I'm teen and I still can't see SML i positive light. He acts more like a creep. Following her around all the time…
Well, yes🤔 I gave you a definition of stalking so you can compare the (real) stalking with actions of both ML and SML. That's the difference between facts and opinions.
If you felt offended when someone said you're nice it wouldn't be a slander just because you felt bad. You can feel however you like but there's a measure by which you can judge whether it's "wrong or no".
If you feel that SML's actions are so disturbing, it would be logical to feel the same about certain actions of ML.
Personally, I also don't like how hard SML is coming on to FL. But I can see a difference between him and a stalker (who, by definition, is a criminal).
I'm teen and I still can't see SML i positive light. He acts more like a creep. Following her around all the time…
Check this out and see how much of stalking SML comitted: https://legaldictionary.net/stalking/ And what about ML installing (in secret) spying app to show FL GPS location at any time? Either both have committed stalking or none.
I'm teen and I still can't see SML i positive light. He acts more like a creep. Following her around all the time…
I think the point Claddag was trying to make (although I don't understand the beginning of his comment) is that SML often gets criticised for things that would be defended if done by ML. You provided excellent example. ML can be rude (aka cold) and try to make someone quit their job and it's ok. He can come late at night to FL's house and ask her personal question while being almost stranger. It's ok. SML can't go after FL and offer her a ride or eat with her without being called a creep. And they were presented as friends or quasi-we're ar work- friends. If they were ML's actions it would be called flirting.
Read your comment again and you'll see it says: it was ok for him to make her job difficult because he stopped when she's proven herself to be better than expected from anyone at her position.
How do I feel the female lead is not comfortable with the male, all their kiss scene was imbalance, the male lead…
There were scenes when she has kissed him first. I think it showed progress of their relationship well: from him taking the initiative and her unsure how to react to her being comfortable with hugging and kissing.
That being said, it really is silly how long a woman who's 22 years old was showed to be uncomfortable with physical attraction, even if it was her first relationship.
Note, that I used word "uncomfortable" meaning she is unsure how to react/what to do in the situatione Not uncomfortable in a creepy way of having to fight of unwated caresses. I think you don't see a difference between them. The only time she has dodged his kiss directly was in the public space.
It's a nice watch for sure if you don't mind there's no big twist or gramd gestures. Mostly they hang out while working and eat a lot. Also, there's a lot of music/singing. The story is slow and so is the romance but it's ok when you expect a romcom with no drama.
What I didn't like was - the constant bickering of secondary actors (in second half their constant jokes and teasing grew tiresome), - how accomplished (in everything) everybody was, especially ML, it was simply unreal, - in comparison FL seemed to just go around and hang out with right people so her brilliant work got an easy debiut.
All in all, it was sweet but could be shorter and have some great gesture at the end.
As arguments go, saying that this is a married life because yours is similar makes a weak point. Others marriages look different. What I was dissapointed in was a lost chance to show how they could not only cope with the situation but also progress with their relationship. What we got instead was a lunch of the rocket 🙈 And the main couple seemed exactly the same as 5 or 7 years before.
the "nobel idiocy" you talking about is for his parents who is aging and need tremendous amount of money to maintain…
I thought the noble idiocy bit was about the ML rejecting the FL because "he has nothing to offer her" and I agree that this arc was the lousiest part of the story.
I've written a post below about it. There's no change in their everyday life from the moment they get together to the moment the drama ends. It wouldn't be a bad thing if I believed they have reached the top happiness. But it doesn't seem like this. They are constantly busy with work and have little time for one another. It seems they are going to stay this way for the rest of their lives.
Maybe it's just far from my personal idea of happy marriage but I felt somewhat dissapointed with the ending.
The leads are beautiful and have great chemistry. The drama sure has a lot of cute, fluffy moments that make you…
They got together and were happy because while ML's work was demanding (but important, propaganda much😉), FL was also always busy with her work and such a relationship worked.
That's what was showed after the first time skip (2 years). Let's not get into details and dwell on the fact that she has spend less than 2 monts in the same city as he (it was said in one of the scenes) which would mean they were hardly able to see each other.
But in the end (another time skip, of 5 years which gives 7 years of relationship) they continue to live exactly the same way. With one difference: they are married now.
It feels they are going to live like this for the rest of their lives which for me didn't feel romantic or happy.
Did I missed something that was pointing there was going to be a change in their life some time later?
The leads are beautiful and have great chemistry. The drama sure has a lot of cute, fluffy moments that make you smile giddily. But there's also A LOT of scenes that are really skippible, like the gaming, ML working (there are few episodes of him being at work in which there is not even a single scene with FL).
But what bothered me the most was the ending which didn't feel as happy as I expected.
