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Cool. Then wait for my next comments so you can come back and waste your energy criticizing them, just like a few regulars have been doing. It gives me some weekly entertainment. lol.

I’m just a viewer who makes a comment every week after watching the episodes. I’m free to have my own opinions about the contestants, even if you consider them “insults.” I’m entitled to them.

What’s funny is that you’re the one getting triggered by my comments and replying over and over because you don’t like what I say. Just look at how many times you’ve replied because you’re offended by my “insults” toward people who certainly don’t even know I exist. lol

It almost seems like I’m offending you and your family instead of some contestants who will never even see my comments. 😂

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You can also watch it on YouTube through Tencent Video’s WeTV channel, but the episodes are released with a one-week delay on YouTube.

Yes, and that is exactly my point. She can’t expect Hewen to behave the way she wants in order to show that he cares about her feelings when she doesn’t do the same for him.

Jiayi was the girl who led the guys on and only joined that show for exposure, right? I remember her. She led a few guys on to get their votes, while they ended up getting eliminated because she was only using them to stay on the show. lol

For me, they are annoying, dumb as fuck, and also red flags. What about it? It’s still my opinion. And yes, people who can’t recognize when someone is being unreasonable and hypocritical, yet still choose to abide by their wishes, deserve to get hurt. I think the people who get invested are the ones who end up getting hurt by other people’s opinions. Like most of you getting triggered by my comments.

Nowadays, most people can’t accept criticism, especially when it’s directed at someone they idolize. Even with these small shows, people become “fans” of the participants and can’t stand seeing anyone criticize them.

True, and from the 4 couples, one of the girls is even at the hospital and don't create much content. But I wonder what they will do after the confession? A trip for the couples maybe?

I’m pretty sure he’ll regret it in the future. Once his infatuation with Yue’er fades and he can no longer tolerate her red-flag behavior, he’ll probably regret not giving more attention to a girl who is better in every aspect than the one he chose to pursue.
But I also think this is good for Xiaoyu. She needs someone who genuinely values her, and Hewen clearly isn’t that guy.

I didn't know!

She even said she is unreasonable but the doggy guy said it is ok, even though he said in his card he doesn't like people like that.

I’m glad to see that Kaiyi and Yiheng are already confessing their feelings for each other.

Also, I think it’s funny that Hewen kept his distance from Xiaoyu after coming back from his date with Yue’er, even though she was there, free to hang around Xilun. Some men are really born to be dogs on a leash. lol.

I wonder why they decided to move the confessions up, though. Was it planned from the start, or did they decide to bring them forward because so many couples were formed early on? What’s going to happen after the confessions? I’m really curious to see what happens in the next episode.

It has nothing to do with choosing the woman I wanted. To be honest, I don't care about either of the men. I'm watching the show and giving my opinion about both of them. If you don't know how to read, there isn't much I can do for you.

I watch a lot of dating shows, and most of the time I don't care who they end up with. I watch them for entertainment and because I enjoy analyzing human behavior for my own amusement. If I want to criticize someone, I will. If I want to praise them, I will as well.

I think you guys invest way too much of your own feelings in these participants and somehow expect random people online to "respect" them and agree with your opinions about them. That's not really how opinions work. lol

I don't think they are comparable to Zhou Youling and Liu Liu. Youling actively pursued Liu Liu from the beginning. He had no one else pursuing him, and he was very good at setting boundaries. He wanted Liu Liu's undivided attention, but the difference is that he was also giving her his undivided attention. That's completely different from Yue'er.

I don't think Youling was jealous of Liu Liu, although he was definitely controlling. He simply wanted her to choose him. But at least he wasn't a hypocrite like Yue'er.

Second, Liu Liu is not the same as Hewen. Liu Liu didn't actually have feelings for or feel attracted to Youling at first, like Hewen does toward Yue'er. She initially liked BK, but when he moved on to pursue the 32-year-old woman, Liu Liu got hurt and even cried over it. Then a new guy arrived, and she still didn't know who she liked.

