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She brought up divorce partly because yes he did blame her and she knew it and it made them unhappy not because she couldn't accept it as her fault which by the way while she overworked herself I'm sure as a doctor she thought it was fine but these things happen even if you don't overwork yourself and it's not like she wanted it to happen and GJ can feel whatever he wants but it's not something she did on purpose or wanted to happen she was just as sad about it if not more, plus I'm thinking she feels extremely guilty and as she said she tried to make it work for years (I'm guessing because of that guilt and that she understood why he blamed her, it wasn't a new revelation, and she didn't say why did you blame me? ) also she disagrees with him in public because they're both professionals and she wants what's best for her patients not out of a need to show him up or be better if he did the same to her and he was right she wouldn't even blink or tell him "oh you did that in front of everyone", also he treated her like crap in front of everyone else, worse it wasn't even in a professional capacity, she was an outcast and he never defended her or took her side, it wasn't until they got divorced that he said something to his colleagues who by the way wouldn't have dared say anything had they not seen how he treated her. Also saying a man wouldn't be okay with that behavior from a woman, as if a woman would be, because it hurts a man's ego, anyway the main thing I blame him for is letting his mother walk all over her and ingratiate herself into their relationship, and also seeing as how the director loves how she's so honest and compliments her all the time, it's sad how she was like to GJ" you never complemented me", she's trying to do better with the director which is going to translate to her doing better with GJ if he's honest with her, they both made mistake and since this is a drama they're obviously going to get back together so they need to address these things if it's going to be believable so they won't make them a second time.

Na Hee is amazing and I love her, she can be a bit abrasive and abrupt but it's never done with ill intentions she's just always honest and confident in her opinions and choices, while also being really vulnerable and introverted but she's also never been anything but kind and thoughtful, the way she risked her life without a second thought to catch that child abuser when judging by everyone else's reaction they wouldn't have done the same, she's an amazing doctor and seems to be the most competent in her field at their hospital, the way she took all the horrible treatement her mother put her through while constantly apologizing after her divorce not speaking about her miscarriage until it was too much, when she gave her brother a significant amount of her money without a second thought ( while having an uncertain future because she was going through a divorce), how she dedicated an hour every single day to help her sister study ( the way she did it isn't ideal but still), also I can't believe she held on as long as she did with a mother in law like that, I would've exploded a lot sooner, how she's brave and when she thought her and GJ were totally unhappy she was honest and brought up divorce not out of spite but so they can both search for happiness again, how she's trying really hard with the director and considering how her actions come off and affect other people, how she said she never got much physical affection as a child but she understood and loved her parents and all their hardwork and is proud to be their daugher. She's a wonderful flawed person and I truly don't get all the hate; plus Lee Min Jung is gorgeous and expressive.The way women get hate when they're strong, when they're weak, basically when they breathe never ceases to leave me utterly dumbfounded ( I comptelely understand people disliking a certain character though that's their prerogative) Protect Na Hee at all costs.

I'm kind of confused as to why they're acting as if we're watching 12 year olds date instead of grown ass 40 yo's , like they gave us a peck and a couple of hugs, the problem is things actually happen like in the elevator or on their vacation but they completely skip showing anything at all, is it the actors? I don't think so they've had some great scenes in their previous works, is it a writing choice? a directorial one? like why? It just strikes me as weird for a drama that's 90 percent about the evolution of a couple.

I'm so tired, I can't believe Jae Young is still being the worst even in the preview for ep 14, I mean what the actual f*ck, he's actually ruining the entire thing for me, I though after ep 12 we were FINALLY done but I guess we're not. I really don't understand what the writer thinks they're doing like what is his purpose? He's basically just there to be a d*ck to Yi Sang 24/7. I've seen my fair share of annoying second leads both male and female but this is too much.

Yi Sang is truly peak comedy, his aerobics dance in ep 12 was hilarious.

I'm really enjoying this show, the cases are interesting and although the subject matter is serious, it can be really funny also I really like the characters especially the female lead, she's just as smart as the ML and she cares about the truth and justice, I'm so glad we have a FL in a crime drama that's really competent, brave and intelligent. More of them please.

I've hated serial killers in dramas less than I hate Jae Young, the sheer audacity just baffles me to no end,I could write 10 paragraphs about how sh*tty his behavior is. I really need Ha Ri to put him in his place.

I really like this drama and I enjoy almost every single character and storyline, of course some of them annoy me sometimes but that's how complex human beings act ,the only scenes I skip are Ok jas she has no redeeming qualities, I really don't get how someone can be such a petty and mean spirited person, she goes out of her way to treat so yeon like trash, it's been 22 episodes and she NEVER misses a chance to be horrible, when there's absolutely zero reason to, ESPECIALLY after she started dating that man, like????? you've got him why would you still be so awful, how horrible a person must you be to still act like that? I know the writer is trying to spin the whole thing as funny, but it's honestly so revolting, and it sucks that toxic behavior is being used for comedic purposes because it makes it seem as if it's okay and totally normal.

Patriarchal societies really hate strong, assertive women don't they? I know Na Hee can be a bit much, but if she were a man, those people at the hospital and everyone else would never say the crap they said about her, it's as if women have to be docile and meek, and a woman who speaks her mind is an agressive b*tch but if it's a man most people wouldn't even blink, what a load of bs. Also is divorce some kind of capital sin in Korea? Saying your kid getting divorced is stabbing you in the back? What does it have to do with you exactly? It sucks but isn't it better for two people who are unhappy together to seperate so they can lead better lives? They're acting as if it's better to be miserable as long as it looks good to the outside world, I know we all care what other people think but lives shouldn't be dependant on what is ultimately a strangers' meaningless looks and words, as if they're going to live your life in your stead. As if marriage is an indication of success, countless married couples are a mess and staking your entire happiness on your children and how the world preceives them is really sad. And if someone's marriage just ended, they must be heartbroken, instead of comforting them you blame and curse them? What kind of behavior is that?

