The FL should have maintained distance from her ex.When her ex pulled her into a bathroom, she should have kicked…
Any women who gets dragged into mens toilet by a man would do things a lot differently than what the FL did.
A strong modern woman would not have a chat in mens toilet with a man who dragged her there, no matter the circumstance.
It's not about blaming the FL but the inconsistency in how she is being portrayed. the 2ML is doing his trashy stuff but the FL is not putting her foot down or maintaining her distance.
I still can not get over why she would ever wrestle the guy when she knows very well she has a girl and that girls works for her? Did the 2ML force her to wrestle him?
take another example of how firm she stands up to ML's mother in every interaction they have. In contrast, when her own mother was absolutely trashing ML and her parents, her tone and behavior is so meek.
The FL should have maintained distance from her ex.When her ex pulled her into a bathroom, she should have kicked…
That makes it ok for her to wrestle her ex who has a GF and that girl works for FL.
It is not about cheating but basic manners.
She has an office. Like every other professional in the world, she can arrange a meeting and talk to his ex in a meeting room. Or email him or call him...like every other professional. because that's what normal people do..
This is a typical Cdrama trope, the smart FL who turns dumb when it comes to 2ML.
I'm kinda sad that wu feifei is going to be an antagonist :( I really liked her in the first few episodes, and…
The FL should have maintained distance from her ex.
When her ex pulled her into a bathroom, she should have kicked him in the nuts and got out, instead she proceeds to have a 'talk' with him. There literally are numerous interactions which she could have avoided but for her job she engages him. Why would you even wrestle with the ex? What was she even thinking there? Did her brain go on a vacation or something? The guys is throwing bones at her and she is happily lapping them up.
Classic Cdrama FL, does not know the boundaries she should set with 2ML.
i doubt they dated for 7 years without having sex tho.
These are Cdramas. They literally make dramas where the ML is a good looking CEO/successful man who falls for a girl for the first time when he is 30 year old. Forget being virgin, these men are pretty much shown as never being attracted to any women until the FL comes along.
In fact look at the ML in this very drama. He is nearly 30..what is his deal with regards to romance and sex? Women have a monthly cycle, where as men, especially young have daily cycles, if you get the drift. These dramas want us to believe these men never even touched themselves, at least they are projected that way.
Have no idea why the ML is cast as Main Role. he is at best a supporting role in this drama.
His role primarily seems to be to make the FL better, to help her career, care for her and be the boy toy. Half way the drama, we basically know nothing about the guy except for couple of minutes of him working in some office and one liner about a girl he liked.
He definitely needed to apologize. In fact he should’ve groveled. He betrayed the only person that was ever…
FL is easily the best character in the drama. She is also one of the better FL's in Cdramas.
While ML story drives the central plot, FL is the main character and she has the best growth. ML is damaged and his growth will be limited given how he was an over-achiever at the start of the drama. FL was a girl in love, it back fired spectacularly since she behaved (as expectedly) like a girl. Now that she is a woman, in love, let us see how the drama makes her make grown-up choices and that includes how she deals with her over-bearing parents as well.
He definitely needed to apologize. In fact he should’ve groveled. He betrayed the only person that was ever…
People seem hung up on who should grovel and say sorry. Wonder who is going to grovel for how the ML was treated by FL parents?
What ML did was make the best decision possible in a very difficult situation.
irony is that the FL is a lot more understanding of what happened than viewers. She knows he did not betray her & for a fact ML does not betray her. He hurt her for sure and it was inevitable she would be hurt from the moment his sister died.
Random observation of most Cdramas and some kdramas.
Why don't we get POV of the ML? In most Cdramas, we listen to what ML says, we also listen to what others think and say about ML but we never ever get to hear the inner thoughts of ML. On contrary, the FL character is fully fleshed, every episode, we get to listen to FL inner thoughts which gives us an understanding of whats happening to her, what happened to her and gives us a precise position of where FL is.
For ML, it feels like we never know first hand of his thought process. There are no inner thoughts being shared with viewers..
It is a weird drama framing where we almost never get into the brain of one of the main leads of the drama.
I find your post rather insulting. One can be civil when it comes to expressing comments. There's no need to be…
And in most countries would end up in jail due to various social and economic advantage that provides.
I do enjoy dramas on these fake relationships...now and then. May be one or two a year and if they dumbed it down for entertainment purpose. It's like a wink wink drama, the drama makers know it's fake and they are like, we are making it because it's fun.
I find your post rather insulting. One can be civil when it comes to expressing comments. There's no need to be…
You are talking to some one who just finished "love in contract' and was frustrated by how stupid it was. And imagine the frustration to having jumped into yet another fake husband crap.
Forgive my frustration. but damn, it's raining fake wives and husbands in Asian dramas.
I found this fake husband thing quite logical! As women have no privilege in work Qin Shi was forced to put this…
I agree with you. Because I have never had that happen to me. I have never known anyone who had faced similar thing. So, in real life, you or me have zero reason to suspect it.
but, in Cdramas this is pretty common. So, in Cdrama world, every marriage and relationship should be suspicious. Half the time, the relationships are fake.
