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So Pi O knows that his mom is very likely at fault and what?... and nothing? No talks to the investigation, no talks about what is going on? No talks that his friend gave him inspiration of the performance? No reflection? Just quitely under the rug keep searching for the guy that almost died because Pi O wanted him to enter the competition he didn't want to enter in the first place? I get it when he was a kid, but he is adult now, almost 30 y.o. if I got the gap correctly.

what a life you built! that's amazing to read!

I see, so basically you describe enabling that leads to co-dependancy. That makes sense. Thank you!

100%! Thank you!

Am I the only one who sees two people on screen that are doing their best, struggling, processing things differently, and having in life different goals? All of these "spoiled brat", "not being good enoough", "babysitting" - it seems too judgemental for me at this specific moment in the series. FL is clearly talented and wanting to succeed, but hit with no luck. ML is clearly reliable and wanting to build a life with FL. What is wrong with that? Just real people with their goals and compromises they make. They clearly love each other and where I stand for 10 years of dating have normal, expected issues to deal with. People change. Relatioship change. They all evolve. Can we just witness that with more grace and understanding?

I didn't see him flirting with the co-worker. He explicitly walked away from her and then observing her lunch invitation as a work thing with another guy realized he misunderstood her and gave some suggestions on the possible corruption issues.

What is the difference between helicopter parenting and taking 80% of the load in the relatioship when another person can give only 20% for some time?

But what are their issues? They seem perfectly fine to me as a couple. She has work issues that influence her confidence a lot and then spills onto the relatioship. All the spark talks at year 10 is about nothing. So as a couple they seem very healthy to me and at the level they know each other, they act as they have been married long ago. He knows that she is struggling and by proposing marriage he says, I am here, I will not go anywhere so do not give up on yourself and on us.

I don't know but I take it more like pre-marriage and after marriage thing. Where after marriage they would get a larger place and that is why she was telling she will look for an apartment to her mom in episode 1.

Got it. Thank you for the details! Even if this drama turns out to be about cheating (which I still doubt, and I agree with you that we need to watch a bit more of the show), I think it happens in society more commonly than people think. It's just a question of whether people talk about it or not. If talking about it helps to define some family relationships, then that is already a good thing for a drama to create some healthy (hopefully) conversations.

It was a 2016 study, but I read that ~50% of married men in South Korea admitted to cheating and ~9% of married women. I think that infidelity needs to be talked about instead of being swept under the rug. We can't just pretend it isn't there if we want to honestly reflect on society and move forward.

I see! TY for clarifying.

It is. But I also feel if she can do that, she can do anything else.

How do we even know that it is about cheating? I didn't see any in episode 1 from what I saw.

I think the main couple didn't break up because of a lost spark or a lack of love for each other, but rather because of the FL's expectations for herself. While the ML meets her where she is (based on what is shown to us), she wants to be in a better place and is unhappy with herself. This makes her very self-conscious around her partner, and she likely feels like she is dragging him down. So this is not a case of cheating. It's almost like his love for her amplify her insecurities and she's pushing him away because the guilt of feeling like a burden becomes too much for her.

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The butterflies in your stomach fade for everyone after a year or two due to basic human biology and how dopamine and oxytocin work. What remains is love and the active work of building a deeper connection—trust, respect, understanding, communication, support, and being a safe space for each other. The spark is something that happens to you, but love is a choice.

Yes, it was! Also the AR plot was fun to watch - almost like a place where they could forget everything and just be themselfs.

Such a nice show! I also like FL there, she seems very natural.

Oh me too... i started watching it this year and just coudn't finish. Also, I didn't like ML acting for some reason. But it was probably fine for those years.

why?... just why?

Did they really use his furniture?! That is like the next level whoa. Cuddos to the actors for choosing this script then given such a tight budget.