"There was no grooming, no gifts or money exchanged for favors, it was consensual."Since when did grooming…
Dearest Church Girl:
Why can't you answer five simple questions?
1. Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday? 2. Are some 16-year-olds more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds? 3. Should all relationships between people who meet in power-imbalanced relationships be made illegal? (Professor-college student, police chief-police detective, store manager-cashier, bank manager-teller, principal-teacher, etc? 4. If not, why not? 5. Was Akira healthier, happier before or after his relationship with Tutor kicked in?
Regarding Akira/Tutor, I adore reading the feverish, agitated comments from self-righteous, MDL Church Girls. I bathe in the sweet tears of their performative outrage.
The tutor is hot. The tutor is kind. The tutor is thoughtful. The tutor may well have saved Akira's life. The tutor and Akira are ending their friends-with-benefits relationship on healthy terms, with no ugliness and no trauma.
It is the LACK of trauma to Akira that pisses off the Church Girls. They want him hanging dead in the closet, rather than alive and having enjoyable sex with a hot, older young man he trusts, a man who is letting him go with affection, now that he has found love with Kanata. Even Kanata isn't pissed at Kanda. He understands Akira needed him and the degree to which he helped him live and grow.
I can easily see the three of them as friends going forward. But not the Church Girls. They want Akira traumatized and Kanda in prison.
You're not going to get what you want, bitches! :D
"There was no grooming, no gifts or money exchanged for favors, it was consensual."Since when did grooming…
"It" may have saved Akira's life. He was damn near suicidal when he and Tutor connected.
Question: Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday? Question: Are some 16-year-olds far more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds?
For all of you who have their panties in a bunch and love the book/movie Call Me By Your Name. The main characters…
"Akira is a person with very low self esteem and he was on the verge of suicide when the tutor came into his life and allowed him the space to finally open up. The tutor never lied and confessed to Akira that he was gay. There was no subterfuge on the tutor's part."
THIS.
The MDL Church Girls in this thread would much rather have seen Akira hang himself than find a healthy, mutually-nourishing relationship, just as he did with the tutor. Their purity of thinking is more important to them than even the lives of lonely gay teens.
i dont think it is inmoral, you and other are just judging from the age gap. Not one second you think on Akira,…
"I would advise you to reconsider your comment, as it reflects very poorly on you."
No one cares what you think, self-righteous Church Lady. You want Akira traumatized and it pisses you off that his relationship with the Tutor has been the opposite of that for him; it saved his life.
I'm genuinely disgusted by the amount of people defending the tutor and calling Akira a red flag in the comments...…
"Ya'all" need to stop watching shows you're not mature enough to handle.
No one cares how concerned and worried you are. There has been NOTHING "unsettling and sinister" about Akira and Tutor's relationship. Tutor may well have saved Akira's life. THAT is what's driving you over the edge here. I love it. :D
Finally he realized his own feelings and accepted them. Way to go Akira.As i thought that tutor really can't let…
"Besides which bf would be ok with that."
A reasonable, well-adjusted, healthy bf who understands that Tutor was there for Akira when he had no one else. You're the type that would rather see Akira jump off a ledge than find comfort in the arms of a kindred soul, suffering like he was. They're only 3 or 4 years apart in age. Grow up.
This dude couldn't get the older brother, he took the little one instead. Sick guy. I literally had to look up…
Akira is 16/17 years old. Tutor is 3/4 years older. Tutor may well have saved Akira's life, and they are handling their disengagement like mature, reasonable people. And that drives you nuts.
hahaha Oh look, another MDL Little Church Girl here to obsess about matters only adults should consider.
You didn't invent "trauma," you didn't discover "grooming," get over yourself. You LOVE the tutor/Akira naughtiness of this show. Embrace the freak inside you.
