mparthur:
Ari_Lee
Too bad Xiao Yao is not one of triplets.
TSJ- is willing to die or give up everything for XY. Bear in mind, he won't be able to protect XY if stronger enemies hunt her down like the two generals in Episode 13 whose power is mightier than TSJ's.
XL - he taught XY so that she could be independent of men. I feel his way is the most intelligent way but still, XY can be exposed to danger once her arrows run out.
CX has his army from both Kingdoms at his disposable. Plus the Ruo Shui clan's manpower to protect XY in danger.
So, I feel CX's method is the most effective way of protecting XY.
But, the winner is still TSJ because XY's heart belongs to him now although it was CX's in the past.
I like your points. I can add these from my point of view:
TSJ- lack of proper confidence. XL- his military style in dealing with his love, a kind of boot camp that may torture you seeking the best result. CX- Mostly focused on the end result and missed the journey of mutual love. Both XL and CX used lots of manipulations in their relationship with her. XY found genuine and unconditional love only with Jing.
I just finished the novel, such a wonderful experience! Especially with the great adaptation in drama, comments platforms, and you guys!