I see it's highly rated but I got bored quite quickly. Maybe if I watched it while it was airing it would be easier to finish.
I really liked the idea. I liked the setting, I liked the acting, I liked how they were making fun of rom com clichés.
It's just that when the second guy gained awareness, I couldn't help thinking that they all will slowly gain awareness while still being forced to play their parts in the comic's love story. The repetitive "gaining of awarness" seemed boring to watch and watching someone being second lead without consent seemed akward and intrusive.
I totally lost interest in that moment. It's one think when FL is forced to give the heroine some milka or pass a book. But being force to romancing? Sadly, dropped.
I hoped the ML was so domineering because there was a backstory of him loving her from the beginning (or even before the period shown in the drama). Then he's manipulations would make sense - that he wanted to force her to get close to him (still bad but at least with some sense in it). In the end I lost the hope and was left with a story of a guy who takes everything from a woman who saved his life and is disappointed when she refuses to give up the rest of what was left of her.
I gave you a definition of stalking so you can compare the (real) stalking with actions of both ML and SML.
That's the difference between facts and opinions.
If you felt offended when someone said you're nice it wouldn't be a slander just because you felt bad.
You can feel however you like but there's a measure by which you can judge whether it's "wrong or no".
If you feel that SML's actions are so disturbing, it would be logical to feel the same about certain actions of ML.
Personally, I also don't like how hard SML is coming on to FL. But I can see a difference between him and a stalker (who, by definition, is a criminal).
And what about ML installing (in secret) spying app to show FL GPS location at any time?
Either both have committed stalking or none.
You provided excellent example. ML can be rude (aka cold) and try to make someone quit their job and it's ok. He can come late at night to FL's house and ask her personal question while being almost stranger. It's ok.
SML can't go after FL and offer her a ride or eat with her without being called a creep. And they were presented as friends or quasi-we're ar work- friends.
If they were ML's actions it would be called flirting.
Read your comment again and you'll see it says: it was ok for him to make her job difficult because he stopped when she's proven herself to be better than expected from anyone at her position.
That being said, it really is silly how long a woman who's 22 years old was showed to be uncomfortable with physical attraction, even if it was her first relationship.
Note, that I used word "uncomfortable" meaning she is unsure how to react/what to do in the situatione Not uncomfortable in a creepy way of having to fight of unwated caresses.
I think you don't see a difference between them. The only time she has dodged his kiss directly was in the public space.
The story is slow and so is the romance but it's ok when you expect a romcom with no drama.
What I didn't like was
- the constant bickering of secondary actors (in second half their constant jokes and teasing grew tiresome),
- how accomplished (in everything) everybody was, especially ML, it was simply unreal,
- in comparison FL seemed to just go around and hang out with right people so her brilliant work got an easy debiut.
All in all, it was sweet but could be shorter and have some great gesture at the end.
Whatever it's going to be, I'm not even slightest interested. Total pass for me.
What I was dissapointed in was a lost chance to show how they could not only cope with the situation but also progress with their relationship. What we got instead was a lunch of the rocket 🙈 And the main couple seemed exactly the same as 5 or 7 years before.
There's no change in their everyday life from the moment they get together to the moment the drama ends.
It wouldn't be a bad thing if I believed they have reached the top happiness. But it doesn't seem like this.
They are constantly busy with work and have little time for one another. It seems they are going to stay this way for the rest of their lives.
Maybe it's just far from my personal idea of happy marriage but I felt somewhat dissapointed with the ending.
That's what was showed after the first time skip (2 years).
Let's not get into details and dwell on the fact that she has spend less than 2 monts in the
same city as he (it was said in one of the scenes) which would mean they were hardly able to see each other.
But in the end (another time skip, of 5 years which gives 7 years of relationship) they continue to live exactly the same way. With one difference: they are married now.
It feels they are going to live like this for the rest of their lives which for me didn't feel romantic or happy.
Did I missed something that was pointing there was going to be a change in their life some time later?
But what bothered me the most was the ending which didn't feel as happy as I expected.
I really liked the idea. I liked the setting, I liked the acting, I liked how they were making fun of rom com clichés.
It's just that when the second guy gained awareness, I couldn't help thinking that they all will slowly gain awareness while still being forced to play their parts in the comic's love story. The repetitive "gaining of awarness" seemed boring to watch and watching someone being second lead without consent seemed akward and intrusive.
I totally lost interest in that moment.
It's one think when FL is forced to give the heroine some milka or pass a book. But being force to romancing?
Sadly, dropped.
In the end I lost the hope and was left with a story of a guy who takes everything from a woman who saved his life and is disappointed when she refuses to give up the rest of what was left of her.
So maybe that's why he's not yet famous.