Romance Where Strong, Female Lead Takes the Initiative

Okay, Sound of the Desert is a Chinese drama where the ML takes most of the initiative, the love triangle definitely gets in the way throughout the drama, and the really good parts require a fair bit of patience, BUT I still strongly recommend it. The Eternal Love is also a c drama where the ML takes the initiative, but again I still recommend it. Those two are the only dramas I can think of where the FL is strong and the leads definitely sleep together more than once. Sound of the Desert also has this scene. The King's Woman is another c drama (with multiple love interests, but also a strong FL and at least one bed scene as far as I can remember) that might still be worth trying. 

Korean dramas with some kind of sex scene or post sex scene (or both) and the FL doesn't freeze when kissed:

• Healer (if you count evenings and morning separately, there's arguably two sex scenes...)
• Fight for My Way
• I Need Romance 3* (I haven't seen the other ones in the series, but they might fit too)
• Jealousy Incarnate*
• Coffee Prince (the FL is a tomboy and not self conscious, but starts out shy when it comes to sleeping together, but she mostly overcomes it, a lot like the FL in It's Okay, That's Love minus the trauma-based phobia)
• Suspicious Partner

And maybe:

• Moon Lovers Scarlet Heart Ryeo (if you ignore their first kiss)
• Live Up to Your Name (the leads definitely sleep next to each other and cuddle in bed more than once, but I can't remember if the ever actually for-sure went all the way; at the very least there's a very passionate kissing scene in addition to the cuddling scenes)

*these have persistent love triangles, and in that sense the FL is not great at knowing what she wants

i hear your voice

I've seen Coffee Prince (one of my first K-dramas, which isn't saying that much since I just started watching them in July), Healer (one of my all-time favorites), and I Hear Your Voice (really good noona romance).

I've been watching Lie to Me, it's nice to see a couple that actually kisses.  It's just the most annoying type of love triangle: when the first love appears out of nowhere after years and wants to start back where they left off.

I have Moon Lovers: Scarlet Heart Ryeo on my list, but I've heard it's really depressing, and I kind of like things light and fluffy.  I've been trying to find Live Up to Your Name, but I don't know if it's available.  I've looked it up on DramaFever, Viki, and Netflix, but none of them seem to have it.  Where can I find it?

I've watched a few shows that start with a one-night stand, but they still don't end up back in bed until the end, which just seems a little odd to me.  I guess I kind of want an Asian take on something like Friends with Benefits, but I don't know if such a creature exists.

 wravyn:

I have Moon Lovers: Scarlet Heart Ryeo on my list, but I've heard it's really depressing, and I kind of like things light and fluffy.  I've been trying to find Live Up to Your Name, but I don't know if it's available.  I've looked it up on DramaFever, Viki, and Netflix, but none of them seem to have it.  Where can I find it?

Moon Lovers has some cute and light moments, but definitely more tragedy / melodrama. I could've sworn I watched Live Up to Your Name on dramafever, but it's not there now. I might've watched it while I was abroad. It's available on kissasian. 

 sneha ganguli:

My name is kim sam soon

I saw that one.  The whole first love re-enters his life and messes everything up...so annoying. 

 wravyn:

I've seen Healer (another really good show) and Coffee Prince, probably one of the hottest love scenes I've seen in a K-drama...Gong Yoo, le sigh...

 wravyn:

Coffee Prince, probably one of the hottest love scenes I've seen in a K-drama...Gong Yoo, le sigh...

REALLY?! annnd added lol