I feel like just about every LYF character would benefit from some quality therapy sessions. But anger management…
I find it so disingenuous to bring up Dahuang standards to justify abuse and try to compare it to jing's case cuz as a general rule of thumb, being SA's and forced to marry your assaulter is wrong by any standard. and I would say qualifying "cheating" on your r**st as an "affair" wouldn't bode well with modern standards. And we wouldn't know about Dahuang standards because I haven't seen anyone yet in the show calling it an "affair" yet. You bring up incidents of XL apologizing after the fact as if that makes it better. in my mind it makes it worse cuz it just proves he is capable of rational thought and knowing what he has done isn't acceptable... even by dahuang standards it seems. But he can't help himself in the moment. Having other instances of lucidity especially when it comes to people he don't feel passionaly about , and certainly not compared to XY , doesn't remove the anger issues he has. maybe with his last moments I will feel better about him. but till then , I understand we have radically different outlooks here and I'll leave it at that.
That's honestly my biggest complaint about this drama. This second male lead is incredibly unlikeable that I don't…
EXACTLY ! I can't help but think that If he was played by a more capable actor, he could have outshined the main couple. and I specifically thought of Luo Zishang as well who had a similarily tragic back story was just superbe! till his last scene he was incredible. a
I feel like just about every LYF character would benefit from some quality therapy sessions. But anger management…
Maybe basic decency lessons about how it's bad to be physically abusive towards women are more urgently needed for him . Harsh words and his actions, telling her the truth about jing too are more than enough to drive her away. maybe treating her like an adult who is capable of making decisions as well. he didn't need that heart clenching attack . it just felt gratuitous and in line with his pattern of brief outbursts of violence towards her. Also nah I remember how he easily snaps into devil mode with red eyes when she mentions his mentor and savior. so anger management can also benefit him .
you were in team Gong Ziyu , team Xie Wei and now team PWX😆😆
LMAO. I guess it helps that they are all played by a HOT as hell actor lmao. Gong ziyu is still my favorite out of the three. That's my OG baby. I had a difficuly with PWX with the earlier episodes but that speech he made to SGY when LR established the inspectorate office made me understand him and appreciate him .
What did you feel bad about? feng long wouldn't even be taking this seriously. he doesn't even love xiaoyao.
no one deserves to be jilted in front of his peers and family. and be the talk of town and gossip. whether he loved her or not he never made any insincere confessions.
SRQ on paper is someone I should fall in love with. he has classic tragic hero traits. all his family got annihilated, he was castrated and he has a rightous journey towards revenge. in another show he could be the ML. but here don't know whether it's the actor not doing well or it was intentioally acted this way but I dislike him so much and I want CP to antagonize him all the way and thwart all his machinations. he seems to want to make a trophy wife out of the FL. for someone who was her "companion" for 17 years he truly didn't know her. I had SML syndrome sp many times before before but I am safe here. ML respecting and supporting his wife 's ambitions makes him one of the best MLs.
XL never missing a chance to remind me why I hate that character so damn much. that world has magic and phoenixes but it could really benefit from anger management therapy.
That poor little boy, kept asking why jing never comes to see him. XY was lucky to have such a great dad, who…
no child deserves to be abandoned but I can't blame jing for not being able to be truly there for him. he is afterall a product of SA in Jing's mind ( before he realizes the truth). I hope though that he never grows up to know that at least.
love that tushan jing surrounded with loyal people (worth dying for) because he himself is a loyal person. his…
exactly. he cares for his friends and the people surrounding him so I'm glad to see them genuinly loving him back. his dynamic with his dog bestfriend is funny af lmao
I am the happiest today. I waited too long for today's episodes 😭😭😭 When my yaojing are together in the same scene my heart truly dances. ❤️❤️❤️ XY being her larger than the world self and jing is the beautiful soul that he is. They love each other so much. tat hug omg Their tears are ao precious 💕
I am also admiring TSJ as character. He went through hell but he still stayed true to himself. I don’t understand…
I agree. I don't think people would have been that disgustingly flippant about a women getting drugged by her own family and r****. it's a culture thing as well. some people don't think boys CAN get SA. but yeah as soon as I saw that rhetoric taking place here I took a break from this comment section for a while ngl. it was a disturbing environment and I feel for people who could have been triggered by that. I only knew recently that blocking was a possibility so maybe i'll start doing that this time around but hopefully it won't get that ugly again.
I am also admiring TSJ as character. He went through hell but he still stayed true to himself. I don’t understand…
I am not talking about disliking jing. that's quite legitimate and you are well within your rights to feel he is shady or whatever and others are free to disagree. I dislike so many characters on this show including XL because of multiple reasons that I have stated back when. I am specifically refering to the hate train that is quite from what I observed motivated by stanning wars. and no to answer I have never went on weibo and knew nothing about cdramas before I randomly started watching. I was first into kdramas and I don't believe it was this bad. but I was not on mdl back then so prolly just the same and i was just blissfully unaware. So yeah was quite a weird environment at first not quite dissimilar to kpop wars. And no I am not interested in the entertainment industry aspect of it all. but to each their own and people enjoy what they enjoy. just not my thing and i prefer to avoid arguing with hardcore stans as much as possible . having dishonest discussions driven by agendas is not something I want to indulge in. I wasted enough time on kpop.
