Hime

If you think you know who her childhood sweetheart is, then think again. I saw some comments saying it’s the main lead, some saying it’s He Zhen, aka Young Lord. Let me tell you that it is neither of them, it is both of them and it is only one of them. Confused? You will understand after you watch the whole thing. XD

This was an enjoyable watch. Not a great drama or anything. It is a light watch with a bit of sad moments here and there. But it is mostly a romantic comedy.

Yeah. That might be his biological father or someone who played a father figure to him while he grew up. And he may be the owner of that house in the mountains. The loss of this person could have caused him to become the person he is today.

Thanks. The profile pic kinda looks like the cover from Lakorn Galaxy. I will check it out later.

Yeah, she seems a little inexperienced, which is normal, but she definitely cares about Seo Woo. More than words, she has been showing it through her actions.

Lol The way you said it killed me.

I agree that the marriage contract theory is not likely. There is no doubt that she loves him. But I dont think he loves her as a woman. They have no intimacy. They just go to bed and say goodnight. I think you are right, something did happen that made her stop posting pictures online and consider divorce. She married him knowing he was not over his dead wife and probably thought with time he would start loving her too but might have recently found out something that crushed her hope of that happening. Maybe he has a diary and she found it. Remember how he said that there has NEVER been one day since Yu Ri died that he has not thought about her? Maybe he has a diary and all he writes about is how much he misses Yu Ri. If Min Jung read that after almost a year married, that might have hurt her deeply. There is also a chance she figured out Seo Woo could see her dead mother and might have thought she is not needed. I have no idea, I guess we will find out soon.

Like I said somewhere else and when you think about how she was there when Seo Woo was born but only married him years later, she probably spent that time being by his side and supporting him and it was probably her that suggested being Seo Woo’s mother. I believe he must have some sort of feelings for her, even if only a good friendship, but I am not sold on him loving her. Anyone can smile for pictures. I mean, there have been people arrested for murdering their entire family and when you check the family photos they are all smiling happily. It is the way people behave between closed doors that tells you if they are happy or not. They eat at the same table, sleep on the same bed, do stuff together, but it is all done like a routine. There is something off about their marriage and I dont think its because there is a marriage contract, but because she loves him and is not getting that love back. She seemed a lot happier when she was still studying and working before marrying him. Now she looks unhappy, all 3 of them do. Even the kid has only smiled and went in for a hug with Yu Ri. She is very apathetic around her father and Min Jung.

Not if you think about the fact he has a young daughter. A lot of men that lost their wives or that divorced end up marrying someone else right away when they have a small kid, especially if its a girl. I am not saying he did not feel anything for her at all. But if you are in his situation and a colleague comes to you, comforts you, says she loves you and would like to be the mother to your daughter...there is a high chance you will eventually give in. We know that she was there when Seo Woo was born. But they only married a few years later so she probably spent all that time beside him, being his support. I believe he does care for her and her feelings which is why he is so conflicted on what to do, but it does not seem like love to me. They have no chemistry and even when going to bed its like its late, im tired, we should go to sleep, ok go ahead, im finishing something, and then they sleep. There are no kisses or sexual relationships, which is weird since they are a married couple. I think like you said we will have to wait and see what future episodes will tell us, but so far their relationship seems very one-sided on Min Jung’s part. The lack of intimacy or real feelings on the male lead’s side might also be the reason we saw her with divorce papers. I do think that if he did in fact marry her just for the sake of his daughter, unless she was the one who insisted it would be ok, that she wanted to play that role and be there for him, then that was kind of a jerk move. I hope we have some clarity soon cause so far the male lead has been kind of disappointing.

As much as I want to believe this will have a happy ending, I cannot avoid thinking about what the title of the drama is implying. Since she died when her daughter was born, you can consider that her daughter said "Hi" when her mother came back to life, which means there will be a moment the daughter will have to say "Bye" after this. T T

Unless you consider it as the moment she was born. As soon as she said Hi to her mama, she had to say Bye to her too since she died right after birth. This would mean there is still hope for a happy ending, even if it is not likely to happen.

Yup. I have actually seen this actress play in high school dramas so that does not help. She can easily pass for a teenager/young adult. She just has that baby face.

From what we have seen he loves his previous wife more than his daughter. He had an argument with the doctor, most likely because the doctor could only save one or the other and he saved the baby and he wanted the wife to be saved instead. He attempted suicide even when he knew the baby would become an orphan. He most likely married Min Jung so she would play the role of Seo Woo’s mother. I am not saying he does not love his daughter. He did take care of her all by himself for several years even when he had a job that eats up a lot of his time. But he loves Yu Ri even more. Him and Min Jung being together is not fair for her. If their marriage was what is was without Yu Ri interfering, I doubt it will survive now. Min Jung is better off with someone who loves her wholeheartedly. She does not deserve to be someone’s substitute.

Well, its a wedding photo so of course he would do an effort to smile or it would be disrespectful to his new wife. But I dont believe he married her because he loved her. It was probably her who took the first step and he knew his daughter need a mother asap and Min Jung seemed like she would do a good job taking care of a kid. It is sad to say this, but I do believe she is in a way a substitute for Yu Ri. And no one deserves that. She needs someone who will love her wholeheartedly so even if Yu Ri ends up leaving, I think she is better off with someone else.

