lame-Ass Potty Mouths, too.
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On We Are All Trying Here May 3, 2026
Dong Man is one of the most repulsive, unlikable characters whom I have nevertheless adored, in all my film-watching history.
He reminds me of another genius-written character I love/hated, Richard Dreyfuss's character in the American film, "Once Around."
Anyone here know of it?
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Replying to kdramachic May 3, 2026
So they used him and chewed him out like bubblegum..... Pathetic. Everyone was complaining about Dongmsn's behavior…
ummm...I hate to admit it, but I have seen flashes of my own past behaviors among the group of eight. I think most honest viewers will say the same.

That is part of what makes this show so powerful. Even the most revolting characters are slowly being revealed as being the way they are for perfectly human reasons. This doesn't excuse their behaviors, but it explains them and reminds me that few people are all good or all bad.

Hell, Dong Man is one of the most repulsive, unlikable characters whom I have nevertheless adored, in all my film-watching history.
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Replying to Masterxys May 3, 2026
umm why is this not a 9.0 drama yet??
Because MDL ratings are a Bizarro Universe where everything is the opposite of what it should be.
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Replying to Ikkyvicky May 3, 2026
Title We Are All Trying Here Spoiler
one thing the characters have in the show is audacity. The CEO talking about we need the FL to move out of her…
Who is the ML's stepsister?
I think I missed something.

Wait..the actress who ended up singing at the wedding?
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Replying to Ikkyvicky May 3, 2026
one thing the characters have in the show is audacity. The CEO talking about we need the FL to move out of her…
I hadn't thought of it, but you are absolutely correct, they ARE audacious!
A big part of what makes this show so exciting. :D
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Replying to Naba May 3, 2026
whoever set GYJ's pic in this site recently is a hater for sure,wtf is this?
I like it.
It's distinctive and fits the character she plays in this drama.
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On We Are All Trying Here May 3, 2026
Episode 5:
This drama has me by the throat, the tail, and the balls.
I am clutching for words to describe how I feel after this episode, which is more flabbergasted than I have been after each successive episode since the beginning.
While watching, I get goosebumps, my mouth drops open in recognition of small but also huge observations about our shared humanity.
I'm LEARNING about myself and how other people work inside, despite what I delude myself that I know from observing their outsides.
I hadn't tuned in to learn, but that's what's happening...

My favorite gem of genius, and this screenwriter IS a genius, from episode 7:
"Love is not an emotion; it is a concept."
But of course! The emotions we feel while we are in love stem from love, but they are not love itself.
Just one of several silent jaw-droppers from episode 7.
And that they're all delivered in subtle, quiet ways, not in huge, melodramatic moments, makes these revelations explode all the brighter.

I am in awe.
I need to calm down before reading through comments.
Good Lord...
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