I am also admiring TSJ as character. He went through hell but he still stayed true to himself. I don’t understand…
Look at you using logic and all it's quite refreshing in this comment section 😜 like Jing literally got r****d with his own grandma's blessings. and so many people are willing to overlook that and victim blame him for that incident. I find that revealing about how toxic stanning culture is because imo, people hate on him for a one quite simple reason : they stan someone else. as I observed, a lot of people here are stans of the actors as well and have a vested interest in the popularity of their character. I used to be a BTS army at some point so I witnessed firsthand how stans rivalry could lead to shaming demeaning other idols. I didn't think I'd find that in cdrama land but here we are. I personally couldn't care less about the actors career and i'm only here for the story. So I learned in S1 that it was pointless to argue with stans. I am here to comment about the story , I would say what I like and what I dislike regardless. maybe fangirl about my favorite characters with some fellow like-minded people. But I don't care if they hate on Jing. He is one of the reasons I love this show and that wont change because of other people's rage.
and I would say qualifying "cheating" on your r**st as an "affair" wouldn't bode well with modern standards. And we wouldn't know about Dahuang standards because I haven't seen anyone yet in the show calling it an "affair" yet.
You bring up incidents of XL apologizing after the fact as if that makes it better. in my mind it makes it worse cuz it just proves he is capable of rational thought and knowing what he has done isn't acceptable... even by dahuang standards it seems.
But he can't help himself in the moment.
Having other instances of lucidity especially when it comes to people he don't feel passionaly about , and certainly not compared to XY , doesn't remove the anger issues he has.
maybe with his last moments I will feel better about him. but till then , I understand we have radically different outlooks here and I'll leave it at that.
as well who had a similarily tragic back story was just superbe! till his last scene he was incredible. a
Harsh words and his actions, telling her the truth about jing too are more than enough to drive her away. maybe treating her like an adult who is capable of making decisions as well. he didn't need that heart clenching attack . it just felt gratuitous and in line with his pattern of brief outbursts of violence towards her.
Also nah I remember how he easily snaps into devil mode with red eyes when she mentions his mentor and savior. so anger management can also benefit him .
Gong ziyu is still my favorite out of the three. That's my OG baby.
I had a difficuly with PWX with the earlier episodes but that speech he made to SGY when LR established the inspectorate office made me understand him and appreciate him .
but here don't know whether it's the actor not doing well or it was intentioally acted this way but I dislike him so much and I want CP to antagonize him all the way and thwart all his machinations.
he seems to want to make a trophy wife out of the FL. for someone who was her "companion" for 17 years he truly didn't know her.
I had SML syndrome sp many times before before but I am safe here. ML respecting and supporting his wife 's ambitions makes him one of the best MLs.
I hope though that he never grows up to know that at least.
When my yaojing are together in the same scene my heart truly dances. ❤️❤️❤️
XY being her larger than the world self and jing is the beautiful soul that he is. They love each other so much. tat hug omg
Their tears are ao precious 💕
but yeah as soon as I saw that rhetoric taking place here I took a break from this comment section for a while ngl. it was a disturbing environment and I feel for people who could have been triggered by that.
I only knew recently that blocking was a possibility so maybe i'll start doing that this time around but hopefully it won't get that ugly again.
I am specifically refering to the hate train that is quite from what I observed motivated by stanning wars.
and no to answer I have never went on weibo and knew nothing about cdramas before I randomly started watching. I was first into kdramas and I don't believe it was this bad. but I was not on mdl back then so prolly just the same and i was just blissfully unaware. So yeah was quite a weird environment at first not quite dissimilar to kpop wars.
And no I am not interested in the entertainment industry aspect of it all. but to each their own and people enjoy what they enjoy. just not my thing and i prefer to avoid arguing with hardcore stans as much as possible . having dishonest discussions driven by agendas is not something I want to indulge in. I wasted enough time on kpop.
people hate on him for a one quite simple reason : they stan someone else.
as I observed, a lot of people here are stans of the actors as well and have a vested interest in the popularity of their character.
I used to be a BTS army at some point so I witnessed firsthand how stans rivalry could lead to shaming demeaning other idols. I didn't think I'd find that in cdrama land but here we are.
I personally couldn't care less about the actors career and i'm only here for the story.
So I learned in S1 that it was pointless to argue with stans. I am here to comment about the story , I would say what I like and what I dislike regardless. maybe fangirl about my favorite characters with some fellow like-minded people. But I don't care if they hate on Jing. He is one of the reasons I love this show and that wont change because of other people's rage.