fiflydramalover:
Hmm you might want to try Painter of the Wind? My memory is a bit foggy, but I think the crossdressing wasn't bad there. Though i didnt really appreciate the pacing of the story if im honest.
I also liked how they did it in My Journey to You just because to adjust for the characters breasts, they padded her shoulders and had her always keep her back straight so it looked like she had a muscled chest. I thought that was pretty clever. What I thought was ridiculous though, was the way people found out she was a woman was she let her hair down XD this makes no sense because men also had long hair!!! Whether it was a man or a woman, assuming that the crossdressing is convincing, they would look the same when they let down their hair no? How silly lol
But also hey, some people just don't like it, which sounds like your case. Won't push you to try these dramas. I personally love the trope so I couldn't help but mention them 😅
I saw "The Painter of the Wind" and, as I remember, that's true, it might be better than the cross-dressing in recent rom-com sageuk.
I don't watch Chinese dramas so I can't tell, but from what you explained, yes, it seems they put more effort to make it realistic (although the thing about the long hair is indeed silly ^^).
That's actually not a trope I dislike in itself and I think it can actually be enjoyable if done well (or if they decided one day to make a male character to fall in love with the woman, but truly believing she is a man, that could be interesting or fun, but there is a long way to go before that I guess), I think Koreans just do it very poorly in sageuk because of their obsession over the beauty and how good actors must look in dramas.