There is also the counterpart to the near miss: the impossible find.
At some point, somebody can't be found and people go searching. If everybody goes to search random places, they usually don't find the person (if a person is found, then only by the leads or 2nd leads - but it is important that everybody runs around searching) If the lead does the searching alone he/she usually does find the person. Sometimes the lead is capable of finding the person because he/she knows him/her very well (e.g. You're beautiful) but sometimes they just find him/her because they run around the city long enough (there was even a jdrama where the female lead demanded the male lead to find her in the city, but i can't recall which drama it was. he found her 2times anyway). Well, apparently finding a single person in cities like Tokyo or Seoul while searching on foot is not that difficult.
And if somebody drags you by the arm, you totally have no chance to break away. Because that is absolutely impossible, even if you are a police officer, body guard or whatever strong woman.
If you meet somebody, you can't just talk to the person. First, you have to find a nice place to talk (why bother? if it's important, somebody will just happen to overhear it anyway - but that's a slightly different topic). Like, you have to at least drink a cup of coffee or you can't have a conversation. But it's totally okay to just leave the unfinished drink or untouched meal and walk away if the person makes you angry.