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Guys, I know this is not BL related but I have a question. What should I do if I have feelings for a friend?

 Emrys:

Guys, I know this is not BL related but I have a question. What should I do if I have feelings for a friend?

Well depends on the situation 

I'm way too young to be giving romance advice but I'm sure some of the older and more experienced members on here can answer 

Perhaps @RXinw @AmericanFan @p43425 @FaeryWren (and anyone else)

 Emrys:

Quoting my own post to say: I think I have feelings for my online best friend, but we live on separate continents and well, I've no money to visit her. I don't know what to do about these feelings because I'm quite sure she doesn't feel the same. She's bi, like me, and we fit on many levels, but probably not when it comes to mutual romantic connections. So I think my question is, what should I do with the feelings? 

Maybe try talking to them about ur feelings. be open and honest about them and have a good conversation if she accepts then thats good but also be prepared for the negatives.

Hope this helps

Geminibaddie22

Just started To My Star and I found the first connection to Where Your Eyes Linger.

TB Ent : the entertainment company Kang Seo Joon is signed to-- is most likely a subsidiary of TB Group. The company owned by Han Tae Joo's father. We also see Kim Pil Hyun's role reprised (the frenemey in WYEL), where he is now older and the CEO of TB Ent. (which would make sense because his father was  a member of TB Group)

 OnyxTheHedgehog:

Haha who exactly is the child here? Lmao XD

In your mind, first you grow old, young padawan

 RXinw:

I have not corrupted any innocent minds so far *Smug face*

Note: Onyx was already dirty minded.

Shhhh, you're sitting beside me now in this imaginary friendship room of ours. 

 FaeryWren:

In your mind, first you grow old, young padawan

Loll ok MUM

 FaeryWren:

Shhhh, you're sitting beside me now in this imaginary friendship room of ours. 

*cough cough* where am I in this?

 Emrys:

Quoting my own post to say: I think I have feelings for my online best friend, but we live on separate continents and well, I've no money to visit her. I don't know what to do about these feelings because I'm quite sure she doesn't feel the same. She's bi, like me, and we fit on many levels, but probably not when it comes to mutual romantic connections. So I think my question is, what should I do with the feelings? 

Thanks for tagging people though lol

Love advice is one of those things that doesn't really exist honestly because we all experience it differently. In  the words of Dolly Parton, I can only share what I've learned, and mostly, it's the same if they were beside you. You have two options, come clean and face what's next or say nothing and remain friends.

Having said that, if you feel that she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, it might be best to sit with your feelings for a while before doing anything. Sometimes it can be other feelings that increase the urgency to want someone.  

Probably the least comfortable answer to hear but, when you love someone, who doesnt love you back, it can hurt in the long run, and it might do well to sort your feelings out, your own mind out, before acting on anything. 

In the chance that your intuition is correct and she only sees you as a friend, it makes moving on a little easier. 

If it goes the other way, and you both go for it, I have the belief that when love is real, it will work through anything because that's what humans do when they truly love something. 

 FaeryWren:

Sometimes it can be other feelings that increase the urgency to want someone.

T_T Thank you, I needed to hear this. I'll try my best to sort through my feelings and come back the other side sane and confident in whatever decision I made. I will also frame your answer because it's so perfect? Omg.