STFU. When has he ever trusted her? Just take today's episode as an example ; Flora has constantly told him that…
It's so exasperating watching him sprout the same jealous lines over and over again and eventually, she gets sick of it too, as any normal woman would.
What boundary should exist between best friends when a parent has died?!! There shouldn't be! Let alone one imposed…
Imagine watching a scene about a guy losing his mother and your only takeaway is "Flora shouldn't have hugged him." The lack of basic empathy is genuinely wild. It was a comforting embrace for a grieving friend, not a romantic gesture. Flora shouldn't have to compromise her basic humanity and loyalty as a friend just because Luke doesn't know how to handle his own jealousy. Even if you look at it through a more traditional lens where hugging friemds of the opposite sex is frowned upon, Flora is written as a modern, independent woman. She is capable of evaluating a situation and deciding that her best friend's grief matters more in that moment than rigid social etiquette. However, that doesn't make her a red flag as people claim or even an inconsiderate partner, it shows how loyal she is as a friend and that tracks with her character as these two people are very important to her. You are defending a grown man who sees his girlfriend visibly heartbroken, decides to play I spy from a distance, and leaves without asking questions or talking to her. That just goes to show this isn't about respecting boundaries, instead it demonstrates his immaturity and total failure to communicate. He made a devastating moment about his ego instead of asking Flora what happened.
I don’t understand tho, the problem is that she hugged the guy??? This guy was going through so much with his…
I agree... but I also feel that's what happens when eps are cut. We don't really get to see their development or lack of it. It's as if Luke is the same from beginning to now. Still refusing to see her POV and only wanting things his way.
Just like always, the main problem with this drama is Flora’s attitude. She never seems to realize when she’s…
What boundary should exist between best friends when a parent has died?!! There shouldn't be! Let alone one imposed by a partner who doesn't want to understand the close relationship between friends.
this is a bit rushed now, they wont explain why Sun YuanZhu decided doing suicide. they should explain it. i would…
It's a motored rushed in the novel... the ltr to Flora doesn't exist in the novel I don't think. It's very weird how a suicide only warranted a few paras. Even in the series, why wouldn't they have gotten in the ambulance with him?!
of course! She'll always be the one who comes off second best if it ever gets found out and her fears have always…
If their relationship gets found out, who gets the story end of the stick... she's a woman and a subordinate, double whammy. The rumour mill will say she slept her way to the top. All her hard work will be questioned as to whether she actually did or just favoured by the boss. He shouldn't have to protect her like that in order to survive a workplace. That's what she thinks about. Not that it will necessarily happen but it could and That's why she's hesitant about it all, and rightly so.
It doesn't mean he thinks she is dumb . In China and many other cultures that comment lands in a very different…
It’s a fine line. Sure, her reaction is her own responsibility to manage, but that doesn't absolve him of accountability. Her anger and hurt is valid and it's her laying down her boundary, not just a problem to solve.
It doesn't mean he thinks she is dumb . In China and many other cultures that comment lands in a very different…
That's not her prob, it's a him problem and his delivery. He said it himself, how did he turn out to be the person he hates most?! He hates it when his father talks to him that way yet he's talking to her exactly the same way.
I'm still mad they deleted that scene from the hotel it was one of my most anticipated scenes we were robbed 💔https://x.com/RahmaaInGi/status/2095380030884843689https://x.com/reveyi24/status/2095402332175704564
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Flora shouldn't have to compromise her basic humanity and loyalty as a friend just because Luke doesn't know how to handle his own jealousy.
Even if you look at it through a more traditional lens where hugging friemds of the opposite sex is frowned upon, Flora is written as a modern, independent woman. She is capable of evaluating a situation and deciding that her best friend's grief matters more in that moment than rigid social etiquette. However, that doesn't make her a red flag as people claim or even an inconsiderate partner, it shows how loyal she is as a friend and that tracks with her character as these two people are very important to her.
You are defending a grown man who sees his girlfriend visibly heartbroken, decides to play I spy from a distance, and leaves without asking questions or talking to her. That just goes to show this isn't about respecting boundaries, instead it demonstrates his immaturity and total failure to communicate. He made a devastating moment about his ego instead of asking Flora what happened.