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Eh no, wot I meant was why can’t it be longer…….. that’s just mean. They should abolish the last minute thing. Yea, it’s a different mindset, the whole tragedy thing.

LOL!
It honestly should be a slight mistranslation.

But the purple eye thing I truly thought/remembered he knew about it before they float upwards in mid-air… I thought about it and I think they were trying to say that he knew she had the jade but….., it’s not in her eye…..?

I still wish they don’t do it for xianxia. This practise is a bad practise. 😠

Yeap, this is fair.. but just like any courtship, the person who initiated the courtship be it male or female always gets the implicit upper hand in getting to choose to walk away.

Pity yes, and also why LSS pitied him because he didn’t choose to be born that way, it is not his fault in that sense… but that’s not the same thing as love. Compassion and empathy does not necessarily equate love.

But some of my Caucasian friends and colleagues also told me it is more of an Asian thing for some reason… we’ve analysed it before and think it’s related to education and family/cultural upbringing.

I think our generation is already luckier because of the awareness of gender bias, disparity etc… it will take a lot of time to change social norm.

Lol. I realised because in xianxia TV series it is sooooo short, I do that nearly all the time…. 🤣 regardless of woteva kinda ending. Yea, maybe BE I give up and curl up into a ball for a day…. Hahahah

Yeap, most defo true.

Yeap, it will have the same effect. I do think he is dashing and charming…. I really liked him in the previous modern drama with BaiLu. But then it doesn’t mean I would fall in love with him if he does that to me… or as the matter of fact anyone I find dashing and charming. I might not be able to help myself from like wanting to care for him and liking him or helping him…. But like why would I want to stay with that person forever if it’s always about getting even with you, punishing you etc. That is legit madness.

Exactly. But I know in psychology there is this a real thing that stems from women’s innate motherly love that out of reflex responses and maternal hormones they just want to “save” people… like kids, helpless people, the sick etc etc.

I think that’s how the whole domestic violence thing started and yet surprisingly a lot women choose to stay in marriages despite of domestic violence….

Yeap, based on an average person he is most defo sadistically obsessed which he himself views as love.

EXACTLY! I’m also baffled by like how…. there is harshness though….

Is this why women a have been bullied and taken advantage of for ageeessss and there is the whole MeToo movement thingy…..? But if that is the case then I think it’s also how women naturally just fall for bad guys/humans when they are all charming and dashing….

I don’t think YXW loves him per her own standards and I think TTJ loves her per HIS standards but that is by no means an average being’s standards….. regardless of modern times or xianxia world. 🤣

Yeap, I totally didn’t like the novel… at all. Also found the whole bit with him and YBC superb turn-off, she’s like her half-sister. They grew up tog, related by blood. Like how sick is that…. Ewww!

I don’t really get why some people who watch the series feel she’s harsh though (regardless of the novel)….. she has been chasing him around the whole time, putting in so much time, effort and energy… also not to mention like she genuinely cared for and had compassion for him from the moment she opened her eyes as YXW…. But then wot has the ML done for her…. Nothing much no? I mean even the fox also asked him, like wot did you do for her? Did you give her loadsa stuff? He was kinda pitiful AFTER she died, but I think YQY, her brother, made a very good point…. “She didn’t want what you gave, and what she did want, you were never willing to fulfill. She just wanted to leave you, and for that, she sacrificed so much, do you really not understand?”

I mean the only thing I can think of is he brought her family to Jing, but even with that it wasn’t coz of her, it’s coz he needed to get YQY to work for him without any worries. The Empress thing…..? But that’s even more messed up, he didn’t even want an Empress to begin with. He didn’t need to sacrifice/compromise anything to give her that…

I actually think it’s because a lot of people admire and find Mr. Leo Luo superb dashing and charming…… 🤣🤣🤣 coz if you step back and objectively look at their relationship solely based on the drama, I seriously don’t understand why she’s harsh though… which part……? I actually think she’s too kind and gentle…… imagine if it wasn’t Leo Luo… I mean… 😒 like if this was some Tom, Dick or Harry in a modern day relationship…. Wouldn’t most girls just tell him to piss off…..?

Ah, that gaming scandal thing…

Damns, it really is a 6.0 and with so many people rating/watching it…. ☹️

So low?? Whyyyyyyy? I thought it’d be like at least a 7…..

But I kinda want to laugh wrt this coz it’s like now she just refuses to leave the screen, it’s actually kinda funny. Lol.

She is! And it’s so ironic because I think some viewers felt pity for her because of how good the actress was!! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

I usually pacify my half-hanging heart by finding for the novel and reading like extra chapters, epilogues…
Yea, it most defo is dramatic ok. Almost makes one go 😐😐😐 that’s it?? Whyyyyy…. So shorttt…. You didn’t reward my hard earned efforts of watching…. 😭😭😭

Haha, true that, most of it is literally like under 5 mins. I never realised on my own though until someone else pointed it out. But why though?

Haha, I didn’t realise it prior but one of the MDL posters told me before that one of the characteristics of xianxia is they reveal it last minute…. maybe like 5-10 minutes before the ending 🤣, So even if it’s HE it is literally left until the end.

Hurm….. ok, hopefully the progression is smooth and they will wrap things up properly. No weird editing plz. 🙇🏻‍♀️