I don't want to assume or be stereotypical but I get the feeling that the difference in opinions has to do with…
The difference in opinions has to do with your self-righteous, black/white moralizing. And no, Kanda absolutely could NOT have done all this without having sex with him. Having sex with each other was a huge part of de-stigmatizing their same-sex desires, for both of them. They are handling this latest phase of their relationship with admirable maturity and lack of drama. You're pissed because they aren't traumatizing each other. Now, THAT'S sad.
You're yet another Western female who presumes to pontificate about how gay men should handle their relationships, despite the impossibility of your having any life experience in the area.
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Why can't you answer five simple questions?
1. Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday?
2. Are some 16-year-olds more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds?
3. Should all relationships between people who meet in power-imbalanced relationships be made illegal? (Professor-college student, police chief-police detective, store manager-cashier, bank manager-teller, principal-teacher, etc?
4. If not, why not?
5. Was Akira healthier, happier before or after his relationship with Tutor kicked in?
Yours in Jesus,
Etoks21
I bathe in the sweet tears of their performative outrage.
The tutor is hot.
The tutor is kind.
The tutor is thoughtful.
The tutor may well have saved Akira's life.
The tutor and Akira are ending their friends-with-benefits relationship on healthy terms, with no ugliness and no trauma.
It is the LACK of trauma to Akira that pisses off the Church Girls.
They want him hanging dead in the closet, rather than alive and having enjoyable sex with a hot, older young man he trusts, a man who is letting him go with affection, now that he has found love with Kanata.
Even Kanata isn't pissed at Kanda. He understands Akira needed him and the degree to which he helped him live and grow.
I can easily see the three of them as friends going forward.
But not the Church Girls. They want Akira traumatized and Kanda in prison.
You're not going to get what you want, bitches! :D
If not, why not?
He was damn near suicidal when he and Tutor connected.
Question: Does a 17-year-old suddenly achieve emotional/sexual/mental maturity at the stroke of midnight on their 18th birthday?
Question: Are some 16-year-olds far more mature and level-headed than some 50-year-olds?
THIS is what you hysterical Church Girls always default to when your arguments falter. It's amusing.
THIS.
The MDL Church Girls in this thread would much rather have seen Akira hang himself than find a healthy, mutually-nourishing relationship, just as he did with the tutor. Their purity of thinking is more important to them than even the lives of lonely gay teens.
Your comment is epic. Thank you for sharing it.
No one cares what you think, self-righteous Church Lady.
You want Akira traumatized and it pisses you off that his relationship with the Tutor has been the opposite of that for him; it saved his life.
I bathe in your tears of outrage.
I can't wait to read "Annie's" hysterical response to your very reasonable comment. :)
No one cares how concerned and worried you are.
There has been NOTHING "unsettling and sinister" about Akira and Tutor's relationship. Tutor may well have saved Akira's life. THAT is what's driving you over the edge here.
I love it. :D
A reasonable, well-adjusted, healthy bf who understands that Tutor was there for Akira when he had no one else.
You're the type that would rather see Akira jump off a ledge than find comfort in the arms of a kindred soul, suffering like he was.
They're only 3 or 4 years apart in age. Grow up.
Tutor is 3/4 years older.
Tutor may well have saved Akira's life, and they are handling their disengagement like mature, reasonable people. And that drives you nuts.
Oh look, another MDL Little Church Girl here to obsess about matters only adults should consider.
You didn't invent "trauma," you didn't discover "grooming," get over yourself.
You LOVE the tutor/Akira naughtiness of this show. Embrace the freak inside you.
Akira is a minor, not a child.
Grow up.
And no, Kanda absolutely could NOT have done all this without having sex with him. Having sex with each other was a huge part of de-stigmatizing their same-sex desires, for both of them.
They are handling this latest phase of their relationship with admirable maturity and lack of drama. You're pissed because they aren't traumatizing each other.
Now, THAT'S sad.
You're yet another Western female who presumes to pontificate about how gay men should handle their relationships, despite the impossibility of your having any life experience in the area.