Kokuto:

That was my mom too.  She was, like you don't have to get married.  She was more concerned about pushing me to get a good job.  lol

But from some of the stories I heard later, 

I think my mom had my grandparents pulling out her hair. lol!

It sounds like our mothers have the same idea. Mum just wanted me to do well at school so I could get myself gainfully employed and provide a stable life for myself. In that way, I will have options and not have to worry about needing to marry etc. 

Did your grandparents pull her hair out for the advice that she gave you? :-)

 HeadInTheClouds:

It sounds like our mothers have the same idea. Mum just wanted me to do well at school so I could get myself gainfully employed and provide a stable life for myself. In that way, I will have options and not have to worry about needing to marry etc. 

Did your grandparents pull her hair out for the advice that she gave you? :-)

No, that was all on dealing with their own kid, my mom.  lol!  Apparently she was ... strong willed, shall we say, even when she was young.  I didn't really know my maternal grandparents as they passed when I was very young.  I suspect my grandmother was ... strong willed also, from the stories my Mom told me about her.  I know there's the stereotype of the submissive Asian woman, but most of the Okinawan women I've met are BOSS and very strong willed.

But yep, our moms sound very similar.

 Kokuto:

No, that was all on dealing with their own kid, my mom.  lol!  Apparently she was ... strong willed, shall we say, even when she was young.  I didn't really know my maternal grandparents as they passed when I was very young.  I suspect my grandmother was ... strong willed also, from the stories my Mom told me about her.  I know there's the stereotype of the submissive Asian woman, but most of the Okinawan women I've met are BOSS and very strong willed.

But yep, our moms sound very similar.

My mother was a total firecracker when she was young. She probably gave my grandma the most trouble out of her siblings, well, except for one particular uncle :-). She'd mellowed so much with age.

My grandmother was one tough cookie and one of the most genuinely kind and honourable people I know. She's the kind of person who would share her last cookie with a starving stranger. So many of my values are learned from watching the way that she lived her life and the way that she treated people.

 HeadInTheClouds:

@luv2bafangurl

Finally got my act together and completed my piece on Jing :-)

Part 1:

https://mydramalist.com/discussions/lost-you-forever/110123-xl-and-xy-story-and-romance-warning-spoilers?pid=2975847&page=499#p2975847

Part 2:

https://mydramalist.com/discussions/lost-you-forever/110123-xl-and-xy-story-and-romance-warning-spoilers?pid=2975991&page=499#p2975991

Thank you for letting me know, that you posted your essay already. You pretty much said everything I think about and more already, so I only write some things that came up to me after reading your post on the other thread.

I think Tan Jian Ci's movie, I MISS YOU, is doing pretty good.  Yesterday it had 600,000 pre-sales, and today it has 1.2 million!

https://x.com/PrincessJINGYI/status/1762245441905914129?s=20


And at least two of his brands, Murad and DeBeers are offering movie viewing parties in various cities in China.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/807434947498079/permalink/911681210406785/?mibextid=c7yyfP

 Kokuto:

I think Tan Jian Ci's movie, I MISS YOU, is doing pretty good.  Yesterday it had 600,000 pre-sales, and today it has 1.2 million!

https://x.com/PrincessJINGYI/status/1762245441905914129?s=20


And at least two of his brands, Murad and DeBeers are offering movie viewing parties in various cities in China.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/807434947498079/permalink/911681210406785/?mibextid=c7yyfP

Oh that‘s good news. Hope this will be another great year for him !

Some more clips from I Miss You. It looks really sad. That OST by Karen Mok doesn't help :-(

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1476799202870202

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1513290442736323

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1425673951374616

Looks like she had an easier time meeting the in-laws than he did

https://www.facebook.com/reel/712694284398907

Dating and hiding from future MIL

https://www.facebook.com/reel/772020148185962

Will he become sick? He's not going to die in this movie as well is he?

https://fb.watch/qtmBrwZeUH/

 HeadInTheClouds:
Some more clips from I Miss You. It looks really sad. That OST by Karen Mok doesn't help :-(

Thank you!!

Yes.  Every clip tears my heart out.  So much angst.

But I'm very happy with how Tan Jian Ci just disappears in this role.  I hope the story holds up.

 Kokuto:

Thank you!!

Yes.  Every clip tears my heart out.  So much angst.

But I'm very happy with how Tan Jian Ci just disappears in this role.  I hope the story holds up.

Yes. I cannot see XL, Dr. Mo or even Shen Yi in this character.

Agree about the story needing to hold up. Without strong script, even the best acting won't be  able to save the movie.          

 HeadInTheClouds:

It sounds like our mothers have the same idea. Mum just wanted me to do well at school so I could get myself gainfully employed and provide a stable life for myself. In that way, I will have options and not have to worry about needing to marry etc. 

Did your grandparents pull her hair out for the advice that she gave you? :-)

I haven’t visited this thread in days! T_T

My parents are the same, specially my mom. Very modern, too. Though I suspect she wouldn’t even have to say anything because back when I was very little, my Barbies were all worried about their various careers and I never once thought to ask for a Ken for them :) 

 Kokuto:

I think Tan Jian Ci's movie, I MISS YOU, is doing pretty good.  Yesterday it had 600,000 pre-sales, and today it has 1.2 million!

https://x.com/PrincessJINGYI/status/1762245441905914129?s=20


And at least two of his brands, Murad and DeBeers are offering movie viewing parties in various cities in China.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/807434947498079/permalink/911681210406785/?mibextid=c7yyfP

Awww that’s so awesome!! I wish the success is great enough for them to show the movie outside of China! ❤️

 HeadInTheClouds:

Some more clips from I Miss You. It looks really sad. That OST by Karen Mok doesn't help :-(

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1476799202870202

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1513290442736323

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1425673951374616

Looks like she had an easier time meeting the in-laws than he did

https://www.facebook.com/reel/712694284398907

Dating and hiding from future MIL

https://www.facebook.com/reel/772020148185962

Will he become sick? He's not going to die in this movie as well is he?

https://fb.watch/qtmBrwZeUH/

No he doesn’t die (I think) but it seems like he will go blind :( ugh.

 nathsketch:

No he doesn’t die (I think) but it seems like he will go blind :( ugh.

always the tragic hero. 

 nathsketch:

No he doesn’t die (I think) but it seems like he will go blind :( ugh.


 plor20:

always the tragic hero. 

I'm looking forward to Love Has Fireworks and Go East more than ever. Like hearted rom com and comedy detective sound good about now