kardasx:
I just wonder... can a GL romance story of lesbian yandere boss (26) and her straight employee (22) be also considered problematic? I am just writing one story, but I try to keep the yandere part on non-criminal level and so it might just only be "I didn't know, that I can love women until I met you" story. :)
To a growing and increasingly vocal group of people - any romance between a boss and employee is considered problematic/toxic. Because there’s power imbalance stuff at play (theres a certain level of pressure to obeying your boss’s wishes and the fear of workplace retaliation if yall ever have a fight, etc). Though i suppose a Yandere boss could work better than most, as theyre probably not the one doing the pursuing. Idk, like most things, it depends on how it plays out.
i dont think that particular age gap (26-22) is much of a problem by itself. It’s that boss-employee dynamic that will prob be the most difficult. Especially in combination with the age gap.
In general, there’s also something to be said about writing something with problematic elements versus romanticizing it. So if the characters (or the narration) acknowledges it and makes moves to account for/rectify/make up for that, thats one thing. If the story just lets things go without batting an eye, mentions things in passing casually, or have characters just making excuses - thats another thing.