mooc

as I have said many times, the ML in Kdrama romances is a dildo for the FL to use as she wishes.
asking a dildo to have characterization and a life of their own beyond the single function to scratch FL's itch is asking too much.

It's time for MDL to stop having 'main lead' next to ML.
They are at best 3rd rate support characters. They neither have screen time or character ark to be called 'main lead'

From the looks of your preference of ML's in Kdrama romances, you lot love incel's.

The only sus are the ML's in kdrama romances.

I can't think of a bigger sus than a man like the ML who is a pure virgin waiting on the FL, who is happily fking other men for decades & get's treated by her like dildo.

Now reverse it and let me know of a drama where the FL is a pure virgin who only ever loved the ML and waits for him for decades, while the ML is happily fking other women?

name one kdrama romance?

There is a difference between badly written characters VS same ML in every Kdrama romance

FL's characters, whether good or bad, offer diversity.
Where as every ML in every Kdrama romance is a pure virgin who only ever loved the FL and waits for her for decades...

Hope you understand the difference

Go back to school.

The ML's in Kdrama romances are disgusting.

I can't imagine any woman, let alone a strong independent woman ever wanting to be with such a spineless wimpy simp who does not have an iota of self respect.

It's a pity that this is the ML we are getting in each and every Kdrama romance.

In this one, the ML is pretty much a dildo. His character ark is pretty much for the FL to take him out of her drawer, have fun, finish and lock him up until she gets the itch again.

You might want to see 'no gain, no love', 'Samdal' etc etc to understand how kdramas are preferring their FL's and ML's.

and being with men is very different to having male friends.
There is literally only one meaning to being with men.

ML is a confirmed virgin. The synopsis states it. The drama enforces this belief repeatedly.
On other hand, the synopsis for FL is very different to ML. The interactions FL has with men are very different to ML. The other characters telling us about FL pretty much confirms she has fked around. Even her own interactions with 2ML where she casually mentions sleeping with him as joke is an indicator how Kdramas view supposed "strong independent women" in their dramas. The shop keeper is just one among the dozen indicators we get regarding the FL.

In Kdramas, being strong and independent points to being openly sexual. That's basically what these stupid drama writers think when it comes to strong independent woman.

There is nothing wrong with FL fking around and enjoying sex with multiple men. It's normal and natural. No one waits for someone else for dozens of years. More power to any woman moving on with her life.

The only gripe is that this is yet another Kdrama romance where the ML is a pure virgin only ever loving the FL and never even looking at other women. That's just pathetic and repetitive. We have seen these pathetic wimpy ML's in almost every Kdrama romance.

being with other men = being with other men..It is exactly as it sounds.

In Kdramas, a strong independent woman is one who is open about her sexuality and has fked around. The strong kdrama Fl may love the ML but she never waits for him and gets her itch scratched by any available man since she is a 'strong independent woman'.

The ML on the other hand is the same same ML we see in every Kdrama romance, an extremely pure virgin who only ever loved the FL and never looked at any other woman ever.

Instead, why don't you stick to the topic at hand,

Topic is - Why are Kdramas so obsessed with ML being a pure virgin who only ever loved the FL, while the FL is happily fking others.

Why are the perverts in Kdrama land so obsessed with ML being a pure virgin?
Does the value of ML go down if he was having sex with other women like how most Kdrama FL's have with other men?

What is this perverted obsession of Kdramas to have their male lead as very very pure virgins who don't even interact with any other woman?!!

Relationships?
Were they married? Unless one is being pedantic, modern dating is pretty much an excuse for people to fk around.

'Romanc in Bonus book', the FL was not a virgin either. She has a child FFS

Nevertheless - the FL was not a virgin either. In fact she had many relationships before she met the ML.

Secret romance - We never see ML being anything like you said. It does not mention anything about either ML or FL in that drama.

Destined with you - the ML was extremely pure virgin, go and watch the drama. He could not give a crap when his fiance was enjoying herself with other man. The only woman ML in this drama ever loved is the FL. The FL on other hand was leaking from her private parts whenever she saw the 2ML.

Not sure about the last drama.

The lies people tell when asked to point at the perverted trope of ML being a pure virgin in Kdrama romance is appalling.

There is only one simple question you need to answer, that's it.

