Trisha

You complaining about the paragraph about complaints is even more ironic.

Why are they forcing 2ML on her? The story doesn't need him at all. His acting is so out of place, can't stand him.

How is she a stalker for hiding her identity? SkyAbove is exactly right. 2ML is a creep and a stalker who likes following women at night. "He didn't mean anything wrong" he literally stalked her, found out her address and now is trying to force himself into her life.

I didn't like the ending hinting at them being together again. He was never interested in anything she said and was never there for her. I would've loved to see shan have another love interest or be alone and just heal.

Its only ep 3 and they've sprinkled all the cliched traumas they could for them both. They would be good characters with potential even without that, but these writers can't help themselves.

Wife caught him in the act and agreed so as to not separate. He didn't really talk to her to seek her consent. So what if she stopped wanting sex? Is that all he cared about? That shallow ahole. She has all the right to seek comfort in anyone she wants.

Are women only there for sex and intimacy for men? She wasn't in the mood and she communicated that to him, he found another lover to have sex. That is in no way her fault. He didn't even have the guts to tell her himself. She is not a terrible person at all but yall wanna equate her to the trash otoya is.

When you do that you run the risk of being with someone who will help everyone and when its time to be there for you, he'll still be helping a stranger and leave you alone. There is no winning whatever type you go for lol

Couldn't stand tu ling in the first few eps. The actor always overacts and in the first ep it was so insufferable. Knowing he's the lead i don't even wanna continue.

yep exactly. CMD knew she would leave after new years, why didnt he communicate with her and ask her about her plans? Why didnt he try to take a job in shanghai for her? After that engagement, why wouldn't she be scared and leave? She wants to be ambitious but still has the pressure of expectations about her coming back to her hometown,which he doesn't face. he only tries to make her stay back, never goes to her.

He already did, before they even got together. And he didnt have everyone on his head telling him to leave his job and his life.

CMD has been saying he would never leave nanping and she has all the pressure of leaving her job and her whole decade long life in shanghai for a guy. She's been living there since high school too. Everybody's telling her long distance won't last, so i dont blame her for at all.

Sure, its your preference! It doesn't really make a difference though since they both experienced hurt because of eo before or after dating. Mayber ep 17 will change ur mind since i've watched till there and it was pretty great ep to show their dynamic.

He pushed her away for so many episodes and blocked her, didnt talk to her, never tried to get to know her until she persisted. What he was doing in earlier episodes was way more frustrating than ZJ reliving her trauma and actually apologising. I wonder were you just as frustrated in the earlier episodes as you are now. And no im not hinting at misogyny, im saying expectation should be the same for both characters. If you are not talking about her giving up her career, they are both pretty much the same at giving affection and being understanding lol.

And why does one of them need to make a concession of giving up their career for the other? Why is set in stone she is the one who needs to let go of shanghai? Why are you not expecting CM to leave nanping for her? They are both flawed and both want to live lives their own way. Thats not selfish at all.ZJ is plenty supportive for him too especially in the new eps. Whenever CM leaves her and everyone for work, everyone is understanding of him, but no one has called him selfish for that yet. I wonder why.

she does appear more in later episodes. Not much in early ones.

Except you have given 0 evidence to support that FL's get away with cheating when i asked for it. Your point is useless and you keep trying to go the roundabout way bcos you want men portrayed as cheaters to be forgiven. Otherwise, why r u even making a fuss. Men get away with a LOT of toxic shit in dramas and that isn't new.

Show me 25-30 shows where the female lead cheats and is forgiven. Go on. I'll wait. Do u know why its hard to find? Because women cheating in NEVER accepted by the audience while men cheating on women gets a pass from the audience if he shows a bit of sincerity. Cheating men SHOULD be exiled and isolated. Idk why u r so hellbent on women forgiving men for their awful deeds.

What are you even saying? That's not the case at all.

When does shengnan get to know what an absolute scum qian yue is? He is setting up huanzhen and gets to be so smug i wish we see him get eviscerated. From the start, everybody has been setting up plans to destroy huanzhen's life and people here dont want her to be scared or have an attitude? She gets blamed for everything but has to keep a cool?