It gets better, We just finished a Kdrama where the FL has fake husbands for money. So, the world these dramas live in, this is pretty common. By default every one should be suspicious of everyone 😂
A strong modern woman would not have a chat in mens toilet with a man who dragged her there, no matter the circumstance.
It's not about blaming the FL but the inconsistency in how she is being portrayed. the 2ML is doing his trashy stuff but the FL is not putting her foot down or maintaining her distance.
I still can not get over why she would ever wrestle the guy when she knows very well she has a girl and that girls works for her?
Did the 2ML force her to wrestle him?
take another example of how firm she stands up to ML's mother in every interaction they have.
In contrast, when her own mother was absolutely trashing ML and her parents, her tone and behavior is so meek.
It is not about cheating but basic manners.
She has an office. Like every other professional in the world, she can arrange a meeting and talk to his ex in a meeting room.
Or email him or call him...like every other professional.
because that's what normal people do..
This is a typical Cdrama trope, the smart FL who turns dumb when it comes to 2ML.
He is an ex.
he has a gf
and she wrestles him.
really...why would she wrestle him?
We can make all excuses for the FL but she needs to learn to maintain a distance and a lot of manners.
Even in the toilet, she was supposed to be at a party with her husband she decides to engage her ex in a nice chat in mens toilet.
At this point, I am surprised why the ML fell in love with a self-centered woman who clearly don't deserve him.
When her ex pulled her into a bathroom, she should have kicked him in the nuts and got out, instead she proceeds to have a 'talk' with him.
There literally are numerous interactions which she could have avoided but for her job she engages him. Why would you even wrestle with the ex? What was she even thinking there? Did her brain go on a vacation or something? The guys is throwing bones at her and she is happily lapping them up.
Classic Cdrama FL, does not know the boundaries she should set with 2ML.
They literally make dramas where the ML is a good looking CEO/successful man who falls for a girl for the first time when he is 30 year old.
Forget being virgin, these men are pretty much shown as never being attracted to any women until the FL comes along.
In fact look at the ML in this very drama. He is nearly 30..what is his deal with regards to romance and sex?
Women have a monthly cycle, where as men, especially young have daily cycles, if you get the drift.
These dramas want us to believe these men never even touched themselves, at least they are projected that way.
he is at best a supporting role in this drama.
His role primarily seems to be to make the FL better, to help her career, care for her and be the boy toy.
Half way the drama, we basically know nothing about the guy except for couple of minutes of him working in some office and one liner about a girl he liked.
She is also one of the better FL's in Cdramas.
While ML story drives the central plot, FL is the main character and she has the best growth.
ML is damaged and his growth will be limited given how he was an over-achiever at the start of the drama.
FL was a girl in love, it back fired spectacularly since she behaved (as expectedly) like a girl. Now that she is a woman, in love, let us see how the drama makes her make grown-up choices and that includes how she deals with her over-bearing parents as well.
Wonder who is going to grovel for how the ML was treated by FL parents?
What ML did was make the best decision possible in a very difficult situation.
irony is that the FL is a lot more understanding of what happened than viewers.
She knows he did not betray her & for a fact ML does not betray her.
He hurt her for sure and it was inevitable she would be hurt from the moment his sister died.
Every trauma they have directly leads to them not being to touch girls or have girlfriends.
Please don't have accidents or any trauma guys.
Remember, it will directly affects your ability to interact with girls.
Imagine ML thoughts after seeing every pretty girl...
Does not make for a family friendly drama.
That aside, it is pretty strange though.
We never get to see inner thoughts of men in most dramas.
but would like if Cdrama show ML having internal thoughts similar to how they FL having them.
By now we pretty much get the whole story of FL, her aspirations, internal thoughts etc etc.
The ML is pretty much an enigma.
Why don't we get POV of the ML?
In most Cdramas, we listen to what ML says, we also listen to what others think and say about ML but we never ever get to hear the inner thoughts of ML.
On contrary, the FL character is fully fleshed, every episode, we get to listen to FL inner thoughts which gives us an understanding of whats happening to her, what happened to her and gives us a precise position of where FL is.
For ML, it feels like we never know first hand of his thought process. There are no inner thoughts being shared with viewers..
It is a weird drama framing where we almost never get into the brain of one of the main leads of the drama.
thumbs up for a lot of them
I do enjoy dramas on these fake relationships...now and then. May be one or two a year and if they dumbed it down for entertainment purpose.
It's like a wink wink drama, the drama makers know it's fake and they are like, we are making it because it's fun.
A serious drama doing this...
And imagine the frustration to having jumped into yet another fake husband crap.
Forgive my frustration.
but damn, it's raining fake wives and husbands in Asian dramas.
Because I have never had that happen to me.
I have never known anyone who had faced similar thing. So, in real life, you or me have zero reason to suspect it.
but, in Cdramas this is pretty common.
So, in Cdrama world, every marriage and relationship should be suspicious.
Half the time, the relationships are fake.
It gets better, We just finished a Kdrama where the FL has fake husbands for money.
So, the world these dramas live in, this is pretty common.
By default every one should be suspicious of everyone 😂