That's completely different from Hewen. Hewen has known who he likes from the beginning, he being considerate of the other girls's feelings is nothing like Liu Liu. Liu Liu only started giving in to Youling around Episode 5 or 6. During that date choice, the new guy decided not to invite her, while Youling was already putting pressure on her. Once the other guy had more or less given up, she eventually fell for Youling.

People love comparing contestants from different dating shows, but most of the time, I don't think those comparisons make much sense. The circumstances and personalities are often completely different.

People nowadays are so afraid of expressing their opinions and being criticized that they start apologizing in advance. lol.
Just say what you wanna say don't care about the people who gets easily offended. It is even better when they do :D

I prefer people who are mutually pursuing each other. The ambiguous ones and those who don't know what they want are the ones I usually skip.

This is exactly what I think, but since I use less polite words, people call me toxic. lol.

Xilun isn't brave; he just has no manners. He knows Hewen likes Yue'er and has been pursuing her since the beginning (He picked her card on the first day, he was the first to invite her to the stargazing room, etc.). Yet every time he sees Hewen and Yue'er together, he seems determined to put himself right in the middle.

For example, in Ep. 6, Hewen and Yue'er had just taken a photo together and were waiting for it to be revealed. Xilun immediately inserted himself between them at the pool table just to look at the pictures. He seems to think that constantly putting himself between them is some kind of proof that he's brave or serious about pursuing her.

The same thing happens when Yue'er tries to set boundaries indirectly. She said she was tired, and instead of simply telling her to rest, he said, "I'm tired too, let's find somewhere to sit together." Later, while they were already sitting upstairs, he still wanted to take her downstairs to paddle. When she said it was cold and she didn't want to go, he still went downstairs saying, "I'll go see if it's warm," instead of taking her words at face value.

That's the problem. He doesn't seem to pay much attention to what she actually wants. Unless she explicitly says, "I don't want to," he keeps trying to find a way to stay around her or continue whatever he wants to do. It isn't bravery or persistence. It's simply not knowing when to give her space.

It will be really funny if she doesn't choose him in the end.

Emotionally unstable people are also people with emotions. I didn't know they were real people until you said so. I thought they were AI. :D

Cool, thanks for letting me know.

Again, my couple Kaiyi and Yiheng are always the sweetest. Gotta love them both.

Meng Meng is already becoming annoying with all the crying over a guy who never really did anything toward her. She developed all these feelings on her own, in her head, got hurt on her own, and has now been crying for days over a rejection that never really involved the other person. It was all in her head. lol.

Xiaoyu, I feel sorry for her because she is a great woman, but the guy she likes is dumb as fuck and will probably choose the red-flag girl.

Hewen will cut Xiaoyu off because he doesn't want to hurt the girl he likes, while simultaneously sitting there and watching that same girl go on dates with another guy over and over again, just to satisfy her ego and her fantasy of having multiple guys chase her and compete for her.

Some guys really do deserve to get hurt by women, and that goes for both Xilun and Hewen.

I agree with you about the cards. But we know why he didn't give his card to her first: she was downstairs with another guy, giving her first card to him. She didn't even write Hewen's name on the second card. So even if Hewen wanted to give her his card first, he had to wait for her and Xilun to finish. After all, he isn't the kind of person who likes to interrupt others, unlike Xilun, who clearly has no problem doing that.
As for her knocking on his door, she did nothing more than what she was supposed to do. She was the one who created this entire drama because of her hypocrisy. She was the one being unreasonable, and she was the one who left without giving him her card, only to regret it later. So, so far, the only thing she has done right in this show was knock on his door to apologize.

You should seek professional help, you and all the Xilun fans who can't handle criticism. You wrote an entire book in response to three lines someone commented, and you still think they're wrong for blocking you. lol.
It’s just a TV show. People are entitled to say whatever they want and criticize whoever they want.