Flora was definitely in the wrong this episode but I don't see the problem with bringing up marriage and the future…
The problem is she has no empathy and brought it up when he was hurt and angry for the online dating and the entire thing with her ex. We know how he is when he is hurt and jealous. There was a similar situation when she said to him „I don’t only want to watch sunrises with you but also sunsets“. She said it at a very bad moment too.
Tag says tsundere ml, is he really? Is he obsessive/possesive/ red flag?
No he is not a red flag. Possessive and jealous yes, but imo rather tame. He is actually very loving and caring, always supporting her. She continues to shut him out and put up walls between them, not communicating, which repeatedly causes him to get hurt/jealous/angry and then he uses very harsh words, even insults, towards her. But by no means a red flag in my book.
Most people here blame Luke for everything. But honestly, if SZT was a man I‘d run in the opposite direction as fast as I could. Which woman would want such a partner? So why is Luke mainly to blame? Some of what he says is definitely too harsh, but honestly if Flora were a man and were your partner would you just swallow everything she does and go happily about trying to be a couple?
Whenever did he call her easy after she was sexually harassed?
First, he said you LOOK LIKE, not you ARE, meaning to someone who doesn’t know her she could seem. Second, he said „easy to pushover and control“, not „easy“ like in morally loose, meaning she’s too helpful at work letting others give her tasks no one else wants to handle. Third, he never said that after he knew she was actually harassed, so you’re taking it completely out of context.
I love Luan Nian the way he is. He cares deeply and helps and supports SZT at every turn, from the beginning onwards. He is sweet at taking care of the dog he never wanted. While SZT keeps shutting him out, putting walls between them time and again. This behaviour might have made sense in the book, but definitely not in the drama because drama Luan Nian is such a caring and supportive partner.
Third, he never said that after he knew she was actually harassed, so you’re taking it completely out of context.