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On Sammy's Children's Day Apr 26, 2026
Meh...not for me.
It seems that, as with almost all Chinese "BLs," this one's going to be heavy on the meaningful glances and silly flirtations accompanied by sound effects, and light on actual, gay romance.

Dropping in episode 2.
1/10
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Replying to LaLisaDaisy Apr 26, 2026
Pls let’s not compare, please appreciate both as different genres, I can’t control your thoughts and opinions,…
Why do you want other people not to do what is a very human behavior, that of comparing A to B to C?

Mindful of what?
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Replying to rinadrama Apr 26, 2026
dong man in the beginning told eun ha that when he watched the world leaders being attacked by terrorists he wasn't…
Thank you for clearing that up for me. :)
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Replying to Hyunelovebot Apr 26, 2026
Does she have some telepathic abilities? Because why does everytime her nose bleeds something happens to a person…
Bingo.
I love that.
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Replying to merry Apr 26, 2026
Ok, Hwang Jin Man you gon pull down damn rope and get down immediately bro!!! Ur brother needs you more than anyone…
Spoiler tag, please.
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On We Are All Trying Here Apr 26, 2026
Episode 3:
This is unlike anything I've seen before...just marvelous.

I've a feeling this show will divide the audience. A lot of people who totally get it will wonder why a lot of people don't, and vice-versa.
I'm one of the former people.

Outstanding.

P.S. Love the sprinklings of magical realism throughout, just little touches.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
Nah, it just means we have dramatically different tastes in BLs.I'm curious to know the 12 on my list that you…
Thank you for this interesting/informative read.
I appreciate it.

Rather than attempt to change your mind on any of the 12 shows, I think I will simply list what I liked/loved about them and leave it at that. Maybe tomorrow.

I will say right now that if you dropped Love Is a Poison early on, it's probably not worth it to give another chance. It may be one of those that is liked or disliked for reasons difficult to put in words.
I rewatched it a few nights ago and didn't like it as much as the first time, though I found the two mains and their vibe charming again.
Mostly, it spends WAY too much time on courtroom drama/nonsense that I didn't care about.

I like BLs that keep the relationship front and center. Time travel, Yakuza nonsense, cooking, etc. in BL World are embarrassing af.

Regarding Gelboys, this is one I may end up removing from my list altogether. From the first time I saw it, it left me as queasy about the subject matter as I was impressed by the production values. I find that level of Internet/social media obsession even more annoying than the psycho fingernails culture on display.

Gelboys was written/directed by the writer/director of ITSAY and IPYTM, and it's easy to see that on the screen.

Thanks for giving me a reason to reassess my list.
There may be some newer BLs that need to be on it, too.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
You've never seen gay porn.
Always glad to help:

thisvid.com
boyfriendtv.com
thegay.com
xvideos.com
xhamster.com

Don't make a mess! :D
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Replying to certifiedBLaddict Apr 25, 2026
Yessssssss, i love the melanin display we're getting!!!!! I am so tired of seeing BL actors with darker skin tones…
The Koreans are especially guilty of this.
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Replying to Forsythe Apr 25, 2026
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funny how you title that person as asshole for bullying and defending kanda for being a pedo, mouth diarrhea is…
You seem oddly obsessed and agitated about the Tutor/Akira romance.

I think we know who's battling inner demons here, and it ain't me.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
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Until you educate yourself as to the definition of "pedophile," maybe shut it.
Past a certain point, I try to not cast my pearls before swine.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
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They're 3 or 4 years apart in age.Akira is a minor, not a child.Grow up.
You're a nasty piece of work.
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Replying to Yellen Apr 25, 2026
If I say that 12 of the BLs on this list could feature on my BLs-I-Hated list, would it mean I have bad taste?…
Nah, it just means we have dramatically different tastes in BLs.

I'm curious to know the 12 on my list that you hate...care to share?
A bit about why you hate them would be interesting, too.
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Replying to marelio Apr 25, 2026
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i dont think it is inmoral, you and other are just judging from the age gap. Not one second you think on Akira,…
"Church Girls" describes a type.
Gender, location, age, etc. have nothing to do with it.
If you're a moralistic, self-righteous, sex-phobic scold who thinks they live in a black/white universe, you're a Church Girl.
60% of MDL members are Western females

Besides, "Church Person" just doesn't have the same ring to it.
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Replying to MianhaKdrama Apr 25, 2026
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What people lack nowaday is critical thinking. They don't know how to think with nuance and within a certain context.…
Bingo.
I differ in my opinion with one respect: I find their relationship, and the way they were lifelines for each other, quite beautiful.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
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Who is "they?"What makes you think "they" are "trying to normalize" that relationship?Their…
From the Merriam Webster dictionary:
pedophilia
noun
pe·​do·​phil·​ia ˌpe-də-ˈfi-lē-ə ˌpē-
specifically : a psychiatric disorder in which an adult has sexual fantasies about or engages in sexual acts with a PREPUBESCENT child

prepubescent
adjective
pre·​pu·​bes·​cent ˌprē-pyü-ˈbe-sᵊnt
: of, relating to, being in, or occurring in the period of development immediately PRECEDING PUBERTY

puberty
pu·​ber·​ty ˈpyü-bər-tē
: the condition of being or the period of becoming first capable of reproducing sexually that is brought on by the production of sex hormones and the maturing of the reproductive organs (such as the testes and ovaries), development of secondary sex characteristics (such as male facial hair growth and female breast development), and in humans and the higher primates by the first occurrence of menstruation in the female

Pretty sure Akira has all his pubes.
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Replying to Forsythe Apr 25, 2026
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funny how you title that person as asshole for bullying and defending kanda for being a pedo, mouth diarrhea is…
Take the words "pedo" and "pedophilia" out of your mouth until you get off your lazy, uneducated ass and google the definitions of those words.
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
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Until you educate yourself as to the definition of "pedophile," maybe shut it.
ooh...ALL-CAPS and exclamation points!
That can only mean you've lost the argument, Church Girl. lol
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Replying to etoks21 Apr 25, 2026
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They're 3 or 4 years apart in age.Akira is a minor, not a child.Grow up.
Grow up.

Tell me, do people magically turn into fully mature adults at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday? One second they're a "child," and the next they're completely transformed into an adult?

Is that how it works?
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