The brother throwing a tantrum after learning about na hee's divorce really pissed me off, what right does he have to judge her, also didn't she give him a lot of money for his business without any guarantees or conditions and didn't Gyu Jin also give him money even though they were already divorced I think? And he should know that because da hee said they got divorced right around her announcement he should be grateful as hell, what an immature child, no wonder his wife divorced him, he needs to do a lot of growing up.

The thing I hate more than anything is women putting other women down, the way those three market ladies acted towards Cho yeon and her girls, policing their clothes, looking down on them because of their previous jobs, internalized sexism really sucks.

Of course being in love doesn't mean she wouldn't want to be a mom, she still can though? He's not infertile, it's just hard for him to conceive just like it is for her? should he be blamed for something that's out of his control? He didn't plan to date her and in fact tried really hard to stop his feelings because he knows how much she wants to be a mom, also it's not like telling someone something that big is easy?they've been dating for 5 seconds it has to be one of the hardest things ever, especially when he was rejected for it by someone he spent half his life with and tried for 4 years not to form any emotional attatchements because he was THAT hurt by it but it just happened because he cares about her that much and he's trying SO hard,he actually went to the doctor for treatment on his own the minute he read her essay in the magazine, it's insulting that he can't be given the same consideration from her, they can still try to conceive, they can get sperm from someone else, they can adopt, there are a lot of ways to build a family. And saying in real life the woman would have left him is such a blanket statement though? maybe she would have, maybe she wouldn't there are women and men that stick by their partners because they love them, so being infertile shouldn't and doesn't mean in any way whatsoever that you can't fall in love and want to get married, and just in the context of the show, a woman did leave him for that exact reason and it seems that hari will too, at least temporarily so... Also she has zero interest in ED, should she date him because he has sperm...

Poor Yi sang, my heart breaks for him, his fiance of 17 years left him because it was hard for him to have children, and now that he's fallen in love again, it seems from the preview he's like let's a find a way together but ha ri says she's not confident so she breaks up with him; which is REALLY messed up, I know a child is what she wants most in life and he should have said something before they started dating and I understand her being upset but only to a certain point because didn't he tell her 10 times that he doesn't want kids EVER, and didn't she say love itself is a miracle so she woudn't give up on the person she loves, so what was she expecting, if it was actually someone who doesn't want kids, to change his mind? It's even worse because he does want them, i'm tired of seeing him get his heart stomped on, can you imagine how hard it was for him to love someone again and for her reaction to be like that... It's his worst fear coming to life. I know she's gonna come around but the way the preview shows she's handling the situation really tainted the whole thing for me and JY can miss me with his bullshit, the level of entitlement??? what right does he have to scream at YS, he never acted on feelings he's had for YEARS and now that she's with someone he wants her, can his ex-wife come collect him they deserve each other.

I love this drama but I'm still pissed about looney's ending to this day, basically everyone else got a happy ending, and they can miss me with that "oh it's realistic" bullshit like a lot of other things were way too happy and rosy, also we all know addiction is insanely hard, it's not something they needed to tell us, not to mention the fact that while some people never recover, a lot of people do, what kind of message is it when you basically say, you get addicted to drugs, your life is over especially coming from a show that's built on second chances, and the whole situation with him getting caught was SO weird, so cops wait for ex-addicts to come out of prison and arrest them the same day, like they have nothing better to do, it seems like they said you can include an lgbtq character but you gotta make him miserable in the end, otherwise people might start getting ideas.

Nope I do too, she's the only character I actively dislike, so far she's been nothing but selfish , conceited and lazy, I don't even know where she gets her self-importance , she doesn't even seem to be good at a job she considers beneath her.

Now that we're halfway through the show, I'm really hoping it keeps being this good, a lot of dramas tend to crash and burn in their second halves. The two things I would like to see most are no major tonal shifts, this drama has done such a good job of maintaining a balance between comedy and pathos and I want it to stay that way, the second thing is no unecessary break ups, no stupid trips abroad and time jumps so we can fill 16 hours, I'd like to see two adults working through their problems with honestly and understanding and as a bonus I would like to see some actual physical affection, they're neither children nor unexperienced, let's treat them as such .

Right? It's so well produced from a musical stand point, the ost is amazing, the sound effects, the background music, they're things that you don't need for a drama to be great, but when they happen to be great they elevate the whole thing.

Yoo mi has been fantastic in everything I've seen her in , and she always takes very different interesting roles, Joo hyuk is frankly mediocre as an actor but he can be decent if the role fits him well, like in WFKBJ, anyway let's hope it's good, netflix dramas so far have been mostly pretty meh.

I mean it was barely a kiss? I'm hoping we're going to get some actual kisses seeing as they're two adults in their fourties, also the whole theme of the drama revolves around conceiving and birth, you can't spend a whole show talking about babies and birth and not tackle what comes before.

Ha ri has been hilarious from the start, but Yi sang is so unexpectedly funny??? His conversations with his statue, the way he stalked eu tteum, his facial expressions and weird ass hand gestures,even the way he put on his jacket in the latest episode and the music in this show is so good, it just makes everything that much funnier, truly comedy gold.