Tushan Jing and Xiao Yao, here's to a Happily Ever After

 Symbolika1:

Sharing some pics of bombastic Deng Wei from today! <3

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:D BB to read you here!

Looking good in white hair, honestly a lot of hair colors,suit him.

 peng-peng:

Some may argue that WXL chooses YSQ because only him was available as she also said it herself in chapter 36 when reuniting with her mother. 

This is something I dislike about her. She makes her own feeling for him look cheap and second and honestly it would make her mother and other think that she is settling as if she has no other options.  Is she ashamed to say it loud that he is in her heart even if let say he was 15% in it? 

 If let say my daughter come and say something like this about the msn she is introducing to me, I would tell her that there are may fish in the sea and that she is still young and does not need to settle. 

I do not like this kind of heroin at all. She needed too much push and guidance from  others.  Her want are not that clear. Lol. 

Umm...It's true though. Xiao Yao didn't much speak of her own heart desire out loud and prefer to keep it to herself. But I'd find it is to keep calm to herself. 

"She needed too much push and guidance from others." I personally do not think exactly like that. It's true she felt lost at times. But in the end, she actually follow her heart. 

I think my saying about  chapter 36 is not perfect as I skip something. 

"She makes her own feeling for him look cheap and second and honestly it would make her mother and other think that she is settling as if she has no other options.  Is she ashamed to say it loud that he is in her heart even if let say he was 15% in it?"

I personally do not think like that. What I missed to say is that there are many could think like that and also many XL fans are claiming it too. But you are right about XY making not much known about her own feelings. That's actually why I think ZX let her spend time with Jing, intially at least. In Asia culture though, or I'd say at some era and times, woman acting so much over a guy is not much well respected. She's supposed to be calm if even she was so much in love, especially not to act like that in front of people surrounding. 

But if we read that part in chapter 36 carefully, I think we could all get that and consider how XY assure her mother, I think XY is implying that only Jing could fulfill her desire for life partner. And XY assured her mother about Jing is that guy who will NEVER abandon her, and her own level of trust, rather than just letting out her side feelings. But i understand one could feel awkward because XY was shy and awkward at meeting her mom and introducing her bf to her. And I think A Heng understand XY as she chuckled.

Chapter 36

All..in all..I really like Jing assuring word "I'm here."

 Winny Aye:

All..in all..I really like Jing assuring word "I'm here."

:D The more I hear them...the more I like them! <3

@Symbolika1

Encapsulation of the Journey:

• The combined symbolism of water and the sea, along with the bird and the tree, encapsulates Xiao Yao's entire journey—a journey of self-discovery, growth, and the quest for authenticity.
• Xiao Yao's life is likened to a cycle where she explores the world, learns about herself, and ultimately returns to her authentic self and true home with Jing. The journey, much like water and a bird's flight, is a natural and transformative process.

In essence, this symbolism underscores Xiao Yao's evolution from a wandering soul to someone who finds solace, fulfillment, and her true home. It's a poetic representation of her profound journey of self-realization and the discovery of a life that aligns with her deepest desires and her choice for TushanJing.

Thank you so much sharing about the symbols of water and bird which representing Xiao Yao. 

She is such a wandering soul but most of the time I think she stays true to herself overall. I mean Xiao Yao is one of my fav female lead for no reason. Her strength is that she's able to true to herself overall. Her protective nature to love ones and her sympathy for all creatures. Yet she is able to be fierce if time call for it. Her flaws are that she is reckless and  felt lost at times. 

But overall I like how TH make Xiao Yao an ordinary woman with strength and flaws, yet very fancinating and inspiring. It's also applied to Tushan Jing, who is "as true as a tree" for Xiao Yao. I may talk more about him later. 

 Symbolika1:

Short answer=>  If availability were the only factor, she could have chosen other options, but her choice reflects a deeper connection with Jing. 

POV: excerpts vs POV: Whole picture and the destination/finallity :).

I’m always smiling when I see this picture 🫣.  She was busy staring at his eyes,while he’s focused on kissing her 🫣

 Romans_Revenge:

But I thought she said,’yes it’s only him, he’s the only one who wouldn’t leave me’. So where’s the availability coming from? Even Jing would’ve had second thoughts if she said only him is available.

She better have because that line grate me the wrong way not gonna lie. 

@Winny Aye 

. In Asia culture though, or I'd say at some era and times, woman acting so much over a guy is not much well respected. She's supposed to be calm if even she was so much in love, especially not to act like that in front of people surrounding.

I will accept that as her reason. 

Xiao Yao turned around and her heart fluttered in nervous sweetness as if she was on a secret date with her boyfriend and her parents caught them.

Yes this is indeed beautiful