I feel bad for a lot of characters, including Min Jung. But the female lead has it a lot harder. Imagine dying the day your baby is born without being able to even hold it and then having to "live" years as a ghost seeing how bad your husband is, attempting suicide and everything, seeing your family, especially your mother, and friends suffer your loss, being around your kid but not being able to protect her, seeing your husband marry another woman and she taking your place as your kid’s mother. And now that she is alive feeling like she belongs nowhere. She cannot go back to her family, she cannot play the role of her daughter’s mother, she cannot go back to the man she loves cause he is already married to someone else, she has to avoid being seen by her parents cause she does not want to cause them any more heartache, she is alive but has no place in the world of living people. I feel bad for her several times in each episode.

Sure, Min Jung is in a really uncomfortable situation but its not like she did not know she was marrying someone who clearly had not gotten over his dead wife. She had a crush on him for the longest time and thought she finally would have a chance but neither him nor Seo Woo belonged with her in the first place. She knew what she was getting into but probably decided to ignore it because she just loved him. The fact we saw her with divorce papers before Yu Ri was even an issue, tells me that the year they have been married has not been a happy one, for all 3 of them. They almost look like robots around each other. They eat and sleep under the same roof and do the normal family activities in the eyes of society but they definitely do not look like they are happy. I think Min Jung really deserves someone who has space for her in his heart and that someone is clearly not the male lead.

Thanks for the info. You should have replied to Treehugger tho cause I have already watched this drama. I did not like it that much. So I wont be re-watching it either. The only Thai lakorn group I know that shares dramas on telegram is justanothermuse. What is the name of this group you are talking about? Maybe its better to reply in a spoiler, especially if you share the link.

Yeah. It was the only place I mentioned the drama other than the actual drama’s page so I was pretty sure it was here. XD

Glad you enjoyed it. I guess the drama would be Waiting For You In The Future. It was only a few days ago that I left that comment so I still remember. XD

Let me just say that both the police chief and the journalist disgust me. They play a huge part in all the tragedies that happen because of the unethical and morally questionable way they deal with things. The journalist sure is getting the fruits of his hard work and I am sure the police chief will too at some point. Btw, that was sarcasm. Sadly there are a lot of people like them in real life. And by acting this way they make regular people go to the point of no return - they either give up and commit suicide or just stop caring about anyone or anything and become monsters themselves.

I am not even halfway through it and my blood has already boiled quite a few times. I can only imagine what is about to come.

Sorry if I came out as aggressive. It is just that lately I have seen people throwing words like stalker, psychopath, homophobic, racist so easily. These words are very strong and yet are used lightly by people on the internet. Even tho we are talking about a character in a drama, I interpreted your comment as being one written by one of those people that like to throw these words out there just cause someone said X or did Y. But looking at it after I realized I dont know you so I could just be wrongly assuming things.

I do agree that there was something about the 3rd and 4th episodes that did not feel as special as the 1st and 2nd. But it was not necessarily the romance. I just started getting this vibe that they presented us with a unique drama that might be slowly heading towards a cliché one. It has happened many times before.

What I tried to take of positive from the latest episodes is that I want to know more about the male lead’s past cause I feel there is something about him that is not quite right. He acts like a loner but does not seem to want to be one so I imagine he went through some kind of tragedy or is hiding something about himself (who knows, he might actually turn out to be a stalker lol). I am also curious about why the female lead’s mother did what she did. Is she just a cold blooded person or is there something more? We know nothing about the female lead’s father so it is hard to guess what went through her head for her to do what she did. These things keep me watching.

Hopefully it will not turn out predictable and cliché like many other dramas I have watched in the past.

Yeah, that looked like her mother. An interesting character too. I want to know more about her and why she did what she did. She seems kind of cold and indifferent so I wonder if she is a psychopath or if there was something that triggered her. We so far know nothing about the female lead’s father.

Yeah. Copyrighted content on YouTube does not go unnoticed most of the time. It is always better to have a backup of everything in case the videos are removed. I am making a YT channel teaching people Korean in my native language and all the videos are backed up on Dropbox even if they are all originals with no copyrighted content. Better safe than sorry.

That is not stalking. He is writing about his crush and gave her a nickname so people would not find out it is her since he is still not ready to tell her he likes her. I think maybe he wants to write a book and he has every right to do it since its his life and the people he knows. Its not like he is following her everywhere, checking her messages or even invading her privacy. He is also not detailing her life in a way that is intrusive or creepy.

In fact he never even asked her anything about her ex-friend and just silently supported her by making her some tea and leaving her alone so she could deal with her feelings. He is very respectful and attentive. A stalker is obsessed and most of the time does not care about how his obsession impacts the victim. If he was in fact a stalker he would be looking at her while she is sleeping, I mean they are currently under the same roof. He would also be checking her phone, following her and trying to control who she meets with, especially if they are men. He has done none of those things.

You can say they have no chemistry, and I kind of agree but it would be hard to see any right now anyway considering the characters they are playing and the stage at which the romance is. But saying he is a stalker is too much. There is a line between a secret admirer and a stalker and it has nothing to do with the background music or the way he looks. He has not crossed that line so what he does cannot be considered stalking. If that was so then I would be a stalker too just cause I went to check a friend’s facebook page to see how she has been doing since I havent seen her in 10 years.