Name a single Kdrama romance in last 3 years where the ML is fking around while the FL is madly in love with ML and only ever loved him and waiting for him for years?
A single drama.

None of the dramas you mentioned fit the question I asked.

Where as there are nearly 20 dramas in last year where the ML is a pure virgin only ever loved the FL, while the FL is fking around.

Now, just give me the list I asked

What you said is true &
what I am saying is true as well.

The answer to what's happening to women in Korea is not these kinds of pathetic dramas, which would worsen relationship between the genders in that country.

I would say these shitty stupid dramas are causing more harm to Korean women.

agree with all that

These stories on their own would make for interesting viewing but for me they get spoiled by the writers characterization of the ML is who is predominantly a pure virgin & almost always is the one waiting for FL.

Now the question is, would this drama be any less interesting if ML had dated other women, enjoyed his life and when the FL comes back, his love for her comes to fore again?
It would not..

but the fact remains the writers mostly go with the same pure virgin ML waiting on FL in almost every Kdrama and the FL is shown having healthy relations with other men.

So, there is not a single drama where the ML was fking around other women, while the FL was a pure virgin waiting for the ML.

Would that be an accurate statement?

That's the base fact I want to start and then take you over dozens of dramas in the last year where the FL was fking other men and the ML was a pure virgin waiting for her.

No Gain, No love,
Samdal,
Serendipity's embrace

Let's start with these 3 and I will provide lot more if you need. it.

More excuses.

If what you say is true about synopsis why does it written so strikingly different for ML and FL.

'First Love' = the first person you love, not the only person.
'Only Love' = the only person you ever loved.

Sorry but even a child can tell you what they mean.

Don't mistake thinking that FL and ML are real people, they are not. These characters are mere thought process of writers.
The writer can easily show FL being very busy in city and hence no time for dating for FL.
The same writer can also show ML being in small town has loads of time and easy access to women for dating.

It's basically up to the writer to spin the story.
And who ever said big cities have more options for dating when compared to small ones has no grasp of reality.

Take 5 Kdrama romances in last 1 year and we can discuss whether you are right or I am.

It's a challenge

Huh, you seem to be misunderstanding something.

I want Kdramas to give ML similar depth as the FL, instead of always showing these men as pure virgins waiting for FL.
These dramas should show these ML's having good interactions with women, similar to how FL's have with other men. The interactions should be friendly, intimate and even casual sex, just like most FL's in most Kdramas have.

I am not slut shaming the FL's.
I am virgin shaming the ML's.

May be you should read my post carefully. Point to me where I asked for the FL's to be virgins? And more importantly, why do people get offended when someone points to how the FL is in Kdramas? Most FL's in Kdramas are drunk & easy with men. That's how they are shown. These same Kdramas also show ML's as smoking hot, pure virgins waiting for the FL to deflower them and never have easy interactions with any women. They are very stern, careful and very conscious when interacting with women, unlike the FL's.
Well, that's how these Kdramas characterize almost every FL and ML in almost every kdrama. If you got complaints, take it up with the makers of these shitty dramas, not me.

regarding synopsis, it's pretty clear, not sure why you would even disagree on that.
If what you are telling is remotely true, then the synopsis should read 'ML is the only man FL ever loved', instead of 'first love', just like how the synopsis says 'FL is the only woman ML loved'.

It's easy to understand what the synopsis is saying.

There is almost nothing feminine about most of the FL's in most Kdrama romances....If anything it's the ML's in Kdrama romances that have feminine qualities.

You are scaring me with your emojees..

read the synopsis,
for FL, it says ML is her first love, NOT only love & the casual fking she infers with 2ML.

With ML, the synopsis says FL is his ONLY LOVE.

What has going to Seoul got to do with anything, You mean the place where ML is staying does not have any women for ML to shag?

You are talking as if this is the first drama with ML staying as pure virgin for the FL, while she is happily shown fking around.
There are like 20 dramas in last year alone with same pure virgin ML and FL happily fking other men and finally settling with wimpy simpy pure virgin ML.

check Samdal & No gain, No love

name one Kdrama where the ML does not wait for the FL and dates other women?

the ML in every Kdrama romance is always waiting for the FL, while she is happily enjoying herself with other men.

It's the writers who write this pure virgin ML waiting on FL for eternity shit in every Kdrama who are to blame.